so i've posted here about my mom before. She's gotten herself into a bind again, after getting a DUI and moving into a new apartment. Shes had to pay fees for the dui and is 2 months behind on rent, she's supposed to have her rent to the office by tuesday. Well she's waiting on her car title in the mail to go get a title loan to pay her rent. When i visited for Xmas she was broke and as i was leaving she said "o.m.g i have to cam all month to pay rent". I made a post long ago about setting her up with streamate, well she NEVER gets on even tho she makes anywhere from $20-40/hour and seeing as shes so speratic getting on it's not so bad especially compared to the $8/hour jobs she's had in the past. Well everyday she says she's geting on but never ever does! Not until right before the pay period cuts off and only makes about $120/week.She has resources but won't use them, camming isn't for everyone but if it's not for you DONT COUNT ON IT! go get a 9-5 somewhere. She has another job but it's commision based and is a work from home thing and since she's not the most disciplined it's not making her money.. I've even sent her a logitech c920 that a customer bought for me to help her with the quality of her shows. I've done everything i can and since she's stopping drinking she's so dependent on me and calls me everyday to talk about what she's Going to do..... about getting herself out of this hole but i don't see any progress. I'm afraid she's going to get evicted from her nice new apartment that was supposed to be a new beginning. Where is she going to go or do? This sounds terrible but i don't want to help her, she's borrowed $1,000's prob close to $20,000 from what i know from my brother and she pays his car insurance but other than that doesn't pay him back...... I work hard for my money, i get naked online for men everyday i DON'T want to give it to my mom who's freaken capable. Yes she's got depression and is having to go to mandatory meetings for DUI and pay fees but stiiillll..... She should have gotten a job a month ago and not relied on camming, it's not for her even tho she makes money, she's either too lazy or just plain can't bring herself to do it. Which i understand but plz go get a job. So rent is due Tuesday and she literally started looking for work like 1-2 weeks ago.... i just don't understand. Not to mention she says she has no gas, and her cell is getting cut off, hardly any groceries and pawned her engagment ring from the man she was engaged to before he passed a little over 3 yrs ago. I told her don't let them sit in there and that if she cant get them out i'll get them out and keep them until she can pay me back because i know they are sentimental to her. Anyway I've got some money in savings but i'm 95% sure i won't see it again and that would seriously piss me off and i see it ruining our relationship. I even thought well.... Let her borrow some money and she can pay me back with the title loan but i just know something will come up for why she can't pay me and can i wait a month..... I know i sound bitchy so plz don't judge i'm just so confused i think my brother has enabled her and she feels as if worse come to worse i'll ask my kids and that's just not right..... i love my job but i do it for the money, and i work hard to make my money and like i said i get naked and talk to men all day i don't want to give it away because my mom's been irresponsible. I don't know how Tuesday is going to play out for her if she doesn't have the money...... Thank you for listening to my vent i guess im looking for advice. Do u let family borrow money?!



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