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    Yeah I just got this message over SM. Threw me for a loop. My better judgement tells me not to believe a word of this. Matter of fact, I'm considering reporting this to the admins. What would you do if you got a message like this?
    raisingthestandard <19883107>Sent: 01-10-2014

    To:Tattooed_Goddessxo
    SUBJECT: SUGAR DADDY OFFER

    Hey Dear,



    My name is Andrew. I am a 26 year old attorney who also has a Masters in Accounting (MAcc). I am single with no drama in my life. I practice sports and entertainment law and travel a lot. Furthermore, I care for my dying father. My long hours and my fathers health situation cause me to not have time for a relationship. I live in Orlando and usually do the sugar daddy thing offline but noticed you, your kind nature, and looks and decided to ask. What I normally do is a 5k per month paid in biweekly or weekly installments due to the fact that I own my law firm and my personal funds are tied into my firms funds. This allows me to not have any issues with the IRS. Depending on where you live is what I expect. If you do not live close them I simply expect regular cam shows of a relaxing and submissive nature. I understand that you could say well you can do that on here but I have odd hours plus I know you make only a minimal percentage of the amount you charge. All I expect from you is to do anything in your power from cam shows, to pictures, to videos or even meeting to take my stress away and my mind off of whats going on in my life. In return I will do anything in my power to help you better your situation and help you pursue whatever goals you may have in life. Thanks for taking the time to consider my offer. Hope to have you as my sugar baby. Take care.



    Respectfully,



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    There are links in your post. You need to go in there and edit your post to take these out - security risk for your account. You must have copied and pasted it without making it plain text.

    I would assume it's bullshit. 5K a month isn't even enough to give up your SM money. Not only would you be taking a risk of being banned for doing outside deals, the minute he tires of you (and they all have an expiration date, no exception) you are back to square one, starting over.

    My guess though is that it's all bullshit. Most of these types just want to scam you with some type of bogus payment method they know they can reverse and get a free show.



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    thanks for the info on editing it, youre right, i dont get why it was doing that either..

    yeah, i can see that this is totally bullshit. the fact that he brought his supposed "dying father" into it, i found disgusting. was he looking for some sort of pity party for a cam show? Seriously.. guys these days.

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    Also Ive just reported him to the admins

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    He's lying. If he were an attorney he would know commingling of personal and law firm funds is illegal and against the ethics code of every state Bar and can get him disbarred immediately. Other stuff too. What a jerk. Sorry you had to deal with this creep.
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    Quote Originally Posted by babyd View Post
    What I normally do is a 5k per month paid in biweekly or weekly installments due to the fact that I own my law firm and my personal funds are tied into my firms funds. This allows me to not have any issues with the IRS.
    ....What?


    All I expect from you is to do anything in your power from cam shows, to pictures, to videos or even meeting to take my stress away and my mind off of whats going on in my life.
    ..... What?

    Wait lol, he uses his firm's funds to pay for sex but somehow - somehow that is totally kosher to announce via electronic communication. why? because he's a lawyer / accountant / business owner / son to a dying father / dom it seems / a gaping open wound - so trust him, damnit. This is a trustworthy and discreet gentleman.

    Unless he's an established regular (this is the big "unless", generally big ticket offers from someone who refuses to use the site's established platform to pay you any amount first is the best gauge for BS) - the letter is very generic, very usual $cam language, probably a template he sends to many? Probably worked once so he keeps trying. No offense intended

    Add in the whole "I know you dont make much here, so........." and praising you on your kind nature on a porn site despite requesting fetish shows and personal sexual services - like a bingo card for attempts at scamming. Let us know if he follows up and mentions PayPal, free teasers, sob stories about how he cant front payment because of girls who scammed his kind nature, or for your facebook so we can all yell Bingo.





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    Quote Originally Posted by babyd View Post
    I understand that you could say well you can do that on here but I have odd hours plus I know you make only a minimal percentage of the amount you charge.
    This line right here is almost always a guy trying to scam you. If he's got the money, then it shouldn't matter what site or processor you use. He doesn't need to worry about that, and he can just tip you even more to make up the difference.


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    He would have lost my attention at "I am a 26 year old...." could care less what comes after that. The best way to show good intentions is for a MAN to pay for the services that you DO provide. First and foremost. They should pay for the services that you have listed: Webcam, Phonesex, Fetish Clips, etc etc. That would be them showing respect. Anytime they try to push you beyond your set upon boundaries block and move on. It's not worth it.

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    Add in the whole "I know you dont make much here, so........." and praising you on your kind nature on a porn site despite requesting fetish shows and personal sexual services - like a bingo card for attempts at scamming. Let us know if he follows up and mentions PayPal, free teasers, sob stories about how he cant front payment because of girls who scammed his kind nature, or for your facebook so we can all yell Bingo.
    I LOL'd hard!! Thank you. We could totally play this bingo game but I actually blocked him. I'm trying to do this gold show thing (which is prioving to be highly unsuccessful thus far) and apparently attracting twerps like that to my inbox.

    This is by far the weirdest thing thats ever happened to me on SM

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    Block, Banish, Behead. He is a time wasting scammer unless he sent 5k with that message in which case just block and banish but don't behead. This is what he deserves
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    I don't know ANY "Lawyers" who own their own firms at 26 years old. I smell Bullshit. Also, if he really was a business owner, he'd realize that payroll taxes, income taxes, and others can make or break a business. No legit firm is going to risk their business to skip out on taxes. Also, how does "he" know you only get a percentage of your earnings? Anyway, it's most likely a model trying to catch you stealing traffic or some douche bag hoping you'll contact him off the site over promises. He does NOT get to pass GO.




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    26 year old sugar daddy...... BAHAHAHAH

    Yah and what Kortney said, 26 year old and owning a law firm? Get real.
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    In general I would never take a sugar daddy offer seriously unless the dude had been showering me with money on cam for months and months prior to a proposal like that.

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    When I was new on sm, I probably received these weird letters 1-2x/week. I should have saved them. Some had pictures, and one was a man on a sailboat in open ocean, and the guy, claiming it was a pic of him, forgot to remove the writing from the bottom corner indicating it was a Dutch advertisement for male enhancement pills. lmao I was propositioned by a model in a Dutch Viagra ad? :-D

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    What is there to think?? Are new to camming? I get messages like this at least 3 times I log on SM, guys spit BS all of the time....
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    Lol @ 26. Haa that guy is so full of it. I just had a guy do the "I'm so very busy why don't we exchange number because it's "EASIER FOR HIM". lol Told him it's not necessary I'm online all the time and if he isn't then I guess I will not be seeing him again. Guy will be in someone else's room trying the same tactic. Apparently it must work on someone if they keep doing it. All these men are trying to use the lure of fake money to get some free facetime from a cam model. It's no different than a guy walking into a strip club and stating "He doesn't go to places like this , just here for the drinks". If that was really the case he'd sit his ass away from the stage , keep drinking his warm beer and keep his mouth shut. Yet he's looking for free attention and hoping he can get a number to make her his FREE fwb.

    Just delete the guy and block. He's not on the site to spend any money or he would have already. He's shopping for free ass.

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    I've been in the adult business for a decade and the number of times I've seen stuff like this is laughable. They are always full of shit.

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    A legit sugar daddy would have introduced himself with a good long Excl, not a message. Bet he copypastes his nigerian letter to everyone.

    Quote Originally Posted by SarahTime View Post
    26 year old sugar daddy...... BAHAHAHAH
    Yah and what Kortney said, 26 year old and owning a law firm? Get real.
    Come on, it's legit! Everyone's read "50 Shades of Grey" )
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    Classic con artist.
    Tells you he is successful.
    Wants to cut you off from the income you make now & be totally dependent on him so you will do what ever he wants in hopes of making money.
    Promises big money.
    Wants your bank account number so he can wire you the money.
    Pulls out all the stops with caring for a dying family member. Surprised he didn't use he has cancer himself or was in a car accident. It is the sympathy ploy.
    Tells you how nice you, false flattery to soften you up. How you are so different from the other models who are all money hungry bitches. Setting you up NOT to ask money from him.
    Wants you to be submissive so he can take advantage of you & be an asshole in the name of domination. Aka wants you to have no self-esteem or control so he can rip you off all he wants.
    Wants you to break the law with the IRS so he can blackmail you with that information later on to get what he wants.

    Wants you to take payment OFF site so you can make all the money. LMAO Let me guess paypal? or better yet your bank account number.

    He assumes you are broke & disparate how lovely of him. Already he looks down upon you & need him to have a better life. He is so much better than you a whore.

    These are also classic signs of a man who abuses females mentally, verbally & physically. Blocking is the only solution to douche bags like this.

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    I love how these ego-maniacs con artist tell us for our own good & due to how much the site takes out of our earnings they are doing us a favor with going off site.
    1. We willingly signed these contracts after reading them & agreed to the terms. Nobody forced us to sign up with that cam company.

    2. They assume we all sign the same contract. Personally I have negotiated with cam companies & gotten a higher percentage. It is doable.

    3. They want you to go off site so they can blackmail you with personal information they can get from your personal email address. A decent hacker can install a typing program so they can read what you are typing on your computer. Such as real name, real address, bank accounts, credit cards, family members & such. This is one of the reasons cam sites tell us to NEVER give out personal email addresses & such. It is for your protection.

    Stay safe ladies,
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    LOL i got this exact same letter last week! First he came into my room asking if i was interested in being a sugar baby so i told him to make with the sugar or is he just serving splenda. after that he just left. then after my shift i had this letter in my inbox word for word copy paste. i wrote back saying if he wanted to discuss details he can take me exclusive. not surprised i never got a reply. i knew he was full of it as soon as he came into my room but it gave me a good laugh.

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    Quote Originally Posted by babyd View Post
    Yeah I just got this message over SM. Threw me for a loop. My better judgement tells me not to believe a word of this. Matter of fact, I'm considering reporting this to the admins. What would you do if you got a message like this?
    raisingthestandard <19883107>Sent: 01-10-2014

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    SUBJECT: SUGAR DADDY OFFER

    Hey Dear,



    My name is Andrew. I am a 26 year old attorney who also has a Masters in Accounting (MAcc). I am single with no drama in my life. I practice sports and entertainment law and travel a lot. Furthermore, I care for my dying father. My long hours and my fathers health situation cause me to not have time for a relationship. I live in Orlando and usually do the sugar daddy thing offline but noticed you, your kind nature, and looks and decided to ask. What I normally do is a 5k per month paid in biweekly or weekly installments due to the fact that I own my law firm and my personal funds are tied into my firms funds. This allows me to not have any issues with the IRS. Depending on where you live is what I expect. If you do not live close them I simply expect regular cam shows of a relaxing and submissive nature. I understand that you could say well you can do that on here but I have odd hours plus I know you make only a minimal percentage of the amount you charge. All I expect from you is to do anything in your power from cam shows, to pictures, to videos or even meeting to take my stress away and my mind off of whats going on in my life. In return I will do anything in my power to help you better your situation and help you pursue whatever goals you may have in life. Thanks for taking the time to consider my offer. Hope to have you as my sugar baby. Take care.



    Respectfully,



    Andrew

    Well he is an awful liar....I mean who makes partner at 26 years old in this day and age. Plus he actually took the time to say he has a Masters in Accounting....B-U-L-L-S-H-I-T LOL. Plus how come he did not pay upfront instead of talking out of his ass

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    The only sugar daddy offer I got on SM was in an EXL and a tip of $50. After he tipped, he wanted to know when we could meet up. I told him I could only be a virtual SB because the site rules were for both our safety. He left after that




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