
Originally Posted by
jekka
You are hurt and you are doubting yourself. It is a horrible feeling. This is how she wants you to feel. She wants you to agree with her that you did go to a fancy restaurant but you don't belong there. She wants you to second guess yourself, to go through your past actions and decisions and justify them to her. This is the power she has over you. She has been doing this to you for a long time and it is causing you to second guess yourself. It is eroding your self worth.
YOU do belong in the fancy restaurant! And you enjoyed your damn steak and it was GOOOD! AND if you want to go there again you will! You are in a good place right now with your husband, financially, and you are an intelligent and talented WOMAN. Your sister is trying to take you down a notch. Don't let her. It is her problem not yours. Blocking her would allow you to gain perspective and heal from her insults.
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