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    Hey ladies,

    So I have been lurking here for a few days and reading all of the super helpful tips and experiences about this, but I still want to get an opinion before I do this because I am very nervous. I have never done anything like this before and have always just had regular jobs, but I currently need money really bad and I thought bodyrubs would be a good choice because I don't want to have sex with anyone. I am very afraid of STD's/pregnancy since I am not on the pill.

    Anyway, I am curious as to what you all think about the ad I applied to. This is it:

    I responded to it saying I was interested, and a man called to confirm I was interested and asked me if I had ever done bodyrubs before, etc. He set up an interview at a big chain hotel downtown and asked me to meet him at 4.

    Does all of this seem legit? I am naturally super suspicious and terrified of him either being some crazy guy or worse, LE.

    If it really is all legit, what can I expect my first few times doing this, especially if I am nervous? What can I do to relax? And what kind of guys typically show up to places like this? I am kind of creeped out at the thought of grinding all over greasy, overweight men that don't take care of themselves, or men that try to be too forceful. I honestly have so many reservations, but I desperately need the money ASAP.

    Last question...since I will not be doing this Indy, how does it work? Do the men pay up front to some sort of secretary and then I get my cut? How do I even get picked by the man?

    I feel like I have no idea what I am getting myself into. Lol

    Thanks so much ladies

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    That sounds shady and that site looks low budget. I wouldn't work for a body rub company that didn't have an actual studio. If you Google the number on their website you'll see it's tied to escorts and body rub girls. Can't you work at a strip club instead?

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    Damn, really? That sucks....but I guess that's why I asked.

    I don't know about stripping. I feel horribly uncoordinated. And I am thin but I have cellulite, and I feel like all these good strippers seem to have amazing bods, so...I don't know.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AnxiousBlanket View Post
    Damn, really? That sucks....but I guess that's why I asked.

    I don't know about stripping. I feel horribly uncoordinated. And I am thin but I have cellulite, and I feel like all these good strippers seem to have amazing bods, so...I don't know.
    Even if you don't like your body there are people who will. Take their money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AnxiousBlanket View Post
    Damn, really? That sucks....but I guess that's why I asked.

    I don't know about stripping. I feel horribly uncoordinated. And I am thin but I have cellulite, and I feel like all these good strippers seem to have amazing bods, so...I don't know.
    The hotel meeting sounds suspect. I bet he's going to get a room and ask you to audition. This could all be a scam to get free body rubs from naive women.

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    @Anxious.

    FWIW from a guy who reads these ads. That's a FS massage place. I'm looking at their: http://www.bodyrubbabes.com

    Generally naked skin to skin body rubs (nuru massage) requires the guy shave first or you shave him and there is no mention of that on the site. There should be since they have to warn customers that might not be able to explain where the hair went.

    "120-300 roses per hour" -- using roses means that they are engaging in services that would be considered prostitution.
    Upscale Gentlemen Only -- i.e. you need to be able to pay more than the fee listed tipping essentially mandatory
    Light Screening Required -- they are going to be checking the guys to make sure they aren't LE and don't have problems with other providers
    "Our services are fantasy & sensually based 'body rubs' not therapeutic massage" -- The women aren't even certified in massage and there is no pretense.

    The kind of guys that show up to these places are middle class professionals expecting to have sex (or at least something approximating it) with a hot young women. If all you are planning to do is rub, unless you have some very good tricks up your sleeve they are going to be pissed. I don't ever get BBFS but it wouldn't shock me if thats the expectation.

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    Default Re: Denver Bodyrub interview today, very nervous.

    I'm not sure what FS stands for, but thank you all for your tips. I guess going with gut instinct is always the best policy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AnxiousBlanket View Post
    I'm not sure what FS stands for, but thank you all for your tips. I guess going with gut instinct is always the best policy.
    Glad it was helpful.
    FS = Full Service (Intercourse).
    BBFS = Bare Back Full Service (intercourse without a condom).

    Anyway there are massage places more toned down than this. You are kind of at the extreme end in terms of price (yeah for you) and expectations (boo for you I suspect).

    BTW I forgot to answer the how they pay... The men are likely meeting you at a hotel. They'll be a double call system (usually). The man drops an envelope in plain view with the money agreed to. Often you don't touch it until he leaves. The idea here is you never ask for money at any point during the encounter. Technically that avoids you ever discussing money for sex. You pay the agency after. The trick with this place though is it sounds like you are probably are going to want to negotiate and that's where you will end up discussing sex acts for specific dollar figures. They guy might signal he wants more (like anal) by leaving some extra money out.

    Good luck with whatever you decide to do.

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    As someone who has been doing body rubs for over a year, I Def wouldn't meet with this guy! Never reply to an ad like that on Craigslist, back page is the norm for adult work, and even so, proceed with caution. I found a shared space in the Seattle area that was great, the woman who ran it charged a scheduler fee of $10, a room fee of $40 for an hour appointment. I was charging $180 an hour then, body rub only, nothing more. We collectively raised our rates to $200. I'm not sure of the scene in Denver, but I'm happy to ask around. I've made friends in this community, it's very important to, it will keep you sane, and give you someone to vent to. Please be careful responding to ads. You could get hurt, or worse. And honestly, a guy sounds shady, it's more common for women to run spaces, but be careful with that too. You are at a much lower risk of getting busted if your independent, but having the safety of a shared space might be best, especially when your a newbie. If you have any more questions, feel free to message me . I don't post here often, but I felt compelled to respond to your post, since I do know quite a lot on the subject. If you do find a shared space, learn as much as you can, research the old threads on here, I learned a ton! And go indy when you can.

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    Also, learn all the acronyms for sex acts. Very important. Knowledge is power.

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