There are irritating misconceptions about squirting, some of which fakers may be helping to spread (e.g. you can *always* squirt, you can squirt very quickly, any type of sexual stimulation can make you squirt), but I think the "all women can squirt" myth is primarily being circulated outside of the community. And it's seriously irritating, because it's often implied that women who don't squirt aren't emotionally "connected" or aren't aroused "enough."
From an "Ask Men" article:
"Female ejaculation might be elusive, but making her squirt is not impossible. You just have to stroke her the right way."
"If your girl is inhibited you can work her G-spot all you want, but if she’s not ready to open up she’s not going to come. The feeling might even annoy her since it will make her feel like she’s going to pee. So make sure she’s ready and willing to get wet."
And here's a quote from an "expert" featured on one of Dan Savage's podcasts:
“Every woman can [squirt]. Every woman has a G-spot … It doesn’t have so much to do with being in your body or being sex positive, it has to do with your emotions. The G-spot is the emotional center of our reproductive system … It has a lot to do with connecting intimacy with sex, with being able to let your emotions flow. With being willing to cry when you feel something intensely. That’s not something that’s really out there as a part of sex. And I think that’s why a lot of women can’t do it, they haven’t connected their hearts with their vaginas … A lot of women have trauma stored in their body and it makes some parts of their body inaccessible.”
So... great. I don't squirt, which obviously means I'm either not trying hard enough (whatever that means!) or have trauma stored all up in my vag.



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