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    Default Freaked out- someone posted my real name

    In free chat on CB, one of the grey (no tokens) members typed my real first name. I was freaked out and curious who it was, so I PM'd him asking who he was talking about (did not wanna let on that that *was* my real name.) The asshole wouldn't tell me who he was or why he knew my name. I blocked him but he could come back.
    Now I'm worried, for one other people could have saw that and inferred that it was me, and two I still wanna know who this dickface is. I can only assume we've met, but he spelled my name right (most people don't) only someone I'm FB friends with or close to would know how to spell my name.
    Anyone had this happen to them before??

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    Default Re: Freaked out- someone posted my real name

    this is like , my worst camming nightmare

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    YES. I have had this happen to me, and it's scary as fuck!

    I also had someone post vids of me from MFC with my real fucking name all over it (including a "watermark" of my name on the video itself on one!) to Motherless and some other site. I filed DMCA's for those and thankfully they've both been pulled now, but still - fuck it's scary. I know how it feels.

    The time I had a guy "out" me was over at Cam4. He asked me something like "<myrealname> how do you think your cousin <mycousinsname> feels about you doing this!?". Well it ended up it wasn't my cousin. The dude started getting abusive towards me, and asking me if he'd "scared" me and how stupid I am. My god I wanted to smash his face in, haha, but the lovely Kim banned his worthless ass. <3


    I'm afraid I don't want to disclose how he may have found you here to help prevent shitty, low-life assholes doing the same themselves.

    This is something that is so ridiculously easy to do. It's something both WE as camgirls need to know, but equally as much something we need to STOP giving out as ideas to people who would want to do this, so I will make a post about this in the verified section.





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    it must be some1 u know. geo block ur entire state and country if possible (not recommended for US girls). do u wear a disguise? wig? makeup? glasses? contacts? do u have a lot of followers? if not make a new account and change ur appearance!

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    This is the reality with camming. My location has been posted, and where I grew up, so I KNOW people have seen me. I have also had me and my close cam girl friends added on our PERSONAL social media by randos at the same time. This is a risk factor of the job, and why it pays so much.

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    I recently had that happened to me last month. He said hey you look like this girl ______ I used to know. He ended up putting two and two together and said you are ______. Luckily turned out to be an old friend I met through my exboyfriend, that I lost contact with after we broke up. He turned out to be super cool about it because he knows I would tell his girlfriend he spent money on me to look at my vagina. I asked him to please never say my name again in chat (invisible or not). So it was all good. He's now a reg of mine because he used to crush on me and is now being able to act out a fantasy.


    I didn't freak out. I stayed calmed and asked them to please respect me and my privacy.
    After I ended up slimming down my friends list where its just family and close friends.





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    Had this happen on SM when I first started camming. Luckily he didn't post it publicly, but let me know that he knew exactly who I was. I still don't know who HE was though. It's just part of the job...I don't mind if people know that I do this, but I would be pretty pissed if someone was trying to sabotage me by putting my info out to the public. Luckily I don't have many enemies lol.

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    Also, I have a cam girl friend on Arousor (sp?) and one day she realized she could view all the #s that called her. She reverse searched all of them, a several of them were her friend's dads. That is the REALITY.

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    good thing for me is that im a complete loser and i dont have any friends so i dont think ill ever get spotted and i wear so much disguise anyway. the only people i know dont even know how to use the internet and if my mum and sisters found out... well my sister used to be a escort and my mum never batted an eyelid. the only reason i dont tell them is because i feel uncomfy if they view my naughty bits in secret. like if they got curious and went and looked for my nudes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TeenageAnnie View Post
    good thing for me is that im a complete loser and i dont have any friends so i dont think ill ever get spotted and i wear so much disguise anyway. the only people i know dont even know how to use the internet and if my mum and sisters found out... well my sister used to be a escort and my mum never batted an eyelid. the only reason i dont tell them is because i feel uncomfy if they view my naughty bits in secret. like if they got curious and went and looked for my nudes.
    LMAO... me too :/ I'm a total hermit.
    Kiki: do you use your username from cb on anything else? gaming accounts, old myspace pages, blogs, ect.? Do you have an amazon wishlist that you may have not set up correctly? I know a cammer who had a myspace she never closed properly YEARS ago and someone found her through that.
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    Something very similar happened to me as well, they didn't say anything TO me but about me online and my family as well. Its really not fucking cool at all and I don't know what kind of kicks these losers get out of "outing" someone like that. I have never used a stage name because I am embarrassed, its a SAFETY issue. WTF is wrong with them? Im sure a good hacker could somehow find out who posted it through their IP address and then we can out them. Fuckers.
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    I had it happen before but I kinda figure it goes with the job. We are on numerous sites that you are bound to have someone you know see you at some point.

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    Girl i had that happened to me so many times.I didnt have my geo block on at the time.shit got real when someone found a video of me and was sending it to all my family and friends.It happens.All you can do is make sure you have geo block on .Also make sure your facebook friends arent public so these psychos dont go try to blackmail you or send photos and videos to family and friends.

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    That is just fucked up. Do you know who did that?


    Quote Originally Posted by bigbootyjudy1 View Post
    Girl i had that happened to me so many times.I didnt have my geo block on at the time.shit got real when someone found a video of me and was sending it to all my family and friends.It happens.All you can do is make sure you have geo block on .Also make sure your facebook friends arent public so these psychos dont go try to blackmail you or send photos and videos to family and friends.

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    I had a profile on a dating site and one day two guys wrote to me saying they knew me from SM. One I recognized as a member I went excl with a few times.
    Oh, and they both live in the same town as me, so now they have that info.
    I took my profile down and was kind of creeped out because who knows how many guys would have known me from SM and not mentioned it and instead, tried to be all nice to me and get a date.

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    My second day camming someone PM'd me "Hey _____". I flipped, blocked them and signed off. After about 20 minutes in the corner breathing through a paper bag I realized I probably should have tried to find out who it was. I have a feeling it's one of my creepy old coworkers who still texts me checking up on my career... Haven't been outed, but my family already knows (somewhat) what I do, and I'm seriously a complete hermit.

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    I posted on SW about my brother finding me by accident while looking at porn. Someone else found me, two days ago I got a Facebook message from some guy I went to high school with telling me that he saw me on SM, then kept saying how hot my pics were and asking me all these damn sexual questions. I legit told him to please stop freeloading on Facebook chat, if he wants to talk come give me gold LOL. He was all like " no I'm not spending money on there but I want to take u out on a date" ....NOPE! I have a boyfriend thanks!
    It doesn't even phase me when this happens. After my younger bro finding me anyone could and I don't even care lol

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    Default Re: Freaked out- someone posted my real name

    That's another thing that sucks about being a cam girl. Guys (well, the ones who know you're a cam girl) assume you're an easy lay, and think it's appropriate to turn every conversation into a sexual thing. They don't even bother trying to get to know YOU, and any chance you thought you had of developing something good with them...well, that sorta goes right out the window when they become fixated on "Ooh, this girl is a freak!" Lol.

    It kinda reminds me of the Seinfeld episode where Jerry was dating a masseuse, and the entire episode he's determined to get a free massage from her. Elaine tells him "Jerry, she massages people all day for a living! She doesn't wanna come home and be expected to give you a massage!" Lol.


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    Yes it's very unfortunate that guys get a thrill out of scaring cam girls...lol... I think the best way is to just be out of the closet so to speak.. when I was trolled and I was revealed.. I actually feel quite liberated that I am not even hiding behind a name anymore... fear of being found out..

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    Thank you for sharing your experiences. I haven't heard from that guy since then and that's the only time I've run into a situation like that. The only profile I have online that has my face connected to my real name is Facebook, so I will have to take that pic down and replace it with a meme or something. Also, I'm seriously thinking about changing my city. Even though I claim my location as DC, which is over an hour from me, I'm beyond tired of the "Where in DC/MD/VA, I'm in DC too we need to meet and hook up, where exactly in DC are you so I can Google Earth your house and find you" questions. Nice to know it is not such a big deal, perhaps I should get a wig and slather on the makeup for a full disguise!

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    Well what I do know?? is if you use the same pics in your real life as you do in your cam life?? somehow they are able to find out all the places that pic is coming from.. no idea how but that's what I heard..

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    That's correct. You can take the picture and run it through a website such as TinEye.com and find out all the places online that the picture has been posted. Also in the file information of the picture there may be information called GeoTagging which includes your location co-ordinates from the time the picture was taken. It is very accurate which is scary. Accurate to your exact house, even sometimes the exact room where the photo was snapped. This happens when pictures are taken from cell phone with location services turned on, or digital cameras which have GPS embedding. Always use separate pics for your vanilla life , and make sure location services and other similar settings are turned off on your devices when taking pics you use for camming.

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    I met this guy in a state over that works a few hours from my city and were facebook friends and have each others numbers. Well one day he randomly messages me on fb recognizing me from cb. I'm glad you did it on fb and not cb. I told him not to say my real name and so far he hasn't. I doubt he'd be the type to and he's bought a ton of my videos since he found out that it really is me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Genoveve View Post
    Another thing that might make you feel better is the fact that this kinds of stuff happens often to non-adult entertainers too.
    Yup. Years ago - this was before I was camming - this so-called professional photographer (scumbag trying to fuck his models) got angry with me via AOL IM about something, and decided to look me up on the 'net to find some "dirt" on me, I guess? When he found something he thought was pretty juicy, he e-mailed other models about it to get an "OMG!" reaction from them. He did that because he knew I'd be warning fellow models about what a scumbag he is, and he wanted to try to make me look bad instead. I wound up having to block him from instant messaging, e-mails, and I (and other models, I believe) were able to get him banned from a popular model/photographer networking site.

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    That's scary. Not sure if u all remember the post a made about that guy on Twitter offering to send cam girls files of popular movies, tv shows etc... Well he's definitely trying to do that EXACT same thing. He sent my friend a file who was posing as a cam girl but is really a computer IT type guy, and guess what? Hidden in the file was something that would allow the sender to access the persons computer! So always always be safe! Never download files from someone u don't know! I had a customer get so mad at me the other day because I wouldn't accept a file download from him on Skype which he said was a screenshot of the payment he made to me. It's not worth it! If someone really needs to send u a pic tell them to send it through streamate or whatever site u cam on. Never ever directly download something from anyone u don't know and trust!!!


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    ^^^I even recently read that someone hacked into the computer of Miss Teen USA and secretly recorded her via the webcam for a while and tried to extort her with the footage. It doesn't just happen to camgirls!

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