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    Dear Ex..

    1st of all, ex.'s are ex.s' for a reason..how pathetic is it, to keep calling/texting someone who doesn't respond..& after over 2 mo. yet Did you forget the mssg you left, saying "don't bother me\"?
    Anyway, you shove your __________(that you supposedly gave me) up your AZZ dear, k? Don't need it, & your pitiful attempt to force my hand @ talking to you:
    FAIL!! Miss my hot bod much, lol
    Btw, you really owe it to your self & your fam. to straighten up, seriously..& with your health situation, it's prob. not the best idea to be doing ___ & ______!
    Anyways, the best part for me is the freedom to be me, & not have to deal w/your controlling, cocky bullshit ever! I will NOT
    be abused verbally (or in any other way) by you anymore, or by anyone, ever.
    K.
    Love, the new Whirlerz, 3.0!


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    My friend girl and I used to write and 'ode to ex(fill in name here)'

    We'd talk shit about their flaws and their dicks and manhood. Have a good laugh and let go.

    Yours is quite tame lol but nonetheless good to express your thoughts about this dude.

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    I left out a lot. trust me, & also the blanks. there's lots more lol


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    i love this thread! such a good idea! and a necessary one! the love lives of us in this business are complicated at the least it seems, at least in my life. anyway i just wanted to add that being in this industry has actually increased my self worth in my own eyes and my standards of how i allow others to treat me. sure it's been a slow lesson but when i'm kicking dudes out and ban-hammering away for the simple use of the term 'bb' it makes being called much more horrific names or treated much worse in person just less tolerable. thank you SW, camming and the entire adult/sex industry for helping me out with that

    and whirlerz! you are one of the kindest ladies i have met EVER! i'm glad you are also on your own two feet now and off to new adventures! love you!
    love love love;
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    Quote Originally Posted by jessajames View Post
    i love this thread! such a good idea! and a necessary one! the love lives of us in this business are complicated at the least it seems, at least in my life. anyway i just wanted to add that being in this industry has actually increased my self worth in my own eyes and my standards of how i allow others to treat me. sure it's been a slow lesson but when i'm kicking dudes out and ban-hammering away for the simple use of the term 'bb' it makes being called much more horrific names or treated much worse in person just less tolerable. thank you SW, camming and the entire adult/sex industry for helping me out with that

    and whirlerz! you are one of the kindest ladies i have met EVER! i'm glad you are also on your own two feet now and off to new adventures! love you!
    Aww, thanks Hon!^^ yeah !


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    Good for you Whirlerz! Yep exes are that way for a reason. I tried getting back with a couple and realize why it didn't work the first time.

    Right now I have an ex who will not leave me alone, though I have told him I am not interested. He did some heinous things when we were dating, such as taking money I sent him to come visit (he lived 6 hours away)to buy himself a present and never bought me gifts. In fact not only didn't he buy me presents for Christmas, my birthday or Valentines he lied and claimed he did. He lied about everything. Oh and did I mention he was still in high school at 21 and was on probation for stealing a car? through the years would contact me and when I said I would never date him he disappeared. 24 years later he has been married three times with 4 kids and is barely literate. He wasn't good looking either. The only reason he got women was because he was a race car driver later after we dated. In the last couple of years he found me on Facebook and I added him thinking he had gotten over his obsession. Apparently not because lately he's been posting on Facebook and telling me how mean I am not to date dads. It's true I don't date dads but I would never date him again even if he was childless. A man married 3 times with 4 kids is not my idea of a great spouse. I am thinking of writing a nasty thing on Facebook about him so he gets the point.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    Apparently not because lately he's been posting on Facebook and telling me how mean I am not to date dads.
    I wouldn't either. Having a baby is the ultimate fusion of yourself with someone else, and it's not like you can undo it, ever! My man is only allowed to fuse his genetic material with my genetic material!

    My ex was a religious zealot. We devirginated each other and he got angry at me for leading him astray. He was on top and lasted all of four strokes (his peenie was super sensitive 'cause he never touched himself.) Then he said he let his dog lick his cock sometimes. I am so glad I lost my virginity to a dog breath penis.

    You guys have dated some really bad people though

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    Quote Originally Posted by starlily View Post
    I wouldn't either. Having a baby is the ultimate fusion of yourself with someone else, and it's not like you can undo it, ever! My man is only allowed to fuse his genetic material with my genetic material!

    My ex was a religious zealot. We devirginated each other and he got angry at me for leading him astray. He was on top and lasted all of four strokes (his peenie was super sensitive 'cause he never touched himself.) Then he said he let his dog lick his cock sometimes. I am so glad I lost my virginity to a dog breath penis.

    You guys have dated some really bad people though
    The sad thing is he was one of the better guys because as a person he's okay but as a boyfriend he's a jerk. The best guy I ever dated was very religious and we broke up partly because of that. We still talk but he's now married with two kids and happy.

    Yeah the genetic issue is one of the reasons I never touch dads, but not the only one. It would freak me out knowing my man had sex with another woman and here's proof. I know of course most men aren't virgins but there's usually no proof of it. I also don't want to deal with the moral or financial issues, not to mention possibly moral ones, like the men with multiple baby mamas. At least my ex married the women he had babies with but still there's something wrong with a guy who has two (I think the first marriage was short lived with no kids)baby mamas and three ex wives. On a dating site I had a loser with 3 baby mamas contact me. Yuck.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    It would freak me out knowing my man had sex with another woman and here's proof.
    This^ Exactly. Although I have a child of my own. I can't help how I feel.


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    Eh men are gonna try to put their d*** wherever, sorry to be crude but that's how I see it


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    for me there's no bigger turn on than a good father,..and no bigger turn off than a dead beat dad/a guy too selfish to take care of his kids. my friend is dating a guy right now who signed away his rights when his son was born and had nothing to do with the kid..and she's a single mother herself. i'm sorry, but idk what the fuck she is thinking, i thought she was smarter than that. there is no excuse for him doing that in my book.
    but enough of my thread jack lol. good for you whirlez!!! his doesn't sound worth any of your time

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    A man who takes care of his kids is definitely better than a deadbeat. While I don't date dads I give them credit for being dads. The ones who are really only sperm donors are complete scum of the earth (and experience tells me the majority of the men with multiple baby mamas they never married fall into this category). The dads seem to be the divorced or men with one long term girlfriend (basically married without the paper)who are involved. Exceptions of course but this is what I have seen.

    To me the kindest men are those who relate well to kids and animals. My one guy friend (who I may or not date this spring)works with animals and I have seen how he relates to them. He's very anti social when it comes to most people but with animals has something special.

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