Something that I discovered kind of on accident this weekend (then when I realized what happened I kept dong it successfully) was to do my usual hi, how are you doing, where are you from spiel for about two minutes. Then kind of look at them blankly for like five seconds, then start playing on my phone. 9/10 they would ask me for a dance within 30 seconds.
The first time it happened (on accident/without planning), i just bluntly stopped taking to him cuz he didn't seem like he was going to get a dance and I got a text, which at that point, I was obviously more interested in. I usually don't get on my phone around customers cuz I I think it's rude but I really didn't care at that point. He asked me for a dance and I was like sure! He ended up getting 3 (the club I work at is mostly stage money and customers rarely get dances so that's pretty significant)
I think the reason why this worked for me all night was because I came up to them and was nice and they're thinking ok, nice innocent seeming girl who's gonna chat me up for free until she drops the dreaded dance question on me after ten to twenty minutes (that's how most girls do it there, it's not a "wanna dance" club). Then when I randomly stop talking and ignore them, but I'm still sitting there, I'm just more interested in my phone than them, they are confused. They want to know how to get my attention back. I've made it obvious at that point that I'm not interested in small talk. The only surefire way to keep MY attention at that point is to give me money.
This worked every time that night except once. Every guy got at least one dance, and one guy was just like "here's a 20 if you want to sit and chat for a bit". After about two minutes one guy didn't say ANYTHING so I just sighed and got up and said "well if you want a dance later you know where to find me" (politely) and then he apologized profusely for not having enough for a dance and finished his drunk and left.
I can't wait to try this again next time I work. It puts them in an awkward position that they feel the need to fix. Let me know your thoughts



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I don't like guys like this because everything with them is about how to push boundaries. They Make Me Sick.


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