I always observe other girls sales techniques to see if I can learn anything new and I'm starting to think that being overly flirty and in your face approach works for getting guys to agree to dances more quickly. I generally will sit in the chair next to the guy and do 5-10 minutes of general small talk. ( I always feel so boring) and then when the conversation starts to die out, I'll say something funny like " well I'm ready to get naked and I think your ready to get molested. Lets take this party to private room" I think my closing line is fun and does the job but it seems like the playful closing line catches them off guard because the earlier conversation and body language is so boring. I often feel like I waste too much time in the meaningless bullshit phase. My friend is a bubbly 4'11 super petite platinum blonde who will walk up and plop down right in the guys lap, jiggle her tits in his face and basically just says " hey baby, you wanna come have a dance?" 9 out of 10 times the guy will almost immediately get up and go do dances with her. I on the other hand am 5'10 (6'4 in heels) curvy brunette. I've always thought that If I approached guys like how my friend does I might be too overwhelming. For example Great Danes who think their lapdogs. But I also wonder if guys look at me and are intimidated by how tall I am and maybe I should go throw myself on them and be super giggly and flirty so they can feel more at ease around me. Should I go ahead and try bubbly straight forward approach? Any other techniques that might work for me to get guys to commit to dances quicker?
Thanks- Nicole



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