Hey ya'll! First I want to say that I am new to forums and ofcourse have lurked these postings for quite sometimeI finally got the courage to sign up and learn the site the best I could , well because ya'll are the bees knees and ofcourse I have a slight problem... possibly huge.
I work on Streamate mainly and I have this FANTASTIC customer. Was anyways ( since day ONE). So for the first time 4 nights ago he turned on his webcam and I see a handsome older man, either way whatever, we did the show like always (which is strictly vanilla nothing strange)
Until now.....
I was actually at a well known restaurant with my friend when the waitress brought me a napkin with the words "" Cute Cupcake"" On it
My friend doesn't know I cam so I played it cool at first and asked the waitress who sent it. Well the gentleman at the bar sent it ofcourse like a well played out movie.
I honestly didn't think nothing of it. This incident has happened 2 months ago I might add. No one was at the bar when I looked.
Than 2 days ago I SEE THIS GENTLEMAN. IN REAL LIFE. AT MY LOCAL PHARMACY!!!!
I freak out on the inside but on the outside I just went and bought my hair bleach and left the place. I have the car and the plate number( which is in my state). I have seen forensic files so yeah im obviously freaking out
Than today I seen him at Walmart. Hes not bothering me really oh except for the small detail I left out. VIA SM MESSAGE: CUTE CUPCAKE
What in the bloody fuckery? I'm terrified as hell! I Live in a VERY small town and unsure what to do or say or what. BUT I KNOW HE KNOWS I NOTICED HIM AT WALMART. DID I MENTION I HAVE 3 STATES GEO BLOCKED? MY STATE AND SURROUNDING? MHM!
Anyways ladies what precautions would you take with a lurker on the loose and please give me your experiences or best advice. April will be my 1 year camming on big sites! ( Just incase you wanted to know how long I have been camming) Which is obviously not long at all! Ofcourse I have blocked and reported on streamate and doing everything internet wise i can. But what about real life?
I'm pretty amateur at the safety aspect of things with the naive thoughts of " This could never happen to me" Yeah boy was I wrong. ANY help or advice I'll take it!! You Guys might be able to help me over law enforcement! I have visited the station and unless you are in direct danger or have proof of stalking they CANNOT really help you out. Unless you PAY for a restraining order which I am in the process of since I have the tag number and such.
But I'm thinking after that process..... sometimes restraining orders aren't enough and I havent worked in a while because of it and i NEED to work. I'm scared anyone who pops in my room can be him. =*(



I finally got the courage to sign up and learn the site the best I could , well because ya'll are the bees knees and ofcourse I have a slight problem... possibly huge.
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