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    On MFC I PM'd with a submissive guy who was tipping me to say mean things to him. (yeah i know...) Now I thought he was being a cheapskate by throwing a couple tokens at me (less than 10 dollars) and going thru PM's which are very tedious instead of taking me private like the good guys do. But I played along cuz it was slow. Anyway I asked for another tip because he wanted me to watch his cam and he said I was getting greedy. WTF? I don't think I was, I was really just trying to do the 'role' of commanding woman or whatever, while still trying to get some tokens in the process. Now I feel bad, and am worried I lost a potential regular.

    I noticed when creeping on the top MFC model she was demanding tips quite a bit and actually getting them which is where I got the inspiration to try that out. So now I am asking, how on earth does one ask for tips without being pegged as 'greedy' and actually GET the tips? I am seriously confused!!

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    Default Re: How to ask for tips

    Greedy is what cheap motherfuckers call you when they are out of money and what something for nothing. Don't worry about it. Though with a sub you can play that angle and say "Yes I am a greedy bitch and your sorry ass is going to pay me or no more attention."

    Don't compromise your rates and don't be afraid to let cheapos walk. They are NOT worth the effort. Do you want a cheap entitled regular? Nope let him bug somebody else.

    Less than $10 dollars and he called you greedy ban his ass and make him pay to have the ban lifted.

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    Lol thanks! That made me feel better! I normally don't get brought down by custies by I've always hated cheap, mooching behavior. Loved the GIF that's gonna be my new theme song!

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    One of the hardest lessons for me to learn as a new model: Once they've tipped and you've done whatever you agreed to do for that tip, you owe that customer NOTHING. It doesn't matter if he's tipped you for a flash or some dirty talk fifty times before. As soon as he's done tipping, you're under no obligation to keep playing. In fact, it's not usually in your best interest to offer freebies of any kind. It's human nature to test boundaries, and if you set a precedent for freebies he'll expect more of the same in the future.

    I'm oversimplifying this, but there are basically two genres of tip requests: desperate and cheeky. Desperate has never - EVER - worked out well for me. Cheeky is a godsend. If someone makes a request without tipping - which happens all the time, of course - it's a great opportunity to taunt the hell out of him, a la:

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    Default Re: How to ask for tips

    When I work token sites and see a member hanging in my room, I ask him to contribute to my show! It's just that easy. He's only riding on other customers dimes anyway.
    Most the time they will toss a generous tip, or they leave. It's a win situation either way. I hate free loaders!
    They have the money, they are in my room hanging out, show respect is how I feel about those guys.

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    Default Re: How to ask for tips

    Saying you're greedy isn't very "submissive" of him Lol..I hate those guys that claim to be that, until you tell them to give you money.

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    I used to be the same way. They'd call me greedy or say I'm asking too much just because they can't afford it. Enabling him will only get you a cheap regular, and who wants that? When someone says "too much" or "stop being greedy" I just stop answering.
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    He claims he's submissive. My dear this is called topping from the bottom and not a true submissive. But we arent playing domme games we're playing cam games. I'd personally tell him how greedy I really can be and then block him. Don't insult him because for one he clearly gets off on it and then he'd be getting it for free.

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    i bet thats the same guy who comes in my room. he comes in like once a week everyweek and drops about 150 tokens total but he does it in small tips of 10-20 tokens. he wants me 2 call him names outloud whilst he PM's me and tips 10 tokens every few minutes, he tips them so slowly that he can make the entire 150 tokens last about an hour. i ignore the shit out of his pm's and everytime he tips i will say something like "what a shit tip dickhead" you know that kind of thing and then i wait for his next shitty tip and call him another name. dont give him any attention, just wait for his crappy tips and then give him one line and wait on the next. its an easy 150 tokens a week i guess. he obviously aint got a lot of money so he gets what he pays for.

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    Ohh no a sub saying "you're greedy?". If he meant that as a compliment then say yes now keep giving or get the fuck lost! Do Not Insult him under any circumstances at this point. He wants you to insult him so do not call him any names. Some test you to get you fired up and usually if you go off on them you'll give them the finishing jerk off they've always wanted.

    Ahh just read above so it's a cheap sub. Ugg hate those types. Yup I would wait until he finished all his tips and then say one line at the end. One sub comes into my room on naked and tries to do the whole "Ma'am" thing then says his wife is awake and then bails. Now I just ignore him and wait until he leaves my room. He tries to get off in free chat by asking "what do you want me to bring Miss". I recall he even said something about skype which naked doesn't even allow and he apparently can't afford a private that last more than 5 minutes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KikiGem View Post
    On MFC I PM'd with a submissive guy who was tipping me to say mean things to him. (yeah i know...) Now I thought he was being a cheapskate by throwing a couple tokens at me (less than 10 dollars) and going thru PM's which are very tedious instead of taking me private like the good guys do. But I played along cuz it was slow. Anyway I asked for another tip because he wanted me to watch his cam and he said I was getting greedy. WTF? I don't think I was, I was really just trying to do the 'role' of commanding woman or whatever, while still trying to get some tokens in the process. Now I feel bad, and am worried I lost a potential regular.

    I noticed when creeping on the top MFC model she was demanding tips quite a bit and actually getting them which is where I got the inspiration to try that out. So now I am asking, how on earth does one ask for tips without being pegged as 'greedy' and actually GET the tips? I am seriously confused!!
    KikiGem, here is some advice about customers. If a sub tells you are greedy...not only he is not a true sub but he does not want to pay. You block his ass because you do not want a cheapo fake-ass sub hang around

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    Not to hijack the thread, but how do you go about asking for tips when YOU are the one in the submissive role? I have one regular who never breaks from his Domly Dom attitude and got really annoyed with me when I mentioned that he could tip me for doing something a bit personalized and special for him during a show, as a way of saying thank you. Breaking the roleplay to remind a D-type guy that I'm actually working and need the money for bills isn't something I like to do...is there any way to do it "submissively"?


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    Quote Originally Posted by SweetLilyRaven View Post
    Not to hijack the thread, but how do you go about asking for tips when YOU are the one in the submissive role? I have one regular who never breaks from his Domly Dom attitude and got really annoyed with me when I mentioned that he could tip me for doing something a bit personalized and special for him during a show, as a way of saying thank you. Breaking the roleplay to remind a D-type guy that I'm actually working and need the money for bills isn't something I like to do...is there any way to do it "submissively"?
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    Quote Originally Posted by SweetLilyRaven View Post
    Not to hijack the thread, but how do you go about asking for tips when YOU are the one in the submissive role? I have one regular who never breaks from his Domly Dom attitude and got really annoyed with me when I mentioned that he could tip me for doing something a bit personalized and special for him during a show, as a way of saying thank you. Breaking the roleplay to remind a D-type guy that I'm actually working and need the money for bills isn't something I like to do...is there any way to do it "submissively"?
    This one depends on who the Domly Dom is but I have had some good luck with 'My body seems to be lacking motivation, sir. Maybe if I just had some type of positive reinforcement to push me towards the goal you've set forth for me I might be able to push through and reach it. (*Add back of hand dramatically to your forehead here.*)

    If he tips, then I just through the hoop like a good little trained seal.

    If he doesn't.......I look at the camera pathetically as if I really wanted to do it and that I am disappointed with myself and repeat. I can't! I can't! *sob whimper whine* Isn't there some sort of gesture of good will you can give me? Some sort of reward to help? Wash, rinse, repeat.

    I will just go into a loop like a broken record repeating it over and over again that "I can't do that....I am scared!!! I am a worthless worm who lacks the motivation!!! *sob whimper whine*", until he figures out that either he needs to pay more more to move forward or has to take fucking less then what he is asking for because he is not going to get to the 'next level' of the BDSM game he paid for unless he puts some more coins into the slot.

    Just make sure you look pathetic and helpless when you are looping.........

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    Just make sure you look pathetic and helpless when you are looping.........
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    Quote Originally Posted by KikiGem View Post
    Now I feel bad, and am worried I lost a potential regular.
    Good regulars pay for your services. If he leaves, all you lost is an entitled guy trying to monopolize your time for free.

    Also, omg the cheap sub guys.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Charlotteslut View Post
    Also, omg the cheap sub guys.

    "Mistress, I'm sooooo submissive. I live to serve you. I will do anything. Except go pvt. Also can you do xyz for free??? No? But you are my queeeeeeeen."
    I actually find cheap sub guys the easiest to deal with.

    "Mistress, I'm sooooo submissive. I live to serve you. I will do anything. Except go pvt. Also can you do xyz for free??? No? But you are my queeeeeeeen."

    "How dare you call me Mistress, you have not earned that right yet and you have not earned the right to talk to me. You will now cease to exist until you do something to make this slight up to me."

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    This, exactly.....As soon as I tell them to go PVT if they want my attention, they leave.


    Quote Originally Posted by Charlotteslut View Post
    Good regulars pay for your services. If he leaves, all you lost is an entitled guy trying to monopolize your time for free.

    Also, omg the cheap sub guys.

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