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    Sorry to be bumping this thread, but I'm a little freaked out.

    The other night this MFC member from Detroit, Michigan was telling me to check out some movie called Corner Store. Just now I was accessing my FB account from my cell phone, and some guy from Detroit, Michigan (who is on my FB friends list?! WTF...) sent me a "Keith has invited you to 'like' Corner Store" FB invite. I have no idea why I even have this guy on my FB friends list. The only possible explanation I could think of is maybe we have a mutual friend or something. Anyway, I just unfriended him. But now I'm pissed because this means this dude now knows my real name.....
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    its not just customers that out us. I had another girl in the industry do it to me. I guess maybe because she was jealous or thought I was competition? It was in 2008/2009, I had only been on the "scene" for a little over a year, I was completely out with my family/friends and everyone so it's not like I was hiding what I do online. Still, I didn't want my personal information all over the internet for creepers to stalk me in real life. Be careful what you post online, who you share your private information with, don't post the same photos on your private facebook as you do your online persona stuff, heck, don't even have two different facebooks.. believe it or not they can be connected, know the recognize this person feature? yep.. I had people find me that way before.. it can all be traced. I would suggest not even using your legal name on any internet profiles so you aren't searchable anywhere Don't download files from people you don't know.

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    Yeah if u have a Facebook change the name! My Facebook has my first name only as the name, and it's split like this: Sab Rina (not my real name this is an example of how my name is, this would be if your name is Sabrina). Just a tip, that's what I've done cuz I don't want my full real name out there. I change this right when I started camming, that way in the event someone finds my fb profile they still don't know my real name. Also make sure your friends list and entire profile are set to friends only. Or better yet delete fb if you don't need it. I wish I could do this but I keep in contact with a lot of friends this way

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    Quote Originally Posted by TattooedBBW View Post
    Or better yet delete fb if you don't need it. I wish I could do this but I keep in contact with a lot of friends this way
    Yeah, that's not an option for me either because I have lots of out-of-state friends/fam/acquaintances who I communicate with through FB. I've definitely had my profile and friends list set to private though. I unfriended him on FB...still at a loss for how he ended up on my friends list. We don't even have any mutual friends, I don't think. I'm not sure if I'm gonna block him from Twitter though. He hasn't given me any problems so far, and hasn't indicated that he's made the cam girl/FB name connection. He was in my MFC chat the other night, but I forgot what his screen name is.

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    There are days that I dont regret having rather small family and not many friends.... lol
    My mum&bro knew from the very begining and a few close people too. And all the others, I think I just dont give a F. The fact that its THEM who found me THERE tells as mush about them as it does about me.
    But still I can understand how creepy and bad it should feel.
    I've made a mistake of telling my real name to a couple of regs in the very begining, even though I've never had problems, I would never do something like that again. NEVER ever tell your real name even to your best custie. As it says somewhere here, if you really feel the need make-up a real fake name and stick to it.
    It's also true about face recognition on photos, now you can even do it trhough google, thats how some photographers check if their photos are used on Internet without their agreement/remuneration. You just upload this picture and see all the sites you can find a similar one. So be careful, girls.
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    One time my boyfriends dad saw me while camming,even though I had the state blocked.. Found out about it the next week.

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    Yeah geoblocks don't really work. He could of been on a white label or using a vpn.





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    My boyfriends friends constantly find me and harrass me on SM. I constantly block too, geo block aint shit. It used to be just one guy now its 3 or 4 of his friends and one even texted me saying vulgar things as if i wanted the D or something lololol

    The other day it happened too, totally gave out my FB and real name in chat. The only social networks i now have are related to camming, for me it's not worth the risk, and even if u do a name change on fb, theres other ways, I had a bunch of real life camgirl friends on there too so i didnt want them to be outted so all that shit is gone, Just remember when you do this be prepared for it, it will happen to all of us one day! lol or more!
    PS- Obviously my bf isnt friends with those losers anymore and if we see them i'll probably have to bail him out of jail lolol

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    Don't waste YOUR money on those assholes





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    *clicks thread*
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    Quote Originally Posted by PlayfulLilGirl View Post
    My boyfriends friends constantly find me and harrass me on SM. I constantly block too, geo block aint shit. It used to be just one guy now its 3 or 4 of his friends and one even texted me saying vulgar things as if i wanted the D or something lololol
    Wtf do we always turn into sluts from these guys points of view once they find out we are camgirls ughhh
    After my best friend's now ex(woohoo!) found out I cammed I was at her birthday dinner he said some nasty vulgar crap to me that made me want to slap the hell out of him.



    But anyways since this thread has turned into how ppl have found us out and instead of being decent humans and going on with their own lives they decide to mess with us I'll share mine!

    My boyfriends brother frequents SM which is my main site..
    I found this out after he left SM logged into a computer at my house
    I've always been nice to him, our family is close (my family and my boyfriends) we do holidays together, have at least 2 family dinners a month usually at my place and hang out almost weekly
    I figured since he frequents SM he knows what I do.. Okay whatever surely since he's family he'll be cool, right? NOPE

    I guess he decides he wants to torture me so he starts messaging my sister on fb "want to know what your sister does for money?"
    My sister ignored it and didn't take the bait but who knows which other people in our mutual friend pool he'll message
    If my family finds out so be it but I don't need someone who obviously wants to mess with me tell the whole town or put my info online, Both of which would be dangerous

    It's just like... You expect it maybe out of people who just know your name by minimal interaction but family.. Ugh
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    Someone typed my real name in free chat who was pretending to be someone from south america. I never found out who it was. When I called him out on it is acted all confused.
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    Yes, I have had several do that on cam and mention my vanilla profession and even ask if I still practice in xyz town. That is why I have to keep the total free ones blocked off as they get on cam in the free area and harass me.

    Also, I have had them to do that to me on Twitter which I only have model accts on Twitter. But when I was outed last year a local tweeted to another model I had worked with that day and mentioned my real name. My acct is protected because of people like that. I tweeted him and as he had requested to follow me- added him so I could question him about that and find out who he was. He admitted knew me in vanilla life. I asked him not to do that ever again and he deleted tweet. The only local still allowed to follow me.

    On FB, I have personal acct with no model/photographer friends and 2 model accts. Another model, who got a major chewing out, tagged my husband's vanilla fb acct and my model acct on same pic. He has a photographer acct so at least use that one not his vanilla one if you must tag. Yes, I am outed but it was the idea that we were connected together by this person in a pic without either of us giving permission to be tagged.

    It is indeed frustrating and scary when your real name is known. I am on constant lookout when I go out at home and have been followed in stores and going out to dinner brings a show with it.

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    This freaks me out...and all the facial recognition apps and software--leave a big-ass footprint everywhere
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    I thought geoblocker would keep me safe but apparently my ex found me on CB and said my real name in chat then he called me but it didn't show up on my phone. He's the only person who is blocked on my phone because he harassed the hell out of me after I left him. I immediately started to shake and cry STILL ON CAM as I banned him. I felt awful because I had a couple regulars in my room and some new people too. After I banned him he came back with a barely different username and said banning him wouldn't matter and he would tell my current bf that I was a cheating whore or something.
    Should I change my cam username??? I don't want to loose the fans I have but I certainly don't want him to keep changing his IP address and scaring me again.

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    Read through this thread... and just changed my name on FB from real one to my nickname lol! I think that's the only place online that had my real name. I try to take as many precautions as I can, not posting real life pics to cam profiles and the like, though I don't use geo blocking cause I know it doesn't work and why lose out on the traffic? I'm just glad I have no one to worry about finding me out.. except I would rather my managers at the day job not know. That's it though, no nosy family members or jealous exes... hell, sometimes I fantasize about one of my exes finding me on cam and being unable to stop spending money on shows with me hahaha! But I hiiighly doubt she watches cams.

    Good thing about SM is I can stay on classic chat and it doesn't even matter if someone who knows me says my name, nobody can hear you dumbass! ;P Well, some of these posts in here suck real bad. So glad I don't have to deal with that shit, only worry about stalkers and that's it.
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    These trolls who usually do this stuff, most of the time come from a certain website that I will not name.
    I also go on that website, have been on there for a few years. The reason why I admit that, is because I know how they work, which is a good thing because then you'll know what to look out for.

    The way they're able to connect one picture to many different sites you uploaded it to, is google image search. Instead of searching for a keyword, there's an option to search by a picture. So they search up the picture, and google shows all the other sites that picture is on. Facebook, instagram, etc. And if you have personal information on any of those sites, boom. They have your info.

    A good way to avoid this, especially if you want to use the same picture on both your personal social media and your camsites, is to alter the image slightly.

    Go into MS Paint, and open the picture you want to use.
    All you need to do is click the "color picker tool" (So it's not obvious you altered it) and click anywhere in the picture. DO NOT MOVE THE MOUSE AFTER YOU CLICK.
    After you click with the color picker tool, it will automatically turn into the pencil tool. While keeping the mouse in the same spot, click again. That will leave a pencil mark of the same exact color in that spot. For example, if you use the color picker tool on your hair, it will turn the pencil into the same color as your hair. Then click in the same spot leaving a mark.
    Doing this changes the pictures "coding" or whatever you want to call it, making it as if it's an entirely different picture.
    Save that picture in a new folder called "Camming pictures" or whatever you want to name it, just make sure you keep the altered pictures separate from your real life pictures so you don't get them confused. Use the altered pictures for all camming shit, keep your untouched pictures for your personal life.

    If you want to test that it worked, do a google image search with it.
    1. Go to google images
    2. In the search bar, click the camera icon
    3. Find your altered picture
    4. Nothing should come up other than "Related images" which aren't all that related.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SerenaJade View Post
    One time my boyfriends dad saw me while camming,even though I had the state blocked.. Found out about it the next week.
    My Stepdad found me too. I didn't yet have my state blocked, but even if you have your state blocked, some camsites like Chaturbate has affiliates. Those affiliates broadcast your live stream on their website. You can't control who sees it.
    I believe one of the affiliate sites is pussygenerator.com
    I immediately emailed them and politely asked them to remove it. They did. But there's no telling that it will be re-added when I come online again.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SerenaJade View Post
    One time my boyfriends dad saw me while camming,even though I had the state blocked.. Found out about it the next week.
    My Stepdad found me too. I didn't yet have my state blocked, but even if you have your state blocked, some camsites like Chaturbate has affiliates. Those affiliates broadcast your live stream on their website. You can't control who sees it.
    I believe one of the affiliate sites is pussygenerator.com
    I immediately emailed them and politely asked them to remove it. They did. But there's no telling that it will be re-added when I come online again.

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