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    Sad How Do I Hide From My TOXIC Roomates That I am a Dancer?

    To be clear when I say roomates I mean my brother and mother, both of which are toxic body regulating, slut shaming, victim blaming, sex worker hating, transmisognistic and sometimes racist two faced freaking emotionally abusive blood traitors who I share a very toxic home situation with.
    And by toxic I do also mean unstable as there have been threats of eviction and recurring violence over the past year ever since I came out about wanting to be a sex worker.

    I have a back up plan in case I am evicted (see second link bellow) that involves me living in a hostel with roomates till probably March however if i were able to work for a week or two now while I still have a roof over my head and food in my belly I would be able to safely save up enough money to get a bachelor apartment and I would not have to worry about not having a safe place to sleep and the possibility of being homeless for a whole month!

    PLEASE TELL ME HOW TO SUCCESSFULLY HIDE FROM MY ROOMATES THAT I AM A DANCER.

    Scheduled Time To Reach Goal: <http://iamalittlelestrange.tumblr.com/post/72850727146/a-very-tight-schedule>
    Back Up Plan If I am Evicted: <http://iamalittlelestrange.tumblr.com/post/67978969607/0-01-trip-tips-plz>

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    Default Re: How Do I Hide From My TOXIC Roomates That I am a Dancer?

    Hiding from family isn't quite the same as hiding from a roommate, and if you truly fear violence, I recommend getting out asap even if that means dipping into savings. You will likely earn more than enough in one shift to cover a private room in a hostel and then some, so don't feel like you either have to hide it or will be homeless.

    If you feel safe enough to stick around, you want to work non-sketchy shifts (days, the odd night/weekend) and dispose of any evidence (hopefully your club has lockers where you can leave your things, otherwise, find a good hiding spot).

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