Hi first post on here
So without revealing too many details I have wound up dating an amazing, loving, absolutely gorgeous girl who has recently revealed to me that she has been a camgirl for the past 8 months.
To be honest I kind of suspected something was going on, at first I thought she was stripping, then I thought she was high-class escorting, but to be honest I would have been cool with it and wouldn't have judged her. After all I have slept pretty indiscriminately with a lot of girls before, I've been to strip clubs and hired an escort or two (or a few more)haha while I was single on the road and couldn't be bothered going to a nightclub and going through the rituals...
I met this particular girl at the gym, I caught her between sets and struck up a fun conversation...the next time I saw her we decided that we absolutely had to meet for a drink (chemistry was unbelievable) and the rest is history.
I was seeing a few other girls casually at the time, but they all faded into the abyss after I met this girl.
The past three months has been absolutely amazing, and I decided to make her my girlfriend. We have been so happy together.
She is such an amazing girl. I could tell that she was INCREDIBLY nervous when she "came out" but obviously I told her I still felt the same about her and it didn't bother me in the slightest. I pride myself in being a very non-judgemental person - Everyone knows there's a double standard when it comes to sleeping around and I think it's absolutely disgusting for guys to shame women who have the courage to express their sensuality and live in the now. Blame religion I guess.
Here's my issue...
I think it's cool that she cams and it actually turns me on to some extent that she is pimping these guys on her site while she is thinking about me every time she cumsShe is such a legend haha
I really like her and I feel like she feels the same way about me, however I am a professional athlete and if it got out that I was seriously dating a webcam model, my team would most likely freak out and tell me to dump her immediately or worst case I may get cut. I am a good player but by no means the best player on my team and sadly I am replaceable.
She doesn't seem to understand this and even though I don't judge her at all for what she does, the general public (the fans who buy tickets, merchandise, etc) may have an extremely negative reaction if one of their players was dating a "camwhore."
I have enough money to pay for her stuff, but she is very independent and wants to pay her own bills and expenses, which I really respect.
She doesn't have a college degree, even though she is a really smart girlI told her she should transition into bikini modeling (she is def hot enough) but I think she is scared of the competition and thinks she can make more camming (she's prob right). I wouldn't really even mind her nude modeling as long as it wasn't explicit and was done nice and classy. She just has to stop the DP dildoing on the internet lol! you know what I mean? haha
Especially since these creeps save the videos and then post them on tubesites and forums. She's still undercover and if she got blown up on one of the sports gossip sites I'd probably have to stop dating her to save my career and I would absolutely hate for that to happen.
This girl really does love me and I know that if she understood the situation from my angle she would stop. But from a girl's perspective what should I say to convince her. I've tried everything and I think that she's just scared of trying something new. I think she could do great glamour modeling, even selling real estate or starting an online business. She's a great girl.
I don't want to lay down the ultimatum but it's getting close to that point. I just can't let this mess up my career and I want to be able to take her to public events or even start a family down the road a few years without looking over my shoulder and hoping no one recognizes her. She is not too well known at this point and I think we could get away with it if she stopped now.
I've met a lot of girls and this one is by far the best, sorry if the post was too long I really just don't want to let this girl go![]()



haha while I was single on the road and couldn't be bothered going to a nightclub and going through the rituals...
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If you are worried about your team finding out than just keep it a light relationship and tell her you are not looking for nothing seriously. By the way, how is nude modeling different than being a cam model? I do not see the difference between hardcore or softcore stuff anyways

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