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    Hey everyone. I dance for 4 years but new to the site, so nice to meet you all

    I was wondering do you ever spend time with customers after the dance? Do you have a standard thing to say to them when the dance is over or do they ever demand attention? Is there a policy in your club about this and have you ever heard a complaint about leaving the customer after the dance? It happened to me lately and I was kinda surprised about it..

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    Well, the only thing I'm known to is ending it for him giving "extra's" - the places I were it was kind of set all from the beginning.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kimbe View Post
    Well, the only thing I'm known to is ending it for him giving "extra's" - the places I were it was kind of set all from the beginning.
    I know, my friend is on the same boat

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    Quote Originally Posted by sweet_p View Post
    I know, my friend is on the same boat


    (Fillintext)

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    I take my money, say thank you, let them know how great of a time I had with them and that I hope to see them again (including a mention of my schedule). Kiss on the cheek and bye. There is a small handful of customers I will hang out with after dances because I know they will get more dances, but not with the average customer unless they explicitly say they want to take a break and more dances later. Most customers get that.

    What happened in your situation that ended with a complaint?

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    Quote Originally Posted by shanna dior View Post
    I take my money, say thank you, let them know how great of a time I had with them and that I hope to see them again (including a mention of my schedule). Kiss on the cheek and bye. There is a small handful of customers I will hang out with after dances because I know they will get more dances, but not with the average customer unless they explicitly say they want to take a break and more dances later. Most customers get that.

    What happened in your situation that ended with a complaint?
    He said that i didn't pay much attention. It was totally weird, like we were married and had sex or something. I was perfectly kind and all, I don't know what some guys expect? To cuddle?

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    Depends on how much $$ they spend and how hot they are.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sweet_p View Post
    He said that i didn't pay much attention. It was totally weird, like we were married and had sex or something. I was perfectly kind and all, I don't know what some guys expect? To cuddle?
    Eh, you can't please everyone. Some dudes get really into it and don't get that this is a job, so once the money runs out, we're gone. I think as long as you're being warm when you're parting ways (kiss on the cheek, saying thank you, etc., etc.) than I wouldn't let this dope bother you.

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    After the dance, I try to milk him for all he is worth!

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    Quote Originally Posted by sweet_p View Post
    He said that i didn't pay much attention. It was totally weird, like we were married and had sex or something. I was perfectly kind and all, I don't know what some guys expect? To cuddle?
    Getting paid after doing a series of dances can be awkward. He's still feeling aroused and the dancer has her hand out to get paid. I usually warn them that I'm going to put my business hat on for a moment, then I ask to get paid. As he is paying me I tell him how much fun it is to dance for him and I hope he comes in to play again another time. I also offer my work number so he can text me to find out where/when I'm working. I try to get his number, if I can. I don't abuse having a customer's number, but will check in occasionally to see how he's doing.

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    Unless they are still spending money there is no reason you have to stay with them after the dance.

    If you feel inclined to stay with them only do it for a few minutes. and then let him know you have to get back to work. If he stays he may be open to buying more time/dances with you later.

    The more time you sit without being paid, the less money in your pocket at the end of your shift.

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    i've never had any problems with simply saying " thanks, have fun!" and then having the guys just exit the dance area while i finished getting dressed. if i have a very good regular i might stay and chat for 5 min tops, and then say goodbye. never had a guy be pissed at me for moving on, as they were doing the same. that guy sounds like a cling-on

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    If the guy only buys a few dances I'll say thanks and move on to the next. But if a customer spends a lot of money in dances, I'll sit with him for another drink afterwards as long as he's still showing interest. In that time I continue to be flirty and try to convince him to go for more dances. After another drink he'll be loosened up more and sometimes it works. If 10 minutes or so has gone by and he still doesn't want more, I leave.
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    It depends on whether or not I think they're going to spend more money and how busy the club is. If I think they might spend more money (i.e do more dances) and there aren't really any more customers I will go and sit with them for a bit. But if I'm not really sure if they'll spend more and I have many more prospective customers I say I'll let them relax for a bit and check in with them later.

    Sometimes I can tell a customer is totally done and wants me to leave so I'll just let them be. Other times I sense that they want me to stay with them in which case I do my cost-benefit analysis. I do find though that sometimes leaving and getting another customers attention is a better way to get them to spend instead of just hanging out with them after a dance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Victoria X View Post
    After the dance, I try to milk him for all he is worth!
    LOL, in this context I guess "I try to milk him" can be at least an ambiguous statement

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    If you've already milked him, staying with em after is like retrieving a used Kleenex out of the garbage. No good.
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