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    Default Re: i just got suspended for two weeks

    i auditioned at this upscale club and was told that corporate has strict hiring code and i wasnt their type ... but to call back a week from now, maybe they may have a need for girls than??? i feel like gothbarbie and pissed ... but is there any hope for me to call back or is it a waste of my time? im wondering more and more if some girls just cannot graduate from a dive to an pscale club?

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    Default Re: i just got suspended for two weeks

    If you said you weren't your type I would just move on. I would say my club is an upscale club and we have a variety of girls working there-- Hispanic, white, black, skinny, curvy, etc. You just need to find one that hires your type. Them telling you that you're not their type doesn't necessarily mean they are saying you're fat or unattractive-- I auditioned at this club like four years ago and they told me that. I asked a girl I was working with and she said that they only hire black girls at that club. Well, I'm not black, I'm a skinny white girl, so obviously I wasn't their type, lol. I worked at this club one night and was the only white girl, I thought I was gonna bank and I did TERRIBLE. Obviously I was not their club's type and I wish they had just told me that and not hired me so I wouldn't have wasted my night there!

    But I'm hoping that since he told me to come back tomorrow and speak to this other manager that he just isn't the hiring manager or something... I mean if he didn't want me to audition I would think he would just say that? I dunno I guess I'll find out!
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    That does suck and yes that has happened to me. One club was going to suspend me because I refuse to get topless for a bunch of non paying "customers" so I quit and at another I was one of the to dancers yet was fired. I later found out because it was actually a dirty club (had no idea)and though I was one of the prettiest and highest earners because I refused to sleep with the manager they fired me. Clubs often have no logic.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SweetJulia View Post
    OP-I'm really sorry things happened the way they did. A lot of managers who don't actually own the club tend to take on a "the customer s always right" attitude. I assume you use your picture in your avatar? If so, you're way too physically cute and too intelligent to be manhandled by drunk losers who have to pay to touch women. If I were you, I'd call the manager you get along with and give him Hell. If he fails to apologize financially-like cutting out tip outs if you come back-I'd try a different club. I bet you can get hired at the highest of the high end in your area. So, try that. If you're unable to do that, try webcam for extra income. I started camming in the middle of a stripper burnout and found it a very relaxing change of pace. PM me for more webcam info if you wish. I hope you overcome this hurdle. If not, please know there are many other options out there for you.
    No that's not me I just have a thing for sexy redheads!

    I don't know if I could do camming, as much as it drives me crazy to deal with customers I like the face-to-face interaction of the club...

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    I feel your pain Audrey and gothbarbie! LA is just so hard. Audrey I'm also moving to Europe in a few months. I'm gonna pm you we should talk!

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    ^ Which is why I'm getting the fuck out of this shit hole this week sometime! LA just sucks! I'm sick of this place & I've just been here for one week visiting & to work. The club I started at here sucks balls :/ I had one decent night last Fri & that's been it. It is corporate as well, way too many rules for my taste.
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    ^If you can get into a good grove at a club then it's fine... I've always done well at my club, around $3000 a week. Trust me that's why I'm flipping out.

    I woke up SO sick today... my stomach has been hurting a lot the past couple days and the pain is a lot worse today, plus I have body aches, chills, really bad cough/stuffy nose, and a headache. Not good. I won't be auditioning anywhere for a couple days....

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    ^ yea the club that I worked at for 6 years on & off wouldn't rehire me back! I used to get into a groove there & always make money. I was really counting on that place when i came here for a visit now I don't know where else to go :/ I reeaaly hate new douchey managers that are on major power trips!
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    I called tonight and spoke to a manager... have to call back again tomorrow and speak to a different one. He said I might only be suspended for a week, which is not as bad as two weeks, but still.

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    It's the age old "common knowledge" that strippers are all dumb skanks. Once some asshole gets that idea in his head it's impossible to change his mind, no matter how much money you make for him. You're obviously classy and really smart (cause you have to be to make that much clean money) but all that manager could see was a trashy bitch making trouble for the Almighty Customer.

    I wish I could help, and also just wanted to say that I hate this guy for you.

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    Yes gothbarbie! I'm leaving LA soon too, but I think I will stop stripping entirely. I've always wanted to work in Vegas, so I'm gonna try to get hired out there again before I leave. I just might travel cross country too, if I can save up the money for it.

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    I talked to the main manager today (who knows me the best). He said, to be clear, I am not being suspended because I asked them to kick out a customer but because of the "attitude" I had when doing it. Uh huh.

    He said that the best he could do was bring my suspension down to one week, that he would love for me to work his shifts this weekend but that would be undermining the other manager. He said that they don't want to fire me and that he hopes I come to work on Monday.

    I haven't decided yet if I'm going to take the weekend off or audition somewhere else for the weekend. I still think the whole thing is ridiculous-- I did not have an attitude except to be upset that some disgusting asshole with god knows what on his hands stuck his hands down my pants-- but at least it's only for a week. I definitely won't be working the manager's shifts who suspended me and that's his loss cause I work a lot, do a lot of dances and tip well!

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    I will also add that my Dr told me today that I have an ulcer which he believes was caused by stress... if working at my
    job is so stressful that's it's giving me an ulcer I think I'm allowed to get pissy every once in a while!

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    Fk that noise. What kind of attitude were you supposed to have -- hand the offending customer his $$ back along w/ a smile & a plate of milk & cookies? I get so bloody furious for you every time I see this thread.

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    Apparently it was my attitude towards the manager that warranted suspension, not my attitude toward the customer. It's just this particular manager that was workin that night, he expecta you to keep your mouth shut and kiss his ass. Which I don't do. I know for a fact if it had been any of the other managers working this would not have happened. They would have either kicked him out or just explained to me why they weren't kicking him out and told me to take a break or asked if I wanted the night off. They might roll
    their eyes at me (I'm one of like 2 girls that will actually get upset and complain to management about this kind of thing so they find my anger/upset somewhat amusing) buy they wouldn't suspend me.

    I know they hate kicking customers out so normally I would have just let it go, but what infuriated me so much about this incident was that it was on the fucking floor! We weren't dancing, he hadn't given me a dollar. Fucking piece of shit.

    Whatever, it's all bullshit. Do I want to work here for the rest of my life, or even the rest of the year? Fuck no. But I have 3 good regulars right now and even without them I'm pulling $800+ nights 2-3 times a week. So for the next 5 weeks I'll
    suck it up, make my money and get the fuck out of there.

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    So I decided, fuck those motherfuckers I'm not giving up my weekend to work just because they suspended me. I picked another club (not the Rhino couldn't be bothered to go back there) and auditioned tonight and got hired on the spot.

    I ended up doing REALLY well. Like $900 well! That's as much as I would have made at my normal club if not less w/o my regulars....

    I'm so proud of myself. I think I've had this idea in my head that I could ONLY make money at that club because the two times I tried elsewhere I failed. But I guess I really have learned a LOT since then (I was 19 then and had only been stripping for a few months) and I actually don't need this club to succeed and do well! I mean I miss my old club cause I know the girls and the staff and I can smoke and chat with them, but it's nice to to know I don't NEED that club.
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    Tonight was my first night back at my club. I did AWESOME for a really dead Monday, I found this guy at the end of the night who become kind of obsessed with me while I was dancing for him and basically let me tell the waitress to charge whatever I wanted on the card... I probably could of gotten more out of him but I wanted to not go to crazy so I ended up going home with around $1,200.

    But despite me being REALLY careful not to work a shift that manager was working, he ended up coming in tonight for some reason and saw me and was NOT happy... I guess the GM told me and everyone else that works there that I could come back today but he did not tell him! He was totally taunting me, trying to get me to yell at him but I just kept my cool and gave cold, quiet answers but not attitude whatsoever and he got bored and left. ASSHOLE!

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    congrats on doing well at other clubs. I have to say, unfortunately I'm not surprised that you got suspended for that. strip club managers have huge power complexes and don't like girls who seem to question that or girls who get indignant at some customers requests. staying under the radar js always the best thing to do.

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