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Baleted
Last edited by jadey23; 03-03-2014 at 06:57 PM.
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This is what I do every time I get an offer that's too good to be true: I frame it in a way that it can only happen in EXTREMELY safe situations. For example in your situation, I would accept the offer but tell him I can only accept cash ITC and I am only willing to meet OTC on my own timeframe, with my own security present. And he'll never know any personal information at all about me, ever. I would make a clear, mutual agreement regarding what we expect from each other.
If he's shady, he probably won't agree to all that. And if he really does want to commit an "altruistic act of gratitude", he'll do it in a way that ensures your comfort and safety. Because it wouldn't be altruistic if he didn't.
I always find it odd when someone isn't "comfortable" with the club environment yet that's exactly where they met you in the first place. Hmm
Also I don't think he's doing this out of the paying it forward method. I suggest let him play his game of "good deeds" and what not and see exactly how good his deeds really are. Personally I find these types on the "pre-paying for pussy" system. They'll give and give and not expect anything for their money because they ooh so like you. Then when you least expect it you're being told how ungrateful you are because you didn't "pay back" what they gave in leg openings.



Thats tough..... On one hand, you don't wanna lose out on an awesome opportunity, but at the same time, you don't wanna realize you fell for this guy's bullshit. I would just say be careful! Because in my experience, pretty much whenever a guy offers to buy you a car, house, huge sum of money, etc. they are full of shit and are just dangling it in front of your face to keep your interest and entice you to go on dates or whatever.
If he beats around the bush and doesn't start discussing the tangible concrete details of how he is going to complete this "altruistic act of gratitude," you can almost certainly be sure that it's not gonna happen.
I dunno maybe I'm just really jaded lol I would just be cautious before wasting too much time/energy on him
I'd be wondering how many other girls he has told this too. It's just a scam to get you to give him something for free or some extras in the club!
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Sounds like he wants to be your sugar daddy and knows what he's doing. You can certainly try to milk him for as much as you can ITC, but I think he's made it pretty clear that it'll take more than that to get at the real prize (aka tuition). If you're comfortable with that sort of arrangement, there are lots of advice threads about sugar babying on here.
Sounds like the standard Captain Save-a-Ho to me. Don't let him drain you emotionally. Getting you to correspond with him after only one VIP is a red flag. Take his money if you can, but don't try to turn it into a longer-term thing unless you're willing to be his pet.



Thanks for the responses everyone-- I will post an update once I get the ball rolling
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Last edited by jadey23; 03-03-2014 at 06:58 PM.
Unsophisticated in the finest sense of the word.
Is there any way you can confirm that the check cleared other than via him? It sounds legit, but it's prudent to make sure. I hope this all works out well for you, good luck!



Yeah I'm going to call in a few days to make sure -- it's snail mail (in order to do phone payments, he'd need more info like my home address, etc. which I wasn't willing to give) so it's a waiting game at the moment. Fingers crossed!!!!!!!!!
Unsophisticated in the finest sense of the word.
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