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    Question Advice/tips for handling big crowds?

    As you may know from previous threads I'm a bit of a shy girl/introvert and usually only work the day shift. Superbowl this weekend and theres really no avoiding the crowds (both of girls and of customers) so i'm just gonna have to deal with it. I know most dancers would love to get in on the $ from the event but when I walk into a super crowded room I'm like a deer in headlights and i don't know where to start so i tend to freeze and/or find a corner to watch the crowd from. totally unproductive (drinking doesn't help at all, sometimes makes it worse) So I'm trying to mentally prepare myself but i could really use some tips from the Crowd Queens out there. Help!

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    Default Re: Advice/tips for handling big crowds?

    Well, you can go about it one of two ways:

    (1) Find the guys like you. Not *everyone* who visits the strip club on game night is there to watch the game and will be just as happy to hide away from the crowd as you will be. They can usually be found sitting (or standing, depending on just how crowded it is) alone, looking around awkwardly, not staring into the televisions (maybe staring at their phone though). Hustle like you would any normal lonely dude -- you've got automatic common ground (crowds suck! sports suck!) to build a beautiful, lucrative rapport.

    (2) Work the room and work it fast. Put your best assets on display (nice ass? rock a short dress or thong; big tits? show off your cleavage), wear a big smile, and pretend like you're having the time of your life. Based on your post, I feel like this will be harder for you to get into, but if you get in to your shift early enough, the crowd will likely increase *gradually* and you won't just be walking in to a room full of dudes. This will make your acclimation easier, so I recommend getting to the club as soon as you can.

    You can also combine the two, which is a nice way to switch things up for yourself, but it's not always easy to flick between two such different hustles/personalities, so YMMV.

    Point is: you can do it! Get that money!

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    Default Re: Advice/tips for handling big crowds?

    Very good advice^
    Also if you have a friend you can go to groups together and take the guys in twos, double girl dances for 1 guy, I have a friend I do alot of doubles with on big crowds busy nights.
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    Default Re: Advice/tips for handling big crowds?

    I just walk around with my tits out.
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
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    Default Re: Advice/tips for handling big crowds?

    There will be a lot of jet set types of guys there who you may find interesting to talk to. Not so much the fans of the teams but the types who are so loaded. They might like your shyness in fact. Help them get drunk. Stay late late at work during Super Bowl weekend and you will probably bank!

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    Default Re: Advice/tips for handling big crowds?

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Size:  81.0 KBBig crowds always work to my advantage! I am not shy about talking it up and getting privates! You gotta know how to work the floor and the tiprail!

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    Default Re: Advice/tips for handling big crowds?

    ^ huh? how is that supposed to help? smh lol
    i get there early so that i'm not completely overwhelmed by the crowd as soon as i walk in the door, and you can have an adjustment period where the crowd grows little by little.
    i like shanna's idea about putting on an outfit that makes you feel really confident. get your nails done, hair done, whatever will make you feel hot as balls.

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    Default Re: Advice/tips for handling big crowds?

    ^^^ What simone said about getting there early. I do that, and hopefully make a few 'friends' at tables that I can go to when it's crowded and overwhelming and have a few laughs with. Then other people see you having fun and are more likely to be open to you approaching. Also I have an eagle eye for guys that are kind of standing around alone in the crowded main room, and dragging them off to private dances.

    Plus take breaks- seriously... take a break when it's that crowded. The crowd will be there five minutes later, after you've had a breather and maybe set a goal (talk to three new people, get at least one private dance, etc).

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    Default Re: Advice/tips for handling big crowds?

    grab a friend! even if you don't double team well, guys will see you talking to other girls and you will look so much more approachable than if you are a loner the entire night. a lot of times guys ibterrupt me when I'm talking to a girl with a smile on my face but this never happens if I'm by myself.

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    Default Re: Advice/tips for handling big crowds?

    I completely understand since I become overwhelmed with large crowds too.

    I agree with others who said to start early and get your bearings.

    I also agree with "letting the customer choose you" approach. There will be enough guys so that you won't have to try everyone and can focus on those who show an interest in you. Look around the room and try to see who is checking you out. It sounds obvious, but I had a work friend point out to me that I wasn't noticing those men who were looking at me and didn't approach them.

    If you start there, maybe you'll be busy enough so that you won't have to try the others.

    I would avoid loud boisterous groups too (or leave them for last if nothing else is panning out).

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    Default Re: Advice/tips for handling big crowds?

    A friend is my the key to my night with groups. Even girls I don't usually talk to. Team work makes the dream work

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    Default Re: Advice/tips for handling big crowds?

    I go for either a) the odd man out-- the guy not talking to his friends, on his cell, etc or b) the guy who's eyeing me. Guys that are busy with their friends are usually just there to hang out. You can spot the guy who isn't as into his friends. Or, a guy eyeing you.

    My line that I use with groups is to usually go up to one guy-- if if there's just two-- and say something along the lines of "oh come on it's a strip club! do you really wanna hang out with another guy?" then I move on to "well, your friend is VERY sexy and I'm sure he's a ton of fun but I think I might be just a BIT sexier and LOT more fun." That usually gets a laugh and a dance.

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