Hey yall, I want to apologize for offending everyone in my earlier thread and that was not my intent. Sophia, kelly, lurking, Aurora, and yoda, and anyone else that I came across crass or rude to I want you to let know I do love yall. I will say my stance remains unchanged, but my presentation will.
Having said that I do have another question regarding the approach. I myself am always the approacher vs the approachee, probably due to the notion I know exactly what she wants vs feeling in control, or at least the illusion there of.
The question then is should I tell yall straight off the bat, "no thanks," before dances or services have been offered such as if you open with "you look like you could use some company." I know where it's going lead to, but shooting her down right away comes off as rude in my book. At the same time I know I won't be buying, and don't want to waste her time, but the approach anxiety and thought of rejection never goes away, no? Sure it becomes manageable over time, but not ever completely gone.



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Sooo when you say names, do you mean derogatory or pet names? I call all my favorites "cute girl" or "fun girl" or whatever I like about them

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