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Last edited by RebeccaT; 02-19-2014 at 03:19 AM.





I did meet a online customer when I was stripping I was 19 or 20 at the time. He met me at the club and it was a semi safe environment at the time. These days my offline life I am an escort, so sometimes there is this annoying cross over of guys in my room who know my other persona or some who want to meet just because they have seen all my videos and been watching me on cam for 10 years.
These days I always tell them I like to keep things professional and keep communication on site. Yes there is a chance I could lose them as an online customer, and even some risk of them finding my escort persona but at least I know online I set my boundaries and stick with them.
You might lose them as an online customer but you will also be getting new ones.
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There's only one guy I would have met but what he spent in a few months is what most men spend in a few years. He became a bit pushy towards the end so he had to be cut. The rest? Never.
What I find is that most ask to meet or try to push for personal details. I'm even getting the "What's the weather like there". It's sickening. All of the "meet me" stuff is about power. The bottom line is that no one I've ever cammed with seemed worth the risk with the exception of 1 man. I've been camming since roughly 2010/11 so for me that says volumes. One thing is that most will ask every model they play with on the site if they can meet so there isn't a special anything at play. If it's not you they'll move on to someone else with the same pathetic song and dance.





My job is to entertain them, I do NOT owe them sex.
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Hell fucking no, I cam *SO* I don't have to interact in person. Some guys just get off on pushing boundaries and seeing how far they can get. The slimier ones have admitted to it. Some started off as great customers and got attached and disturbingly pushy, at which point I already know their days are numbered. Don't ever feel like you owe them anything more than a cam show, just because they feel differently doesn't mean you have to adjust your comfort level. Oh, for the girl that met the musician, that's awesome and he's not included in my mini rant about pushy customers, but guys like him are extremely rare and I still totally advise against meeting customers.
I've seen girls on MFC do raffles for dates- G-rated stuff like dinner. I MIGHT consider it if I were being joined by a couple other cam models as well, and if it were in a very public place. That aside, I do attend the adult expos like Exxxotica and I think that's the only other place where it would truly be appropriate. Those 2 circumstances are still business-related. Would I meet a regular just because he proposed it? Hell no.




This is totally OT, but reading that makes ME want to curl up and cry! I'm sorry you feel that way, chica.(EDIT: I'm talking about the crying in a corner bit. Not wanting to meet IRL is a totally understandable.) Sometimes I have to talk myself out of social anxiety or general bitchiness so I can get on cam. I often think, "Ok, so I'm not naturally amazing like Rosemary Rabbit. But if I can act like I'm half that happy and chipper and nice and extroverted, I'll do awesome on cam. Just look how fucking cute she is! Half isn't that hard, right? Right!"
On topic: I have never met a customer, and I don't intend to, but I wouldn't rule out the possibility completely. If guys ask to meet, I tell them that I would only meet with someone I knew very well & trusted completely, and only if the circumstances were just right. They usually agree that that makes sense. Then I usually say something like, "It's fun to fantasize, though, right? In our fantasy, where would you want to meet me? Where would we go? What would I wear? etc." I think some guys just ask about meeting because they want to build a very realistic scenario for their jerk off material.
I did recently have very nice exclusive with a guy who lives in my city (he doesn't know I live here). The population of the city proper is less than 1/4 million, and the whole metro area is barely 1 million, so I could easily run into him somewhere. Just the thought has completely stopped my habit of leaving the house with no makeup on, lol!
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I would say no because you want to keep your professional life and personal life away from each other in the sex industry. Camming is fun and a great way to entertain people but you do not want those same people taking you to dinner or for other fun datesPlus it would be my luck for me to meet the next Jack the ripper if I met a cam customer
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I actually did met a regular customer once, just for lunch. Only because he never asked me to get naked during our prvt sessions and we never talked about any sexual stuffs.
We just really did eat lunch LOL. I was so shy and couldn't even talk.
After that i promised to myself that i will never do that again.
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NEVER. Anyone who knows me, knows that I have a hard time dealing with bullshit lol I cannot and never have been able to pretend I like someone or enjoy their company when I don't. It's hard enough for me to do on cam. Add in the fact that I KNOW he is expecting something sexy to happen or at least will be dropping all kind of flirty hints... NO. Fuck that.





^^I know, right? I'd probably think, "You want me to be a little sex kitten for your free pleasure?" 'No, I can't do THAT~I gave at the office!" Now let me get back to my pjs and chocolate. Remote please.







yes and not all look at us for sex, some genuinely like to hang out and have common interest.
I have a friend , in the real world he cant be himself, he found me on cam, we found out we had common interest, both single parents w small windows of time and both very driven. His profession will not let him friend me on twitter. His account was under scrutiny bc of me, I was unfriended lol
1. I have never seen his dick
2. he has never touched me, even a friendly hi five
my benefit of being his friend, I do get every new tech device that comes out.![]()
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Last edited by Rosemary Rabbit; 07-10-2017 at 05:53 PM.




Eeep! <3<3 Warm fuzzy feeling...
Actually, I hadn't thought about it much, but the "let's fantasize about meeting" exclusives usually turn out to be some of my best ones. I think it's because women tend to do so much better with porn that has some context. If you know that you're you, and he's him, and you met online, and now you're meeting in person at a coffee shop/restaurant/park/the beach/whatever, you can easily envision the details and turn it into a porn in lots of different ways.
As opposed to the "I want anal and that's all I'm telling you" exclusive: "Well, one day you and I are standing in a void. We have no names or identities. We may or may not have met before, and I don't know how we know each other. Our appearances and clothes are unspecified, and I have no idea what furniture is around. But goddamn I want your cock in my ass!" It's just a lot harder to be convincingly sexy about it. (If I actually saw a porn like that, I would NOT be playing with myself. I'd probably be screaming at the screen about, "Do you even have enough oxygen in the void? Why do you both have amnesia? That won't be as much fun without a solid table to bend her over!" LOL)
It's not a foolproof approach, though. A couple guys got to the end of the meet-up fantasy and thought it was so great that we should reenact it in real life. I usually talk about how amazing it was for me, too, "but in real life I have to take safety precautions, and as things are now, it would kind of spoil our fun." I let him know that I really want another hot *fantasy* date, and make a sexy suggestion about what we should do next time.
I might have to PM you to avoid derailing the thread. This gave me the funniest image of what my own camgirl-mansion-fail would look like.





I'm really surprised that everyone is commenting about how creepy these men are in real life. Its probably true for a percentage, but probably not even for most. The customers I have met (not MY customers) that are the S/Os of cam girls who were their customers, are really nice professionals with great-paying jobs. Completely normal.
Every guy looks at porn, these guys are just obviously vocal about it because they are interacting with you on webcam.
I assume an large number of men we already meet in real life are webcam viewers
Unless you bear your soul to these men online, they only see one side of us on cam - the fantasy side- and that's why they want to meet us..not because we are such wonderful, caring, and compassionate people that they want to spend their lives with.
"If you don't stand for anything, you'll fall for everything"
Guilty as charged! I've actually met a few people. I've been camming on and off for 5 years, so there's quite a few people (not just regs) that I came to know really well. So well in fact, I married one and made two babies, lol.
I will have to say though, I have some days where I just hang out and talk to these people. I've just grown to know over such a long period of time. That being said, safety is still important, especially now that I have kids. I wouldn't just give anyone my address. None of these people were just cash grabs to me. I'm not all about the money and I've made some great friends along the way. I also wouldn't meet someone at my house in the first place. I also have a concealed weapons permit and I am always packing, one in my purse, my car, and one on my body. Call it overkill, but I come from the gun totin' south.![]()
For as long as I can remember, I've been different. I've always felt apart from the rest. Maybe it's because I want to be and so I make it so. Or maybe I really am different, perhaps we aren't as alike as we all thought we were. I don't know, I don't have the answers, I'm not even sure I want one.
YES i did.
10 years ago when i worked in studio some girls met in person someone who was hanging in our studio with every girl in chat all the time. All of them said he is fine and normal from UK and so i met him too with other girls. We went on a drink, even went there and had free holidays at his house He was and still is just normal guy like a friend. So all OK.
Then my personal life i had one good relationship wtih my neighbour after then i had 5 years of hell with one person from my city, he was bigger sicko as u can watch in the movies. Both from my normal lifes. Then i had 4 years relationship from someone i met on cam ( im not in this relationship anymore cuz i went for that stupid guy who was beating me then who i met in the city and dumped the guy after 4 years who i met on cam) He was from Uk too the guy i met on cam and it was the nicest relationship i ever had, gold heart person. But me stupid i fall in love someone from the city and dumbped that gold heart person.
So different experinces.
YES i did.
10 years ago when i worked in studio some girls met in person someone who was hanging in our studio with every girl in chat all the time. All of them said he is fine and normal from UK and so i met him too with other girls. We went on a drink, even went there and had free holidays at his house He was and still is just normal guy like a friend. So all OK.
Then my personal life i had one good relationship wtih my neighbour after then i had 5 years of hell with one person from my city, he was bigger sicko as u can watch in the movies. Both from my normal lifes. Then i had 4 years relationship from someone i met on cam ( im not in this relationship anymore cuz i went for that stupid guy who was beating me then who i met in the city and dumped the guy after 4 years who i met on cam) He was from Uk too the guy i met on cam and it was the nicest relationship i ever had, gold heart person. But me stupid i fall in love someone from the city and dumbped that gold heart person.
So different experinces.
Yes. I have. Although, i wasn't camming for money then, he used to mod my room for me on cam4 i think it was.
Met him after talking to him for a year.
Got together ect. Was fun![]()
I still talk to him now.. 5/6 years later...hes a very good friend




Yup I did! He moved me to Hawaii. It didn't work out. Now I live in Hawaii with his ex, Hahahahahaha this is the best thing camming ever brought me.
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