ever been in one that has worked? My gf of 5 years is moving to LA and I'm in NY so its not like we can see each other on the weekend...its not practical for me to go with her since i'm in the middle of finishing school out here. She needs to go there for work. We both want to make it work but its going to be at least a year, more likely 2, before I can move to CA with her. I'm so sad because i really will miss her and i also am not a fan of living in NY all alone, no family here, no real friends either. If anyone has been in a long distance relationship, what worked? what didn't and why? any advice?



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That's rough. Yeah, I've been in a few. Ironically, I'm in Canada's equivalent of NYC and I'm not a fan of being here alone either! For some wierd reason big cities can end up being really lonely places full of antisocial people...wierd. Pretty much every relationship I had while in school/living here has been long distance. They were not easy, and they did not work out, but I think every situation was different, and I've learned that it takes a certain type of person to be successful at these relationships.




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