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    Hey ladies!
    I'm coming to you about this because I HAVE NEVER HAD TO DO THIS BEFORE...

    A fellow cam model and friend on Chaturbate was murdered by her roommate saturday night. Which obviously sucks. We were pretty close despite her being far far away [ as I am sure you girls understand, beng cam models yourself] I really took her under my wing to help her with camming, encouraged her, and she was a sweet girl, always sending me stuff in the mail and talking me up.

    And now she's been murdered.
    It's fucking me and my boyfriend up because...well we can't really grieve in traditional ways. It's not like we can go to her funeral. Or send her family condolances and cards. About all I cam do right now is give support to the many people in the cam world that she touched. We plan to get terribly drunk on gothy wine [ she was a bit of a gothy lady] in her honor.

    Has anyone else had to deal with this? What did you do?

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    Pepper, I've never been in this situation but I just wanted to give my condolences. That's so sad.

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    I heard about that and read the news article last night. I am so very sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what drove her roommate to do such a horrible thing. They started a fundraiser for abuse victims in her honor, maybe donating to that will help a bit to grieve.

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    Holy shit. That is so horrible, I'm incredibly sorry you have to go through this. Perhaps since you cannot do "typical" funeral-type things maybe donate to a charity or organization that deals with violence against women. These organizations do everything from offer women a safe house to drug addictions counseling. Again, my condolences. *hugs*
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    OMG, how horrible! I'm so sorry for your loss, Pepper! And it must be especially difficult grieving for someone close to you who you can't give too much info about (since it's camming). *hug*
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    <3 hugs so sorry for your loss





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    Oh I can give lots of info about it. I mean, she's gone now so....

    I more mean it's not like if I wanted to I could go to her funeral or send her family cards... they have no idea who I am. They knew she cammed but I mean no one who DOESN'T cam knows what that's like. They probably don't really realize that you can make actual relationships with people in this industry.
    There is a fund for her by the communtiy here:

    http://www.indiegogo.com/projects/nc...-memory-of-ash


    Just...a shock. I thought some reg of mine was joking when he Dm'ed me on twitter that she was dead yesterday. Like I thought he meant "dressed like a zombie on cam" or something...><
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    Quote Originally Posted by o0Pepper0o View Post
    Hey ladies!
    I'm coming to you about this because I HAVE NEVER HAD TO DO THIS BEFORE...

    A fellow cam model and friend on Chaturbate was murdered by her roommate saturday night. Which obviously sucks. We were pretty close despite her being far far away [ as I am sure you girls understand, beng cam models yourself] I really took her under my wing to help her with camming, encouraged her, and she was a sweet girl, always sending me stuff in the mail and talking me up.

    And now she's been murdered.
    It's fucking me and my boyfriend up because...well we can't really grieve in traditional ways. It's not like we can go to her funeral. Or send her family condolances and cards. About all I cam do right now is give support to the many people in the cam world that she touched. We plan to get terribly drunk on gothy wine [ she was a bit of a gothy lady] in her honor.

    Has anyone else had to deal with this? What did you do?
    I know of this too. I actually had been in the room before. I was shocked! I also felt the hit of this. I just talked it over with my room mate and we try to keep going. Great performer, super nice. Not as close as you had been as a friend but it still hurts to see a fellow performer lose a life. I said a prayer and talked more about her with my room mate. He has been great support.
    Cry. Mourn her. Never forget her. She will always live on inside your heart.
    Very sad indeed. She will be missed.

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    Forgot to ad I was watching the performer dance the other day to music while the background was a super nice drop of streets behind! I said I loved the hair.
    So sorry.

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    I have the wrong person... The one I have is with dark hair, blond streaks dancing... did they run a video of her? I commented on the hair, I watched it like two days ago??. I found she was murdered too in Columbia. Jan 22/2014. Worked CB as well.

    Again.. sorry for the loss of a friend Pepper. Now I am very sad to read these both.

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    https://gfy.com/showthread.php?t=1131630
    Third picture is how I seen her a couple days ago. She was killed, I am confused as if to anyone running a video of this girl.
    We ladies have to be careful. She worked CB also.

    I can relate Pepper. This is the girl (Tranny I now know) I watched. And thought was so hot!

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    Oh wow. This is so sad. I am sorry for your loss. Have they found out why he murdered her?
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    No. It is implied it was a domestic dispute that becaome very violent but for unknown reasons the family wants the cops to keep a lid on it until they have a solid case.. which sounds fucking sinisters and freaks me out.

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    So sorry this happened. I worry so much for all of us. So many beautiful, bright, and incredibly sweet girls are victimized. Camgirls are possibly at even higher risk due to their unstable incomes and the nature of their work.

    I'm glad her murderer is in custody. I really hope he isn't released on bail on Monday. Perhaps the parents are just trying to keep the police from releasing any statements pertaining to her work. It sickens me to think this monster might be trying to use that to his advantage.






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    *hugs* a loss at all is difficult and I'm so sorry you're going through this right now. I'm thinking good thoughts and sending out positive vibes for all those affected.

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    No, I don't think that's it. I think it may just be that her death was...disturbing perhaps? Like in a violent way that perhaps they don't want to discuss until they're sure it was him... I doubt it had much to do with cam modeling. This was her roommate after all.

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    I am sorry this happen. She looked so attractive and sweet.

    The murderer was male, right? Men, why???


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    I'm so sorry for your loss.So sad

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    OMG. So after seeing this i clicked on the article and swore I knew her. Lo and behold I was super close with her on twitter.. We even talked about camming together all the time.. My heart is seriously broken right now.. I'm literally crying.. I'm so sorry <3

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    I'm sorry for your loss =( So horrible. She was so young and beautiful

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    This might be the most morbid thing to ask.....it came from a place of good intentions though! I posted the indiegogo link in my mellymay.com site and posted a link on twitter as well.

    I just had an anonymous question sent to me by someone who would like to contribute. He asked if she had a tumblr.... i think it's a gross, weird question, but he probably just wants to know my relationship to her....which is thru you, Pepper! I don't want to give any info in poor taste, but might it be okay if I give the link to the news story? I don't want to be outing people even post mortem.

    I just joined CB & will be starting this week, and I think I'll be contributing 50% of the earnings to NCADV in her honor as well.

    I really just wanted to make people aware that domestic violence is not limited to couples or parent/child situations....... (Domestic Violence awareness, prevention, etc has always been my MAIN philanthropic cause.) and that it is a bug f'ing deal.
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    ^ DISREGARD. NOT about to give out her real name via news stuff. I'll jusy tell the dude yes, she's real, a friend of a friend, etc and promote the indiegogo part.
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    No that's fine. Shes pretty much outed anyways. And her parents knew she was a cam model, it wasn't a secret. In fact her BEING a cam model MAY have been part of the reason. I'm getting the impression that this was an attack based on jealousy and unrequited love. I'm sure we'll get more details soon.

    Ramona Flours is trying to set something up with CB to get full time camgirls to donate a shows earning to help pay funeral costs. Because that would be awesome.

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    ^ That would be a great idea. I would totally join in on that 100%.

    I've spent all night reading our conversations back and forth and just crying.. This fucking sucks.

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    Oh my...in the light of what has happened, her final tweet is heartbreaking
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