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    I went in to work tonight with a manager that I just don't get along with that great, I mean we work together all the time because I'm a super stripper who works 6 nights a week, but we've just never really clicked the way I do with the rest of the people at my club.

    I was speaking to a customer who was kind of drunk but who isn't at a club? He stuck his hands down my pants while we were on the fucking floor and I flipped out. I went to my manager and the bouncer and told them what happened and they asked him to leave, but then he said he wanted to dance with another girl so they let him back in. Well, I got REALLY mad and went and got my stuff and told the bouncer I wanted to go home. He was concerned and was like what happened? Did somebody mess with you? We were walking next door to sit down and talk when the manager came up and was told him not to bother with me and asked if I wanted to go home. I told him I did and and he was like fine, you're gonna go home and take a three week break. I was like why? Because I don't want some guy fingering me while we're on the floor? He told me he didn't appreciate my attitude and that I was going to take a two week break and go home.

    He told the bouncer to go get my things and left. I started talking to him and he told me to try and talk to the manager and apologize, but the manager refused to speak to me. The bouncer told me to go home and call the manager working tomorrow-- who I have a good relationship with, knows me from many years back and is the main manager, and explain the situation.

    I AM SO UPSET. I was crying the whole drive back-- I cannot take two weeks off from work! I am trying to save up money to move to another country and so I am working every day and I work very hard when I'm there-- I'm one of their top earners, I work weekends and weekdays when it's super fucking slow, and I tip everyone very well when I'm there. And I don't understand what I possibly did wrong! Not wanting some guy to finger me on the floor is grounds for me being suspended?

    I have never really worked at another club and I do well at this club, I like it, I know how making money works there, I have a good relationship with everyone besides this manager... I don't know what to do, I am freaking out right now. I can't lose my job and I can't not make money right now, it's going to fuck up my move to London and I'm not going to have enough saved. And I just don't understand why with all the work I put in there I would get suspended over something like this???

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    I have gotten suspended for attacking customers, or even for just giving them an earful when they pulled shit like that. Mgrs like that end up on the same DIAF list I have for the offending customers (& oh what I would give to light that match myself) b/c they feed the problem.

    Take tonite & tomor morning to cool down, I know that's A LOT easier said than done, but then take your bouncer's advice & talk to the mgr you are on good terms w/. If you are as dedicated to the club as you say there is NO reason he should side w/ the pricks who wrecked your nite, & God forbid he does, WALK. They do not deserve the profits you're bringing them if they don't have it in them to stand up for you when customers do those things.

    I am really sry this happened to you, take care of yourself tonite

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    I'm going to call tomorrow and explain what happened... I'm hoping he will say to just come in on the nights he works and not when this other asshole is working. If he says no I guess I will be auditioning this week for other clubs, although I really don't want to... ugh, I just can't believe this shit. I mean really? They have made thousands off of ME alone in the last three days, I think my payouts have totaled somewhere around $2,000 in the past three days-- this customer who's going to do what, maybe 10 dances is worth more than me??

    Drinking fireball whiskey and diet coke right now, trying to relax... I feel a little bit better but not much!

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    Wow, cooling off w/ a fireball ... If the stripper gods are smiling on us maybe this shitsack mgr will hang himself soon (I mostly meant that figuratively) & be the one left out in the cold.

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    Ugh. Only once I worked with a manager that "I didn't click with" the club was really divey and ALL the dancers shouldn't have been dancers. I mean no stripper heels, horrific makeup, outfits etc. I don't even know how those girls survived working there I never saw anyone make money there. I would show up randomly and make money only because I would pull teeth to sell dances. Anyway, this manager would be touchy feely with MOST of the girls. I made it a point of the bat that I'm not going to have my ass, waist etc touched. I guess guess he didn't like that. You know, being professional and all. I never went back. Now that I look back that club wasn't a real strip club, it was a bar with a pole and girls there.

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    good luck to the OP ... i moved abroad to scotland after saving for 2 years ... in the first week i lost my job, ended up sleeping in a park and i had everything i owned stolen. maybe theres another club for u nearby that u can make $ at??? why do u want to move to london??? at my club: ass touching, breast touching and waist touching happens ON THE FLOOR all day long ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by audrey_k View Post
    I have never really worked at another club and I do well at this club, I like it, I know how making money works there, I have a good relationship with everyone besides this manager... I don't know what to do, I am freaking out right now.

    And I just don't understand why with all the work I put in there I would get suspended over something like this???
    If you've never really worked elsewhere... how do you know that you won't do equally as well (or maybe even better) at another club? I mean, it's annoying to switch gears... but this may be a blessing in disguise.

    More importantly, I'd like to address the notion of "putting in work" and then being surprised when a club treats you like you're disposable.

    Clubs don't understand loyalty or effort. They don't appreciate professionalism, punctuality, perfect behavior, even generous tipping. Everything (and I mean EVERYTHING) is taken for granted. Managers are fickle creatures with short memories and often shorter tempers. Even the best earners, the prettiest girls, and the nicest strippers are routinely fired, suspended, and chastised. A lot of clubs have "the customer is always right" mentality...

    I've learned this lesson the hard way. It sucks. I know.


    Have you considered speaking with another manager? It sounds like there is more than one... If you really want to stay there, maybe see if you can work on the days that this manager isn't around.
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    I wish there was an "auto-like" setting that I could just have applied to all of your posts Sophia....


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    OP-I'm really sorry things happened the way they did. A lot of managers who don't actually own the club tend to take on a "the customer s always right" attitude. I assume you use your picture in your avatar? If so, you're way too physically cute and too intelligent to be manhandled by drunk losers who have to pay to touch women. If I were you, I'd call the manager you get along with and give him Hell. If he fails to apologize financially-like cutting out tip outs if you come back-I'd try a different club. I bet you can get hired at the highest of the high end in your area. So, try that. If you're unable to do that, try webcam for extra income. I started camming in the middle of a stripper burnout and found it a very relaxing change of pace. PM me for more webcam info if you wish. I hope you overcome this hurdle. If not, please know there are many other options out there for you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Starina View Post
    More importantly, I'd like to address the notion of "putting in work" and then being surprised when a club treats you like you're disposable.

    Clubs don't understand loyalty or effort. They don't appreciate professionalism, punctuality, perfect behavior, even generous tipping. Everything (and I mean EVERYTHING) is taken for granted. Managers are fickle creatures with short memories and often shorter tempers. Even the best earners, the prettiest girls, and the nicest strippers are routinely fired, suspended, and chastised. A lot of clubs have "the customer is always right" mentality...
    this 1000x!!! this has happened to me a lot. my manager is a cold misogynist from hell and even though i come in on time, never call out, always pay tip out, earn the club money, been loyal good worker for well over 2 years i get yelled at, threatened with suspension and even being fired for my clothes, the dances i give, my stupid e cigarette, you name it. any little perceived mistake i make.
    i'd try out a different club just for the hell of it before you even try to go back!
    this happened at my club too, there were guys taking pics of the girls on stage and one girl complained about it and was told to either suck it up or leave.
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    So much fucking abuse, without the dancers there's no way someone will pay a cover to get in there, there's no way someone would buy those overprice drinks, and most of all, I bet a lot of their revenue comes from house fees. They will be another overprice bar. But since they can "replace" girls rather quick, they take good dancers for granted.

    I would definetely try another club, you never know, you might do better and getting away from that hostile environment will do you wonders.
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    I might be thinking of the wrong person, but do you work in a fairly dirty club where there are not an insignificant amount of dancers who do extras? If so, perhaps this manager doesn't like you because you don't engage in such shenanigans, and therefore don't kick back the extra earnings his way (not to the club because he doesn't care if the club makes money, but to his pocket specifically), so this is a great excuse to get rid of you and make more room for his dirty girls. Just speculation, of course, but it certainly wouldn't be the first time such a thing has happened in a strip club.

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    Default Re: i just got suspended for two weeks

    Sucks the managers turn against you instead of backing you up.

    See if the other managers will let you work on shifts when that manager isn't there. Or maybe a break from this club is a good thing.

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    Thanks for the support guys

    I woke up today and it took me a few minutes to register that I can not go into work because I am suspended... and my stomach sort of dropped to the floor again.

    I called my manager (he texts me from his cell to come in all the time so I had a #) but it said it won't accept incoming calls or something so I guess it's not a real cellphone! lol. They told me he was working today but I don't know if it's dayshift or evening shift so I don't want to just call the club and ask to speak to him. I sent him a text, we'll see if I hear back. I guess I have to just wait The only other night I know he's working is Thursday.

    Even though it scares the shit out of me I think I need to audition at another club because I will no longer be working shifts this manager works. Whether or not they continue to suspend me I will not be coming back to work his shifts-- which means I can only work three nights at this club and that's just not enough. He's an asshole and I no longer wish to have anything to do with him. I'm so incredibly nervous to go to another club though, I've only ever worked at two other clubs in LA and they were so bad I only worked one night and then never came back. I hardly made any money, the girls were crazy bitches and it was just really bad. I think it's put this idea in my head that I can only make money at this club That was a long time ago though, when I had only been stripping for a few months.

    It's been so long since I've really auditioned anywhere... should I wait for the weekend (my hair does not look super good right now I need to get it done) or is it better for me to go on a non-weekend night?

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    Trying to get hired on a weekend can be hit or miss since sometimes managers just don't have time to deal with hiring a new dancer when it's busy or about to. I say the sooner you can get out there the better. There are 3-4 days before the weekend, so that's a lot of money you could be making!

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    ^ ugh something similar just happened to me in LA also. My "home" club here changed mngrs & although he knew who I was & had always worked there, he wouldn't let me return to work there the other night. The last time he saw me I was heavier but when he saw me the other night he looked me up & down saying I had lost alot of weight. Anyways he said he'd have to see me up on stage to see if I "fit in with their club". I said whatever I didn't even audition, i just left. He wasn't gonna rehire me , I think he wanted to fuck with me & get me nude up there only to tell me no. I'm not going back there for awhile! I worked at another club in hollywood but I literally can't make money there for some odd reason :/ I did ok on Fri night but thats it & I've worked 3 shifts! I'm reaaly starting to realize why I hate LA so much.
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    ^yeah it sucks!

    I talked to my friend who works there and was there last night and she said the manager was just on a fucking tear and yelling at everybody. She told me to try another manager who I know is working tomorrow night, he's actually the GM (I thought another one was, there's so many of them at this club) so I'm gonna try him tomorrow and either audition somewhere else tonight (I feel like I can't just sit here all night not knowing if I'm gonna have a job I'll go crazy!!)

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    ^ yeah I know dude. I'm trying to think of another club to try before i leave LA in a few days before heading north for awhile.
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    Do you do topless or nude?

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    My friend told me to try Spearmint Rhino in Torrance so that's where I'm gonna go tonight...

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    both. I would but I don't want to be an "employee". How does the rhino work?
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    ^what do you mean be an employee?

    I'm not sure exactly but I would assume it's like the other LA clubs where you're an independent contractor and you pay out on dances.

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    yea i'm fine with that ^ but I meant I don't want to have to have a schedule like I did at the Vu
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    So I went to audition tonight and got there a little later than I'd planned, around 8:30. I talked to the manager and he told me he was just the shift manager-- he gave me the name of another manager who he said I need to come back and audition for tomorrow afternoon. He said to tell that manager I had spoken to him and he said to come back tomorrow.

    Is that normal? Whenever I've auditioned at other places they've either told me I wasn't their type or to go get changed and audition.

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    My club is just as unfair as your club but i cannot get into an upscale club so i am stuck at the dive ... if u can change to another club u should!!! so many girls think that they can actually change clubs but only some really will be accepted at the other clubs; so many dancers are forced to stay at bad clubs because they dont have another option.

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    ^My club is a "gentleman's club" so it's pretty nice, the money is great, that's why I've stayed.

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