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    Default My friend died & I miss her

    Also, it's 1 yr today that my bunny died..
    My friend froze to death in her home, she was older..I feel responsible b/c I had a feeling to go see her & I didn't. I just found this out recently


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    I'm sorry You're not responsible, and while it would have been nice to have seen her, you probably would have held yourself responsible even then as well. It's not your fault.

    I hope you have connections with other people and animals that can help you through the blues of missing your bunny and human friend.

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    I am sorry to hear that too. This may sound weird, but sometimes wallowing in the sadness, and really letting loose with tears helps me feel better more effectively than trying to suppress it or be distracted. Big virtual hug your way.

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    Take care of yourself and try not to beat yourself up too much. Easier said than done, I know. I understand the guilt. I had a homegirl pass away in November. I didn't find out about it until a month later. Everyday I think about her and analyze that last phone call. Ultimately I know that I'm not helping myself to move on by dwelling on it. Hopefully you will find some remedy that works best for you. Take care.

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    Whirlerz, so sorry and I know how you feel. I lost a friend over to summer to suicide when he jumped in front of a train and I still miss him and wish I could have saved him. Losing people and animals (been there many times)is so hard.

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    So sorry to hear you lost your friend - and your bunny - I know it is hard to deal with- I hope you find a way to take care of yourself

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    {{HUGS}}

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    Sorry to hear this, whirlerz. Just take it a day at a time. Take care.
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