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    I want to bring in a guy to cam with me, and I have one guy who has offered to join me- doesn't want any of the money, just wants to cam. He is one of my customers. Is this a good idea, and have any of you ladies brought in a non-bf/hubby to cam with you? He lives close by, and we would meet somewhere public first. Thoughts, experiences? I am unsure about this.

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    Default Re: Getting a Guy to Cam with you?

    HELL no.

    You can't be serious! Fuck a customer on cam that you don't even know?

    I don't even know what to say.

    I really really hope you didn't give him your exact location. Every cam performer gets these offers. Not only could you get HIV or worse get murdered in the process, but it isn't necessarioly even going to get you more money. don't even consider it! and the fact that this guy is near you is super scary.

    I'd block him immediately and maybe consider blocking your area for awhile so he thinks you quit. You've made a recipe here for some scary stalking.

    Edited to add -- I see from some of your other posts that you are very new, very young and not making much on cam. Adding a guy to your show won't necessarily make you more money. If you look at the top hosts on most sites they are usually solo performers.

    Sometimes it takes time to build up a following but also sometimes it's just something you are doing that you need to change. What sites are you working? You need a high traffic site usually to do well. Study how that site works and search the board here to get tips.



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    This a business if you want to cam with someone else male or female hire another professional and pay them.

    Camming with a customer who claims they won't want any of the money, is a huge NO.
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    Wait, what? No, that's a terrible idea. First off, why would anyone ever give a customer free pussy??

    Other concerns:

    -He knows where you live!?
    -He'll have to add his info to your account and/or create a new couples' account with you which, combined with knowing where you live and all that, means it's very likely that he will have plenty of personal information with which to stalk and/or blackmail you.
    -How are you going to handle protection? I've only worked solo so I could be wrong but I can't imagine custies are going to be big on condoms and having unprotected sex with some rando you met on a cam site is suicide.
    -From what I've read camming as a couple is really not that lucrative.
    -Why? I just can't get my head around why. If I was (for some reason) dead set on doing couples' shows I would grab the hottest homeless guy I could find off the street before I would consider a customer.


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    Default Re: Getting a Guy to Cam with you?

    Not sure how "clean" a homeless guy would actually be so idk about that either. Would imagine he would be getting around a lot less tho lol

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    Default Re: Getting a Guy to Cam with you?

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    Not sure how "clean" a homeless guy would actually be so idk about that either. Would imagine he would be getting around a lot less tho lol
    Hahaha I wasn't suggesting it as an actual option, just trying to emphasize how far down the list a customer would be.

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    No! No! No! Why would you let some random ass customer fuck you??? Wise up girl because I'm sure he is some crazy ass nutcase that is trying to fuck or even worse :/. I never ever talk to or meet anyone outside of camming. I keep a house full of weaponry if one decides to stalk me. Oh and I bring my husband in for couples shows and they are a lot more work and not much more money. I actually make more by myself

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    Default Re: Getting a Guy to Cam with you?

    bad idea, like said above....

    First thing to remember if your having a harder time pulling numbers is this:

    Body catches attention, personality keeps them in

    yes we sell fantasies, yes we sell sexuality, but we also sell personality and ideals- this is a business you are selling " a brand" and you are that brand. It goes far beyond just the sex as a quick and easy gimmick. If your looking to bolster your earnings and customers look at other options:

    >How is your video quality and lighting? this can actually play a bigger role than you think, and it promotes " quality"
    > How animated are you? If you are a blow up doll, or a lump, looking disinterested, quiet, not being animated and active and letting your personality/persona shine though it, your not going to catch as much as someone who is.
    > how is your marketing? again we are a brand unto ourselves. and we need to market ourselves, be it twitter, tumblr, C4s, and so on...set up a time to take photos and create a special photo set that you can sell while camming- IE say on SM I have a 9 picture set exclusive to SM that they buy with tips, then PM me so I can send those to them, on CB you can sell them directly from your profile
    Try adding silly games like dice games or dirtyish versions of hangman and such. its interactive, can get attention as something different, and can generate tips while you do it

    TLDR there are a ton of options to pushing yourself out there more and drawing a crowed and retaining them, hook ups with customers is risky as hell and wont really do you any better and if anything just cause a cascade of issues when other customers catch wind that you did this and want " their shot" and trust me.....even though IVE not been doing this long? Ive already gotten more than a few that I wouldnt want 1000 miles from me because of their f'd up potential.
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    Default Re: Getting a Guy to Cam with you?

    My dude joins me on cam every once in a while, his information is on my account but we're in a long term relationship. I actually do worse when he's on cam with me compared to me doing solo. My customers are use to seeing me alone and he's kinda awkward on cam. Just letting you know even if you have a guy join you might even make less than you do now. If you want to do couples cam have you thought about maybe a female friend?

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    Omg. Just no.

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    Default Re: Getting a Guy to Cam with you?

    Like everyone else said... no. NEVER let a customer screw you for free! Who knows who this guy is!

    I understand if it was a guy you knew, maybe a friend with benefits type deal with an old friend, but omg, not some random asshole. I never trust the guys from these sites. I don't care how good looking he is or rich or how "trustworthy" he seems. I don't meet this people off of MFC, especially not for something like that. How long have you known him? :S
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    Default Re: Getting a Guy to Cam with you?

    Quote Originally Posted by KikiGem View Post
    I want to bring in a guy to cam with me, and I have one guy who has offered to join me- doesn't want any of the money, just wants to cam. He is one of my customers. Is this a good idea, and have any of you ladies brought in a non-bf/hubby to cam with you? He lives close by, and we would meet somewhere public first. Thoughts, experiences? I am unsure about this.
    Please do not do this!!! This is how many women end up on ID channel by meeting random strangers and end up getting murdered by weirdos. Then they become apart of one of those shows such as "Dates from Hell". Also he was your customer...you do not want to risk your health and safety behind a few kind words from a complete perverted stranger. Girl, you could find a professional cam guy to cam with or try to work on your solo shows. Also he might not be a murderer but he might want to give you a disease such as HIV. Or he might want to come over to your house to rob you? You do not know him

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    Default Re: Getting a Guy to Cam with you?

    Please take the advice you have been given seriously. We are not overreacting here.

    Women in general get sexually assaulted all the time, sex workers get targeted even more for assault/stalking/being trapped in a torture basement etc. I recommend not even giving out your real state/general area on cam.

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    all customers will offer their cock. ALL of them.
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    Yeah sweetie this is a bad idea. I agree with all the other smart ladies on this thread and you really shouldn't be giving out your exact location to anyone! It's such bad news! Research a major city a few hours from your place and say you're from there. That way when guys ask you have some facts about that location so it sounds real.
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    :0 OMG good thing I asked first!! Thanks for all the advice girls. I had no idea that camming with a guy is *less* money. I knew that meeting up with this guy would be a bad, bad, idea, but I am pretty new to the adult world so I wanted to see if anyone had this experience before. Idk I thought it may be good- now I know!!

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    ohhhhhhhh, there is so much you will learn in the first weeks.....first few months.....etc. there's gonna be soooooooo many dudes trying to "help you out." Help yourself, and come here with anything you're unsure about. We might be like "WTF SERIOUSLY? HOW CAN YOU EVEN CONSIDER THAT?" which can be intimidating, but it's because we haaaaatttttee to see other girls be taken advantage of when there's so much advice here.

    And don't meet up with him. Ever. Don't tell him any more about you location or ANY personal details.
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    it CAN be good in a ( actual) couple setting, but Id stress it be an actual BF/GF bff sort or a fellow cammer friend NOT a random hook up/custy and NOT as a ply/gimmick as much. alot of times too if your working solo- the big draw for a custy is getting you into pvt/exc etc etc to play the fantasy of you being theirs- again you have to take some of the " sex" out of the equation- its more selling an idea than selling the sexy most of the times

    and yeah be vague on location. I say Pacific northwest

    some think Seattle, some think Portland etc.. I let them make up their own mind I wont say where exactly
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    Default Re: Getting a Guy to Cam with you?

    99% of the time a guy (or chick, or couple) offers to "help" you (double-triple-ESPECIALLY if you're new), they're looking to play on your naivete to take advantage of you.

    If a customer actually wants to help you, he'll tip big and not ask for anything in return.






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    Quote Originally Posted by KikiGem View Post
    I want to bring in a guy to cam with me, and I have one guy who has offered to join me- doesn't want any of the money, just wants to cam. He is one of my customers. Is this a good idea, and have any of you ladies brought in a non-bf/hubby to cam with you? He lives close by, and we would meet somewhere public first. Thoughts, experiences? I am unsure about this.
    No, I don't think it's a good idea. For the most part, customers who offer to do b/g cam shows with you just want the opportunity to meet you in person and fuck you. Don't be fooled by them "offering to do b/g cam shows with you for free." Lol. Sorry to be so blunt, but they're just trying to get some pussy from the hot cam girl they perv on/jerk it to. It'd be a dream come true for them. Sorta like me meeting Justin Timberlake in person and hooking up with him.

    I imagine that if you do it once, then every time you talk with him he's gonna keep suggesting y'all do it again. Kinda like when you let a customer pay you with PayPal or Amazon gift card "just this once," and next thing you know he's trying to do it all the time (and he's like "Why not? You let me do it the last time...").

    Also, when other customers realize that you've done a cam show with a customer, they're gonna be bugging you to meet/do shows with them too, and then getting butthurt when you refuse.
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    Be vague… very vague with your location. I don't give a city or state just southeast… that is it. Beyond that they don't need to know where you are. Yes, they can seem nice and a few probably are nice in person but too big of a risk to take as the others have said.

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    That guy is just one of those losers that goes on cam sites in the hopes of having sex with a cam girl. I don't even know if the ones that offer to do b/g shows would even go through it. They probably would just fuck you once, just to check out the "chemistry" or whatever lame justification there would be....then he'd screw off and you wouldn't hear from him again.

    Also, as stated above in a few posts, there's the safety issue. Let's face it...lots of the guys online think that we're insatiable sluts who spread it around and I wouldn't want someone who thinks that, knowing my name, address, etc.....

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    Default Re: Getting a Guy to Cam with you?

    That is very dangerous.
    What if he is psychotic? He could rape or murder you.
    Anyways it's never a good idea to do it with a "customer"

    Do not believe everything that a customer will tell you. Because some customers are good at manipulating newbies.
    When i was just starting as a cam model i have lots of guys like that. They were really friendly but then they are trying to manipulate me. So i had to end it and blocked them.

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    1. You don't know if he will be able to perform under pressure. Many men think they can, I've done cam shows with professional male porn stars & even they have wood problems due to how much YOU will need to interact with the customers like you do when you are solo. Men are used to all the attention being on them when you fuck not on customers on a computer screen.

    2. They other guys will tear him apart physically & say all kinds of nasty things to get him to fail. They will see it as a game. You think they hate on us as solo girls, get a guy on cam & they turn even more vicious. Men's dicks are attached to their egos many of them can NOT keep it hard while being verbally attacked.

    3. You will lose him as a customer forever. He will come into your cam room all the time & talk about the experience & run off other customers. He will be constantly dropping personal information about you to seem more important than the other customers on cam.

    4. Do it with him then all the other guys will think they have even more of a chance to fuck in real life & thus never give you money on cam again.

    Have you forgotten the basics of men. Men lie. He will show up & be like "I really don't want to be on cam with you I just want to fuck." I have friends who do porn who use fans as male talent. 99% of them are ALL TALK & never show up to do the filming. The ones who do show up are so unattractive & do NOT have good hygiene, much less the social skills it takes to carry on a conversation. He will just want to fuck, he will not be concerned with the money you need to make, camera angles or even one single clue how to put on a good show.

    5. What about testing? Both of you will need to be tested. Are you sure you will make enough money with him to cover the test? Condoms, will you be using condoms. Can he perform with condoms on

    6. Say everything works out & he is a decent guys. What will you do if he cums 5 minutes into a 30 minute show? Your customers will feel cheated that they did NOT get 30 minutes of sex.

    Men are always going to get the bright idea of being "free" male talent, but the cost is to you in so many ways. None of them will matter to him, cause he just wants to fuck you. Your brand, your money, your career means absolutely NOTHING to him ONLY his DICK matters & his fantasy of a nasty cam whore doing whatever he wants worshiping his dick simply cause he has one.

    There is no such thing as FREE! Someone always pays the price, mainly the girl. So if you do it, even if it fails, he will always call you up for a booty call. You will always be instant sex without the dating, spending money or any effort it takes for a man to get laid. You just gave it up. Any time he sees you on cam he will think it is okay to stop by & fuck you .

    Go ahead, meet up & see how yellow & disgusting his teeth are. Wait for the kiss & the groping he will try before you leave the public place.


    And let's just do some common sense research here. How many couples do you see on cam at any given time? If there was so much money in it wouldn't there be 100 or more couples fucking on cam all the time? There is a reason why it is mainly solo gals on cam sites & not couples. It really isn't more money.

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