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    what amount of time does it take for him to spend that amount? does he want your undivided attention all week for that amount? you need to do some math to see if its worth it.
    or, if hes getting pyscho and crazy turn dominatrix on him and show him whose boss ( that was suggested in another thread). or just tell him off and stop seeing him.

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    try and schedule your regulars so they come on different days. if you guys are doing VIP and he spends 2 grand, well that's that. after VIP is over you owe him nothing. he needs to pay for your time. no pity chats for hours. don't feel that you are obligated to sit there after the money is gone. set aside a time and a price for that time if he just wants to sit and talk. if he doesn't want you seeing other regs, then he can pay more for your time to keep you there

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    Exactly! Lol don't let him hog up your time and cut out possible money. You have to tell him that your time is money and you are working a job. Unless he is willing to pay for you to sit there and pay you for your conversation your time is best spent somewhere else.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dancingdiva1 View Post
    I have to spend all my time with him and give him all my attention.
    This guy sounds like a demanding and controlling waste of time. If you even have to ask if it's worthwhile, it's probably not because of the mental energy that goes in to maintaing the relationship. Unless he is paying you well over what you earn in an average week every week and you have come to a mutual agreement, he has no right to dictate who you dance for or even whether or not you speak to someone else while he is present at the club. There are plenty of other more low-maintenace fish in the sea. Next! Of course, my patience has seriously dwindled for high-maintence customers over the years, and I'd rather focus on the big spenders that I don't dread seeing. There's always another one just around the corner.

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    If you insist on continuing to see this guy, you are going to have to put that controlling mother fucker in his place. Kindly but sternly tell him "this is MY workplace and if you want me to hang with you all night, you need to pay me. You can either get VIP rooms, lap dances or pay X amount of money per hour." If he has a problem with it, tell him that the money he's spending now isn't going to cut it and that's final. If you continue playing into his psychotic games, you will get so sick of him (if you aren't already) and you'll learn the hard way that his money isn't worth it.

    Also, it wouldn't surprise me if he goes with the "I guess you're all about the money then" line........you damn right I am!
    Just tell him that his all about the money line ain't gonna work on you.

    Last week one of my $200 regulars pissed me off by telling me what to do (to tease him before our dance) and I mockingly laughed in his face and flat out told him "don't tell me what to do, I do what I want" I then swung my hair and walked away. Fuck the sale. He later managed to track me down and still got dances. My point is, show them you're the boss and their money can only take them as far as to a lap dance. You want your customers to respect and be scared to lose you and not the other way around. High maintenance customers are not worth the trouble. Like shanna says, there's always another one around the corner.

    And I'm with Simone in regards to scheduling your customers.

    Do not be controlled, be IN CONTROL.
    Good luck!

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