Hi ladies this is my second time posting to the stripping section of this forum but i have been following it for two years almost. I don't want to be judged i really do need some advice. I began dancing in 2011 in a bikini bar. This is the only club that will hire me to my knowledge because I am a bigger girl and they hire a variety of dancers. I do fairly well on busy nights in fact my boss says i am the top earner. Here is my problem I quickly realized that i had become an Extras girl in a club that almost every customer wants extras. I have been doing this since 2011 basically getting many vip rooms but each time selling my soul for money. I am tired of this life. I just wanted to be a clean dancer and idk how to go back and say NO and still make money. It seems every guy i take back wants a sex favor and i just want to dance. I am trying to lose weight i am a size 16/18 and i would love to have the option of workung in a clean club. So i go to work every day and deal with these old scums who make me feel like a worthless hooker. And im safe but i still worry everu day about stds. I just dont want this anymore. I cant work a regular job right now since i have severe anxiety and no car. I take cabs to work. And to top it off im a single mom of two. I tried camming but did not do well enough to support myself. Is there a way to stop doing extras and still make good money without leaving the club? Just need sum advice. Idk how i let it get this bad. Thank u for listening.



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