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    Default How often do you approach customers b/c of physical attractiveness?

    I know your main priority is to make money but do you sometimes find yourself drawn to an attractive customer that you approach him anyway? I'm sure most strippers have felt this way at one time or another but I want to know how often it comes into play.

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    Default Re: How often do you approach customers b/c of physical attractiveness?

    I can appreciate a good looking male, or a good looking female for that matter They cannot buy what I do not offer to sell them.

    But I can also appreciate that the better-looking a guy in particular is, often the more likely he is going to give me the runaround b/c he thinks his smashing good looks should entitle him to freebies. Thus I would approach but approach w/o having my financial hopes up too high.

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    Default Re: How often do you approach customers b/c of physical attractiveness?

    Are you the same guy that got banned yesterday, asking about strippers falling in love with customers?

    Cause my answer still stands.
    And I agree with Aniela, and tend to avoid these guys bc they usually have attitudes.
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    Default Re: How often do you approach customers b/c of physical attractiveness?

    i will go to the good looking ones last. anelia is right on the money,, those guys can likely get much more than im offering for free from other girls, and will feel that i should be falling all over myself to talk to them for free and go out with them. naah, ill take the fat old nerd with glasses and acne!
    i can appreciate their looks from afar, while im talking to guys who will actually spend. but then i have a general mis-trust of super good looking guys who know they are good looking IRL too

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    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    Are you the same guy that got banned yesterday, asking about strippers falling in love with customers?

    Cause my answer still stands.
    And I agree with Aniela, and tend to avoid these guys bc they usually have attitudes.
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    Default Re: How often do you approach customers b/c of physical attractiveness?

    I never approach a customer because he's cute. I'm at work, I'm not at a bar. I'm a sucker for British accents and I do approach British guys a lot, but that's only because I tend to do very well with them in the club.

    Honestly, if two guys are sitting next to each other and I am debating which one to go to, I usually pick the least attractive one. Not to be harsh but they're more needy and appreciative, which means they tip more. Really attractive guys tend to have this attitude of "I'm so sexy I don't have to pay, let me just take you out" and I have no patience for that bullshit at work.

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    Default Re: How often do you approach customers b/c of physical attractiveness?

    Yes the same guy who asked why dancers don't go to have fun at clubs. Anyway, I always approached the fattest/ugliest/oldest customers because almost always they were the ones willing to spend more money. The handsome men tended to want things for free.

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    Default Re: How often do you approach customers b/c of physical attractiveness?

    If he DOESN'T give me the cheap/I don't wanna spend and get my ass kissed for free vibe. Yes. Otherwise, no. I have bills to pay.

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    Default Re: How often do you approach customers b/c of physical attractiveness?

    I vote he posts pics, apparently finds himself very attractive. I'd like to be the judge of that...
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    *sniff sniff*

    I smell troll shit.

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    Default Re: How often do you approach customers b/c of physical attractiveness?

    It was kind of fun that time my ATF told me I was good-looking ...

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    Default Re: How often do you approach customers b/c of physical attractiveness?

    ^ not that i know her or you , but i tell that to my regulars too even though most of them are pretty darn homely. flattery will get you everything with some dudes.

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    Default Re: How often do you approach customers b/c of physical attractiveness?

    I do of course realise that I have to take it with a pinch of salt.

    My girlfriends have seemed to have the idea that I am good-looking, and one female friend who is not my girlfriend has the idea that women would find me good-looking, and one other female friend who is not my girlfriend says that I am "not her type".

    What my ATF really thinks, I guess I'll never know. But it's nice to hear her say it anyway.

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    Default Re: How often do you approach customers b/c of physical attractiveness?

    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    ^ not that i know her or you , but i tell that to my regulars too even though most of them are pretty darn homely. flattery will get you everything with some dudes.
    It does.

    The more playful, the better in my book. It goes both ways too, moreso OTC than in.

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    Default Re: How often do you approach customers b/c of physical attractiveness?

    Imho, crafty strippers will hone in on the evolutionary "weaklings" that have zero chance of scoring women in real life. My personal fav? The young, overweight, quiet nerd... awkward AND inexperienced with women! Stripper jackpot.

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    Default Re: How often do you approach customers b/c of physical attractiveness?

    Quote Originally Posted by moosehead View Post
    I know your main priority is to make money but do you sometimes find yourself drawn to an attractive customer that you approach him anyway?
    Lol, no.

    Quote Originally Posted by moosehead View Post
    I'm sure most strippers have felt this way at one time or another
    No. Customerzoning is all-encompassing and irreversible. No exceptions, not even for you.

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    but I want to know how often it comes into play.
    Never.

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    How often do I approach a customer b/c of physical attractiveness?

    Never .
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    Default Re: How often do you approach customers b/c of physical attractiveness?

    i can appreciate when a man (or woman) is attractive, although whether i approach someone or not solely depends on if and how much they're spending

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    Default Re: How often do you approach customers b/c of physical attractiveness?

    On the off chance that this is something like a serious thread and not a blatant troll, I'll comment seriously.

    Your physical attractiveness is NEVER "the" reason they approached you. You'd have to be on hell of a narcissist to think that 1-you're so devastatingly handsome that they forget why they're in the club, and 2 - you're the most attractive guy they've seen recently.

    Dude - do you somehow think that only unattractive guys go to these clubs? Newsflash buddy - these girls are constantly exposed to attractive, intelligent, and oft times well-off men. And they take their money and forget the guy just as readily as they do the overweight computer geek with halitosis who never talks to girls. Sure, they might hate spending time with an attractive guy less than spending it with a fat smelly one. They might even titter a little bit in the dressing room about how hot and awesome their custy is - 90% of the time that's followed with "too bad I didn't meet him somewhere else". I know. I hang out with these girls, brother - once you're "customerzoned" as starlilly put it, most of the time it's a done deal, you're a walking talking ATM, period. Know why they don't care how hot you are? Because tomorrow night they'll meet another dude just as hot. Probably hotter, with a bigger dick and more money. And they won't care about him, either.

    Jeez.

    Now to apply a little salve to your fragile ego, I'll say this - as someone who has had measured success in dating/hooking up with dancers I met at the club, there ARE things that will make you stand out, and maybe get a girl to take a chance on you.

    1 - never walk in with that intention. They're at work, respect that and behave accordingly. Spend money on them if you take their time.

    2 - never negatively affect their money. This is related to #1, but stands alone - if she IS flirting with you "for real", and you've spent what you're gonna spend, tell her that, and tell her that if she needs to go make her money elsewhere to do so. This repsects her time, but it also gives you a clue - if she continues to hang with you, there might be real interest, especially if the club is busy.

    3 - never ask for her number or to meet OTC. You can say things like "wow you're really cool, sure wish I'd met you somewhere else" and drop hints, but if she wants you OTC, she'll tell you.

    4 - be the best damned custy in the place. Hands off during dances. Don't be creepy or try for extras. Tip well. Let her do her job and be respectful about it.

    5 - realize what I said above - no matter how hot you KNOW you are, you're just another guy until SHE decides she sees you differently. Nothing - and this is mportant - NOTHING YOU CAN SAY OR DO WILL CHANGE THIS, and the harder you try, the less likely that it'll change. Following this list is the only thing you can do, and what it does is leave her open and comfortable IF she decides she likes you. ITC, the ball is ALWAYS in her court.

    99% of the time, this list will do nothing more than set you apart as a positive experience at work that day. One time in a bunch, that separation will result in her making a tentative effort to see if there's more to it.

    To reiterate what was said before though - you aren't good looking enough to matter on looks alone. Nobody is.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dirtydiamond View Post
    i can appreciate when a man (or woman) is attractive, although whether i approach someone or not solely depends on if and how much they're spending
    That might be why I've seen strippers eye-fucking me but then never say a word to me. It makes me wonder if they're scared that I'll convince them to give me discounts on dances.

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    Quote Originally Posted by moosehead View Post
    That might be why I've seen strippers eye-fucking me but then never say a word to me. It makes me wonder if they're scared that I'll convince them to give me discounts on dances.
    A strip club is not a singles bar moosehead. Dancers get paid when they sell dances. If they aren't approaching you it means you are either giving off a creepy vibe or you have already demonstrated that you are a time waster of some sort. Word travels fast in the dressing room when it comes to guys who don't spend.
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    Almost Jaded,

    So you heavily imply that I'm some delusional, narcissist douchebag. Well, let's see, you wrote a long post flaming me while bragging that you had "measured success" hooking up with strippers. So you've hooked up with several while us mere mortals are walking ATMs...right.

    To be honest, much of what you said reads more like you trying to tailor your arguments to pre-set conclusions. Like telling me to not be a creep and ask for extras. What strip clubs have you been to? I don't need to be a creep who asks strippers for extras. I don't need to ask for extras even if I wanted it because there are PLENTY of them who will ask me before I say anything. And how would I be the perfect custie if I'm hands off during dances? If I'm not burying my face in her boobs, she usually places my face in there for me. Again, what strip clubs have you been to?

    About the part about dropping hints to her to signal your interest...strange. You seem to have your gender roles reversed. It's women who usually do that stuff and it's men who do the approaching. Women very rarely make the first move, but apparently I need her to do just that in a strip club if I am to succeed in dating a stripper, according to those five points that I must follow religiously or wallow in loneliness. Just curious, how experienced are you in dating?

    And what's with all these passive-aggressive insults like you trying to make it seem like you're going to salvage my "fragile ego". Please. When you say stuff like that, it's clear you wrote your response to me with the intention of flaming as opposed to giving legitimate advice. Actually, I think the only reason there's some semblance of advice is you're trying to make pump up your own tires. I'm trying to think of what was your mindset in writing that response to me. Did you expect me to think the following: "Damn why is Almost Jaded so good at dating strippers while I'm being used for my money? Why is he so lucky?" LOL.

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    A strip club is not a singles bar moosehead. Dancers get paid when they sell dances. If they aren't approaching you it means you are either giving off a creepy vibe or you have already demonstrated that you are a time waster of some sort. Word travels fast in the dressing room when it comes to guys who don't spend.
    Completely untrue. There have been strippers who themselves will ask me repeatedly for dances. I say no and they come back and ask again later that night. Why will they spread negative comments about my apparently poor spending habits if they themselves don't believe it?

    Remember my story about the stripper who fell in love with me? She asked me multiple times. You might also remember me mentioning that I decided to get dances with another stripper later that night. She also asked me multiple times.

    I really doubt word gets around fast about customers. Most strippers don't even like each other as they view each other as competition, so it's unlikely they'll be gossiping much. What are they going to tell each other? This is especially true if some of them are known for blowing customers in the private room. In those situations, they will likely say squat to each other about customers.
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    Quote Originally Posted by moosehead View Post
    That might be why I've seen strippers eye-fucking me but then never say a word to me. It makes me wonder if they're scared that I'll convince them to give me discounts on dances.
    Hahahahaha.
    Puhlease. Get over yourself. I don't give a shit if Leo DiCaprio comes in, he isn't getting a discount. I pity any woman who has to deal with you in or out of the club.

    Everything Almost Jaded said is correct.
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    Quote Originally Posted by moosehead View Post
    Completely untrue. There have been strippers who themselves will ask me repeatedly for dances. I say no and they come back and ask again later that night. Why will they spread negative comments about my apparently poor spending habits if they themselves don't believe it?
    It's their job to ask moose. They like your money. If you say no but you are still sitting there later on many dancers will ask again.. Their job is to dance or ask for dances. Why is that so hard for you to grasp?
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