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    Ironically, I'm actually an introvert outside of camming and online activity. I could be happy left with a book, food, and the cat for several weeks.

    But it's pretty easy to feel comfortable camming since none of the customers are interacting with me in person and it's "acting". (Although I don't hide my nerdiness, since it seems to go over well with many customers)
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    I'm a major major introvert. Unfortunately (or perhaps fortunately) I've always been in sales/working directly with customers so I had to get over it super quick. Faking extroversion is kind of like building a muscle... if I don't use it I lose it. Then it's exhausting all over again until I get into my groove.

    But yeah, left to my own devices I could probably go months without talking to anyone but my best friend and my family and be totally fine.

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    Same here. I think a lot of us cam girls are! While I think it's great to feel comfortable and not need much to make me happy, I know it's good to get out every now and then just to be a productive member of society! I just don't wanna end up as an old cat lady with no life.....meow!

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    i am a massive introvert. unless i'm good friends with everyone there, i usually can't handle parties. takes me about two days of solitude to recover from mass socialization. but camming... camming is so different. i can stay in the privacy of my own home. i can kick anyone out that is pissing me off. i can (and am encouraged to) take my clothes off. and it's kind of like talking to myself when i'm home alone, which i do anyways. it can, of course, be exhausting, but not in the way that regular socialization is for me.

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    I have social and general anxiety and I cam. I'm pretty much a complete hermit that doesn't socialize with anyone except for my roommates. I usually don't feel much anxiety when I work, since most interactions are very shallow. The sessions that make me the most nervous are roleplaying and just chatty ones. It's funny that I have no problem getting naked and dildoing myself with a bunch of people watching, but when it comes to actually talking, I get scared. XD I still feel way more comfortable camming rather than working retail, though. I guess being at home helps me handle social situations better.
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    I'm very introverted but extremely confident. Does that make sense?
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    Makes sense to me. I'm confident in myself to the point of narcissism, yet I'm still extremely introverted. XD I just have no desire to talk to people IRL and hate forced social situations.
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    I have crippling social anxiety in real life. On cam though and with money motivation that seems to go away. Put me in a crowd or stressful social situation (like a competitive job interview or sales pitch) and I become a very scared rabbit with no ability to think on my feet.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    I'm very introverted but extremely confident. Does that make sense?
    I am the same way lately , is it possible for a person to change , because in the past I used to be a social butterfly now I love sitting in my house like snug bug in a rug.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    I'm very introverted but extremely confident. Does that make sense?
    This isn't odd at all to me. Introverted to me means you are fine by yourself, you don't NEED social time frequently to feel happy/okay. It doesn't affect what your self esteem is, you could feel awful about yourself or an extreme narcissist.

    And Ruby, my situation is somewhat similar but I feel it actually helps with that to cam.
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    I'm extremely narcissistic, lol
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    Makes sense to me. I'm confident in myself to the point of narcissism, yet I'm still extremely introverted. XD I just have no desire to talk to people IRL and hate forced social situations.
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    Quote Originally Posted by safflower View Post
    i am a massive introvert. unless i'm good friends with everyone there, i usually can't handle parties. takes me about two days of solitude to recover from mass socialization. but camming... camming is so different. i can stay in the privacy of my own home. i can kick anyone out that is pissing me off. i can (and am encouraged to) take my clothes off. and it's kind of like talking to myself when i'm home alone, which i do anyways. it can, of course, be exhausting, but not in the way that regular socialization is for me.
    This. Even after family events, holidays and birthday parties, where I love and know everyone well, I still need time in a room by myself under the covers for hours to get back to normal.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    I'm very introverted but extremely confident. Does that make sense?
    Of course it does!! I used to be introvert and very self conscious, and after camming for nearly two years now, I'm still my introvert self but way more confident. And I love it

    I'm not shy, quiet, or anti-social by any means, I just like standing back and looking outward, analyzing situations before, scoping people and places out. I have to totally stick a toe in before I jump right in to anything social. So introvert+confidence totally makes sense

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    I'm an ambivert. Sometimes I enjoy the company of others and thrive off of it with back to back social interactions, and other times I need alone time for days at a time to recharge.


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    I really have to force myself to be social. I'm to alone to avoid social situations. Deep down I'm an introvert but I force myself to be social. I also have other jobs that make me socialize. My parents are opposites so I have opposing personality qualities in me, I like being who I am.

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    Yes I'm an introvert and I really want to change that. I know I can be fun around others its just that I always let that fear of how other may perceive me stop me from being myself, meeting a lot of people in person and from getting caught up in groups.

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    ^^^I'm with Noelle, and Evelyn. I would have to describe myself as an extreme extrovert, and always can be the life of the party, and get things 'going'. The person You'llcall to have at Your party, because I can get people talking, dancing, mingling, and just have a good time. However, now, it's different. Camming has made me just want to be comfy, and to just stay in. Plus, with all the questions, and constant flirting I have to do with camming, it's exhausting to then feel energetic to get re-dressed, and then go out, to spend a lot of time with lots of people.
    It's almost like a kind of 'burn-out'. Hard to describe. Most days I can't even say "Hi, how Are You" one more time,because I've said it a hundred or more times on cam.
    Camming makes me introverted, unless I'm in a show, because I don't know who the hell I'm talking to in my chat room, so I feel it's one-dimensional.

    Plus, I'm older now, so most of my peers are also, and just looking for an ear to complain about something. That takes a lot of energy, I'd rather keep to myself, to recharge myself.

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    You can get rid of anxiety disorders but you cant really make yourself less introverted its like sexual orientation you are born that way and nothing you can really do to change it. I'm pretty sure I have both. The anxiety part makes me stressed whenever someone expects something and im afraid of disappointing them like doing roleplay or even just flirty small talk. I used to think working token sites would kill me but now I realize its actually less stressful for me than one on one sessions where the guy is paying per minute and theres all this pressure to be continuously interesting and fun. Its too bad the world is really made for extroverts and people who arent shy and its getting worse I think. My husband went back to school this year to learn carprentry and he is having to do public speaking classes as part of the curriculum. Why would a carpenter ever need that?

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    Meee. I'm like my mom, she's an artist so she's naturally introverted. I'm the introvert who's outgoing on cam and around friends but at home I read, do art, and will literally stay months alone without a care in the world or a need to socialize. It's gotten to the point where I won't talk or call anyone unless they call me first lol. I think it has to do with some things in my childhood because I tend to push people away but I'm working on that.




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    I think the best way someone explained being an introvert and extrovert to me was the difference in energy levels. Im confident not shy although i do like to think before i speak( extroverts tend to speak before thinking) Basically introverts have lower energy than others so when we are around alot of people such as at a party, its draining if you dont take breaks to recharge yourself. Even children can be draining, sometimes I have to tell my daughters mommy needs quiet time because theyre so active and talkative. I felt the need to mention that because people confuse being introverted with shy or insecure and its not. Many celebrities and public speakers are this way. Infact I always did well with presentations in school or in front of people but would come off awkward sometimes with small talk(i hate it lol) or one on one conversations with someone i dont know if that makes sense?

    When i first started camming i used to talk to everyone in free chat and pretend to be bubbly(im naturally a laid back person) and i couldnt do more than 2-3 hours Id be exhasuted! Now I only type in free chat and speak in pvt and im able to do way longer shifts. Nothing wrong with being an introvert youre not weird! You can still have a healthy social life, you just have to watch how you spread yourself with others. The great thing with camming is you can exert as much energy as you want and take a break when needed

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    I am definitely an introvert and wish I could cam. Just the whole idea of camming sounds appealing since it would mean I would never leave my house to work and have to see customers face to face since I'm a lazy bastard. Not saying that camming equals laziness, but camming and working from the comfort of home vs getting ready, driving to a club, putting up with customers/dancers/staff/crazy people in PERSON......camming actually sounds really awesome.

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    Im socially awkward. Shy. Do not talk. I hate nightclubs, social gatherings.. I d rather jump from bridge. If I feel threatened, Im not shy.

    I ONLY open up at strip clubs, swinger events, wild concerts, skating, running<-- places I can be myself and in my zone



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    I have social anxiety for sure, it's in response to really random and trivial stuff sometimes. I definitely am not an outgoing person, although once I get to know someone I am (relatively) normal.

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    Quote Originally Posted by shyoncam View Post
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    This is not absolutely 100% true.... sometimes yes, sometimes even with years of therapy/meds/meditation/etc etc, it's something that requires work on one's self. But it doesn't just go away for some.
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    I am definitely an introvert. Introversion + extroversion has nothing to do with how outgoing you are. It has more to do with your temperament and social interaction in new places or crowds.

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