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    Default Dear "Veteran" stripper,

    Begin rant:
    No, dancing three months does not mean you know everything. Please stop giving me advice I did not ask for. Especially critiquing my stage work when you jerk around on the stage like a beached whale. No I will not buy coke off you. I do Not
    care that it's top shelf. Also, stop talking shit on girls over petty things. No you are not the house mom. Stop. Leave me alone and stop ruining my hustle by following me around. And don't you ever step up to the tip rail while I am dancing on stage. Are you fucking crazy?

    /end rant.

    sorry ladies, not a soul knows about my job and I do not talk about other dancers to dancers I work with. I ha to let it out before I scream in this girls face. Anyone had to deal with a girl like this?

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    Default Re: Dear "Veteran" stripper,

    Ahh, yes. I had one when I returned to my club after the summer off. They had staffed the place with a bunch of 18/19 year olds that ran around in mismatched undies. This one girl plainly thought she was the queen, since the managers would send her to tell us things (like to get off our cell phones). She was not pretty, overweight, and I was 80% sure she was doing extras in the VIP. But she was the same way, had been dancing a couple months and thought she was hot shit.

    She was uber rude and uppity but my reaction to her telling me things was to roll my eyes and ignore her. If the managers cared enough, they'd come down and tell me themselves. It's best to just ignore these girls honestly.
    "People jack off with the left hand and point with the right."

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    Default Re: Dear "Veteran" stripper,

    It's so cute when the new girl shine wears off the baby strippers and they think they know everything, or when they start accusing other girls who have been there much longer of stealing their moves, lights, music, and customers. We have a few of those right now at my club. I just nod and smile. Great excuse to stay out of the dressing room and away from them on the floor!

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    Default Re: Dear "Veteran" stripper,

    So you've all experienced her. This girl is absolutely intolerable. SHE follows me everywhere, even on the floor. Like a shadow. Giving me advice like "Go talk to that group of young guys. Between all of them you'll probably make a lot of money." Does she realize I'm not dumb? Also she is downright rude to girls who don't want her advice.

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    Default Re: Dear "Veteran" stripper,

    Oh man if she followed me around I'd lose my temper in 10 minutes and tell her to shove it. She doesn't need to tell you how to do your job...
    "People jack off with the left hand and point with the right."

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    Default Re: Dear "Veteran" stripper,

    Oh thank you for this one. I just came back to the club I worked at for almost 2 years after a year off. On my first day back this newish girl starts telling me why I should wear two sets of panties and how many regulars she has...

    I'm sure you can guess, she is 15 lbs overweight, looks awkward as hell on stage, and routinely makes no money.

    Thanks for the advice! Haha

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    Default Re: Dear "Veteran" stripper,

    Luckily most of the girls at my club are in their mid twenties and up so it's not that bad, but there is this very young, barely legal girl that I can't stand... ugh, I'm not even going to finish writing this post because just thinking of her makes me want to vomit!!!

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    Default Re: Dear "Veteran" stripper,

    Just politely tell her to fuck off

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    Default Re: Dear "Veteran" stripper,

    I had one of these. I clearly remember her stage name was Mariah (after Mariah Carey who she danced to)and she was fat and homely. She would always try to give me hints on how to make more money. The irony is I was making much more than her and dancing longer than her.

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    Default Re: Dear "Veteran" stripper,

    Hahahaha! This is priceless!

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    Default Re: Dear "Veteran" stripper,

    Quote Originally Posted by sexycece View Post
    So you've all experienced her. This girl is absolutely intolerable. SHE follows me everywhere, even on the floor. Like a shadow. Giving me advice like "Go talk to that group of young guys. Between all of them you'll probably make a lot of money." Does she realize I'm not dumb? Also she is downright rude to girls who don't want her advice.
    Miss lady, I feel ya! I once had this girl who was constantly "advising me" etc. and trying to get me to come to her house and her and her bf were swingers and all this weirdness, which as an 18-19 year old was a bit alarming at the time.....she was at least 10 years my senior. One night she, I don't think she was drunk, I think she may have been faded out, but she lost it....she was a very pretty half-Asian half-Caucasian so she had a nice skin tone and she cakes her face in ivory makeup, like 5 shades and 2 hues too light for her and starts chasing me around. I literally had to lock myself in 2 different bathrooms and finally asked a manager to get her away from me.....it was really extreme. I feel bad for her though, I know she made money at times, actually frequently, as I had driven her to work once or twice (she didn't drive because of her meds, maybe that should have tipped me off LOL) and she lived in the nicest neighborhood on that side of town, but poor thing she was just so depressed I think and severely on some mind-altering substance.....

    At first she was helpful, but once she starting losing it she got - well scary! LOL. Seriously! Not to mention a girl with ghostface make-up chasing you shouting your stage name will kill any hustle you have going on!
    "I can feel guilty about the past, apprehensive about the future, but only in the present can I act." - Abraham Maslow

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    Default Re: Dear "Veteran" stripper,

    even if it isn't a newbie who thinks she's a vet (although that's the most annoying of all) it makes me bristle. seems like almost every club i go to a girl appears who likes to tell me how high to wear my thong, what to do with my hair color, how my outfits should fit, and that she doesn't like how i do my makeup. and these girls happen to have what i think is hideous style, i just smile and nod and try and get them to shut the hell up. one of them also tries to give me hustling tips and then also brags about their "great night at work" making probably a quarter of what i usually make. if they aren't too psycho, i just let it go in one ear and out the other and avoid them

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    Default Re: Dear "Veteran" stripper,

    Ugh. I have a few years of dancing under my garter belt and I still get vet strippers who've never met me doling out "new girl" advice - "Don't worry, your knees will stop getting so red after a while", "When I was new I did the same thing....", etc. It bugs the hell out of me but I just smile and nod and change the subject.
    In your situation, I would probably just thank her for being so helpful (even though she's not), say that I really appreciate all her tips, but I'd really rather just take the wheel on my own from here. Making it seem like you do appreciate her efforts, however irritating she may be, will prevent any hard feelings, because that always sucks. Plus, people are more willing to respond positively to your requests when you acknowledge them in a nice way, even if you want to strangle her. Be assertive and firm, but also very kind/polite. If you ignore someone so persistent, she'll feel hurt. If you approach her like, "Bitch I'm not taking any more shit from you" she'll be angry, too. Don't talk about dances/hustling in your conversations with her in the future, if you talk to her at all. Change the subject if she brings it up.
    I've watched the situation you're in with two co-workers before, and it actually got really ugly, and it ended on a sad note.
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    Default Re: Dear "Veteran" stripper,

    ^^ Do you ever tell them that you're NOT new? I have that happen at every new club and I immediately go "whoa whoa whoa I am NOT new, I've been dancing for years" and they shut up.
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    Default Re: Dear "Veteran" stripper,

    I typically don't. Once they see me on stage I imagine they feel pretty silly about any comment they made And I also feel like I would come off as confrontational if I did that.
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    Default Re: Dear "Veteran" stripper,

    Yesterday was a pretty slow day at my club but I did two half hour VIPs and 8 regular dances. The new girl who tried to give me advice when I first got back got a ride home with me and started asking how I get guys to do rooms. Lol.

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    Default Re: Dear "Veteran" stripper,

    Yep, I think we've all seen it. There's this girl who used to get on my nerves who had danced at my club for about a month and all of the sudden she starts calling me "hunny" and "sweetie"..umm who do you think you're talking to?

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    Default Re: Dear "Veteran" stripper,

    I am a veteran dancer and I could care less about the new girls..I dont really care to critique them. I have better things to do with my time like worry about my own looks, trying to keep a positive attitude, and just overall do me. No coke here and i definitely dont have the time to follow anyone around but my customers. OP, I am sorry ur experiencing this crap from a vet but i assure u not all vets are the same.

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    Default Re: Dear "Veteran" stripper,

    ^ its not a vet, its a newbie who thinks she's a vet. real vets usually don't have time for that crap!

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    Default Re: Dear "Veteran" stripper,

    ahhh, this brings back fond memories. had a similar issue with a 19 year old who tried to scream at me get up on the stage before it was my turn. i never do this, but i actually flipped out and told her "bitch, i will mop the fucking floor with your face if you don't get out of mine, and believe me, i will NOT be fired for it."

    she was sent home twenty minutes later, and i never had a problem with anyone talking shit ever again. most of these girls are all talk, but when they see what's really up, they adjust their attitudes accordingly.

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