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    I avoided this one because, well, bone, you have a way of stepping in it, and there is no defending that, but

    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    fucking EXACTLY! but although this does pertain to women in the sex industry,
    i hear men saying that about women in general. "oh i'd fuck her" " oh hell naw, i wouldn't fuck that with YOUR dick bro!!" its nauseating, really. if the woman in question never offered to fuck you, what are you even going on about it for? it just reeks of being an entitled douche, that you think that you can have your pick or think that you might even have a chance with half the women you say that about ( just "you" in the general sense, not personally)
    I just have to tell you, 99 percent of the time with everyone I know, when we say something like 'Yeah, I'd fuck her' we are making fun of ourselves It always is about women who are unobtainable. It is precisely because we will neeever get the opportunity that it is funny. Frequently it is after making some over picky comment about a random woman's physique, it is obligatory, to show that you are not such an egomaniac that you think you have a chance with her.

    No, I know entitled douches, and they look over and say something like, 'I'm gonna get me some of that' and normal men roll their eyes and think 'dick'

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    Maybe modern day humans should be above biological urges, such as warfare, eating raw meat, etc. But we're not going to get away from finding certain members of the opposite (or, lordy, the same sex) attractive or not. Finding certain parts of the anatomy attractive is part of being biologically-based, and that certainly holds for both sexes, or so I am told. But isn't that objectification?

    The whole thing about stripping to your customers (or porn in this case) is a fantasy, is it not? What do you imagine that fantasy is about, playing chess naked? And many of you are concerned about the attractiveness of certain parts of your body. Or am I wrong about the gist of many conversations I've read here and heard in clubs and many other places? Seems to me that being concerned with what customers find attractive about you is contradictory to what you actually do.

    Okay. Maybe I'm missing something. I wouldn't be the first guy to not understand women, and I'm sure I won't be the last either. But I've never been called a pig, in or out of clubs
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    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by threlayer View Post
    Finding certain parts of the anatomy attractive is part of being biologically-based, and that certainly holds for both sexes, or so I am told. But isn't that objectification?
    No, it's not. You shouldn't automatically think of someone as an object you can use, instead of an actual human being who might not want your advances, just because you find them attractive.

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    Quote Originally Posted by threlayer View Post
    Maybe modern day humans should be above biological urges, such as warfare, eating raw meat, etc. But we're not going to get away from finding certain members of the opposite (or, lordy, the same sex) attractive or not. Finding certain parts of the anatomy attractive is part of being biologically-based, and that certainly holds for both sexes, or so I am told. But isn't that objectification?

    The whole thing about stripping to your customers (or porn in this case) is a fantasy, is it not? What do you imagine that fantasy is about, playing chess naked? And many of you are concerned about the attractiveness of certain parts of your body. Or am I wrong about the gist of many conversations I've read here and heard in clubs and many other places? Seems to me that being concerned with what customers find attractive about you is contradictory to what you actually do.

    Okay. Maybe I'm missing something. I wouldn't be the first guy to not understand women, and I'm sure I won't be the last either. But I've never been called a pig, in or out of clubs
    Yes we all have urges, that isn't the point. Being human, we also have language and, potentially, the intelligence to make effective use of our capacity for language. We should strive to select the non-creepy option over the creepy one. Example: your friend Dave brings you with him to a party at his friend Bob's house. What do you say riding home in the car?

    (Creepy option) Bob has a cool house, I'm tempted to move in with him.
    (Non-creepy option) Wow, Bob really has a cool house. I hope I'll be living in a house that cool someday.

    Or in Bone's case:

    (Creepy option) She's really beautiful, I would totally fuck her, except porn stars have too many sex partners.
    (Non-creepy option) She's really beautiful. If she's working without condoms, I hope at least they have a very thorough STD testing program at the studio she's working with.

    When we (straight) guys say a woman is beautiful, it's really really really unnecessary to further clarify that means we have the urge to fuck her. Whereas omitting that clarification gets us points for basic politeness, tastefulness and non-creepiness.

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    Only reason I wouldn't be with her is because she is a porn star and just too many partners.
    Um, no. The reason you wouldn't be with her is because she doesn't want you. You were never offered an invitation into her body.

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    Um, no. The reason you wouldn't be with her is because she doesn't want you. You were never offered an invitation into her body.
    No, the reason I stated is exactly my feelings on it. I'm not interested in women in general to who sleep around a lot. The mistake I made was being honest about it on a forum for sex workers. I've met and been around my fair share of them and stuck with my beliefs. Have I met her personally? No, but she isn't the only sex worker/porn star on the planet.
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    No, it's not. You shouldn't automatically think of someone as an object you can use, instead of an actual human being who might not want your advances, just because you find them attractive.
    It seems you don't get it. These are automatic responses. Women have them too. It's like emotions; if you suppress all of them, you will find yourself on a shrink's couch or having equivalent psych problems, even if you don't realize it yourself.

    About my own reactions, which start there, I think of how much younger I would have to be to interest her and the woman's possible responses during our passion. So it quickly becomes less of an objective and more of a fantasy encounter. I am satisfied with that.
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    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    No, the reason I stated is exactly my feelings on it. I'm not interested in women in general to who sleep around a lot. The mistake I made was being honest about it on a forum for sex workers....
    Could it be that you wouldn't feel you could be significant in her sexual life if you were just one of a myriad of encounters she's had? Too bad this thread became about your feelings and their responses, rather than about her bravery for coming out -- the original intent of my post.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    pretty ignorant to 1) assume she'd ever want to sleep with you 2) to jump to even bringing sleeping with her into the mix... why because she's a woman or because she's a pornstar? and 3) pretty sure in this day and age women have more value than what they can offer with their vagina. so what her job is to have safe consensual sex? who. cares. she isn't out harming people she isn't wishing ill of others, she is simply working. a job most men would kill for. the double standard KILLS me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by threlayer View Post
    So it quickly becomes less of an objective and more of a fantasy encounter. I am satisfied with that.
    Then you're not objectifying her. If you see a sexy lady and think "I wanna have sex" but then you think "Well, she's not interested so I won't force the issue" I wouldn't say that's objectification because you're not treating her like an object; you still only want her body but you also recognize that she has boundaries and you're respecting them.

    Edit: Ok, to clarify. To want her only for sex is fine as long as you also remember that outside of your head, irl, she doesn't become your plaything just because you want her and she's a woman/porn star/whatever.

    Another edit: I actually think we agree and now I'm just arguing about the meaning of the word objectification. Ok I stop now.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bone View Post
    No, the reason I stated is exactly my feelings on it.
    Ok, but,

    ALSO because the gal doesn't want you, like Marvel said. If you ever met Lauren in person you could sneer at each other coldly and relish the mutual scorn you'd have for one another.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ytqclys View Post
    It's important to keep in mind that many lap dancers, the majority based on my personal experience, feel the same revulsion as most non-dancers feel at the thought of performing in x-rated porn. They may support the woman in the article having the right to make her own choices, without being stigmatized, but they wouldn't "identify" with her.
    Interesting. I haven't encountered the same attitudes personally. Most of the dancers I know are pretty supportive of other types of sex work, and many have dabbled in other forms of it (camming, escorting, SD/SB, dommeing, etc). I personally think porn is pretty cool and would consider doing some, except for the concerns about privacy and also I think I'd be too shy to fuck on camera. Not disagreeing with you, just sharing my experience.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lurkingtitties View Post
    Interesting. I haven't encountered the same attitudes personally. Most of the dancers I know are pretty supportive of other types of sex work, and many have dabbled in other forms of it (camming, escorting, SD/SB, dommeing, etc). I personally think porn is pretty cool and would consider doing some, except for the concerns about privacy and also I think I'd be too shy to fuck on camera. Not disagreeing with you, just sharing my experience.
    Well you know the drill, even a custy like me who is normally a regular doesn't get to know that many dancers. As I said, it's only my personal experience. But I think it's also backed up by many of the posts you see on this website.

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    So Bone, I'm curious, when you saw The Hangover parts I, II and III, did you think Alan was the straight man?

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    When we (straight) guys say a woman is beautiful, it's really really really unnecessary to further clarify that means we have the urge to fuck her. Whereas omitting that clarification gets us points for basic politeness, tastefulness and non-creepiness.
    This is over the top hyper sensitive stuff. I actually think women are tired of overly polite men who have been overtrained to be the nice guy and care too much about saying the wrong thing in earshot of women. It does matter how you say things, but not saying them seems like censoring your sexuality which is unhealthy.

    So this is kind of a rant, my bad lol...

    You know what? Women are gorgeous and if I find a woman attractive that means sexually. Beautiful is not the same thing as attractive, by the way. I find a lot of women beautiful that I am not sexually attracted to. Sure I might have the class to not whistle or howl at an attactive woman, but what harm is really being done if I do? Socially I am to be chastised for being so wolfish, socially she is supposed to act offended. Every decent man knows the line is crossed if she clearly doesn't want any further attention. Lucky for us our male ancestors weren't shy nice boy wallflowers who didn't want to make some girls mad by showing some interest.

    We like to pretenend that we have intellectually evolved beyond acting like animals when it comes to sex, and our brains can just upload new behavior someone told you is how it is done now. Go ahead and act like a pussy pacifist that won't do say or think anything sexual to or in front of a woman and see what the results are in your sex life.

    The comment about number or partners is perhaps old fashioned. Wrong? This is another area of society trying to tell us what to think. Accept that in spite of what people say to fit in, that not everyone has the same ideas and it doesn't make someone a social outlier to be turned off by something. To some, male or female, having a high number of sex partners is a turn off. Some men/women love anal sex, some find the thought makes them sick. Some women like cum in their mouth, some would puke. This idea that you have to accept and agree with everything people do and every preference or lifestyle choice is toxic and fake. Accepting people is not the same thing as co-opting them.

    Guys say shit like "yeah i would totally bang her", to tell their friends they think a woman is attractive. It is impolite, not meant for female ears, a crude compliment, and it really doesn't matter if you get offended by it. We don't have a ritual to flee to the sanctuary of a no-woman zone (bathroom) to say things nobody with a vagina is supposed to hear. Tell me you wouldn't throw up a little in your mouth if some guys you met went to the bathroom together to talk about girls (you) behind your back.
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    Quote Originally Posted by invibe View Post
    . Sure I might have the class to not whistle or howl at an attactive woman, but what harm is really being done if I do? .
    i think we have the right to cross the street without getting harassed and howled at.

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    i think we have the right to cross the street without getting harassed and howled at.
    Lol. You know in some countries women make this alarming sound that reminds me of a snake hiding in the grass if they think you are hot. People amirite?

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    Trying to get this discussion back to the OP topic, I found another article that is pretty good reading about XoJane...

    http://www.theguardian.com/commentis...duke-porn-star

    BTW this is what the Guardian says about itself...."We have rapidly evolved from a UK newspaper to a global, cross-platform digital news brand with a global audience of more than 40m readers. We’re now the third most popular English-language newspaper website in the world and our journalism is reaching more people than ever before." So their article will be read by many. not many people fail to read articles about SEX; we are so interested in it.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    Lol. You know in some countries women make this alarming sound that reminds me of a snake hiding in the grass if they think you are hot. People amirite?
    The short answer to that is, maybe you should move there.

    Long answer: the reason computers have so much trouble processing human communication is because it is schema based. Consider the sentence, I went on a picnic, but it was ruined by rain and ants. It makes sense to you because the word "picnic" pulls a whole schema, a little archetype story about going on a picnic, packing a basket or cooler, looking out for rain and ants, into your head. Schemas come from everyday experiences and culture. For most women, if they get wolf whistled in the street, that brings a rape schema into their heads. If you start talking about fucking a woman before she's even kissed you, that is also very likely to bring a rape schema into her head.

    If you enjoy talking about your sexual fantasies to hot women, there are probably dancers who can provide that service. If your budget is small, find a club that fines the dancers for not working a full shift. Come during the slow parts of the shift.

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    This is over the top hyper sensitive stuff. I actually think women are tired of overly polite men who have been overtrained to be the nice guy and care too much about saying the wrong thing in earshot of women. It does matter how you say things, but not saying them seems like censoring your sexuality which is unhealthy....


    You know what? Women are gorgeous and if I find a woman attractive that means sexually. Beautiful is not the same thing as attractive, by the way. I find a lot of women beautiful that I am not sexually attracted to. Sure I might have the class to not whistle or howl at an attactive woman, but what harm is really being done if I do? Socially I am to be chastised for being so wolfish, socially she is supposed to act offended. Every decent man knows the line is crossed if she clearly doesn't want any further attention. Lucky for us our male ancestors weren't shy nice boy wallflowers who didn't want to make some girls mad by showing some interest.

    We like to pretenend that we have intellectually evolved beyond acting like animals when it comes to sex, and our brains can just upload new behavior someone told you is how it is done now. Go ahead and act like a pussy pacifist that won't do say or think anything sexual to or in front of a woman and see what the results are in your sex life.
    ....
    Too sensitive regarding a conversation or a non-invasive comment is right. If you don't want people to look, don't wear clothes that reveal too much or are suggestive. You have the right to wear such clothes, but don't be so naive to not expect looks and maybe comments. We think that's the purpose of such clothing, and that's why it was made and sold that way.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    Um..just b/c someone is in porn DOES NOT mean they've had more partners than a civilian. Most porn stars do not ever get to shoot hundreds of scenes or anything even close to that anymore. I'm in porn and guess what? I have civilian friends who have fucked and sucked more men/women than I have. And it's not like most civilians get tested every two weeks as is now the protocol in the adult world. So don't go around judging people that you know nothing about.

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    Maybe the number of partners includes porn partners. I dunno as it's not my comment.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    Too sensitive regarding a conversation or a non-invasive comment is right. If you don't want people to look, don't wear clothes that reveal too much or are suggestive. You have the right to wear such clothes, but don't be so naive to not expect looks and maybe comments. We think that's the purpose of such clothing, and that's why it was made and sold that way.
    You think this way because of rape culture. When a woman is wearing short shorts and a tank top in summer, for example, she's not doing it because she wants every Tom Dick and Harry to stare and harass her. For that matter, even when a woman is dressed up all sexy, that doesn't mean strangers are entitled to make comments or stare inappropriately when she shows signs of being uncomfortable. Furthermore some of us can't help looking sexy. I personally have a very voluptuous shape, to the point where wearing anything that is fitted for the female form looks sexual on me. It is extremely fucking frustrating (at best, and intimidating/depressing at worst) when I am out in public trying to mind my own business, and getting stared at/catcalled all day long because I wore leggings that day.

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    You think this way because of rape culture. When a woman is wearing short shorts and a tank top in summer, for example, she's not doing it because she wants every Tom Dick and Harry to stare and harass her. For that matter, even when a woman is dressed up all sexy, that doesn't mean strangers are entitled to make comments or stare inappropriately when she shows signs of being uncomfortable. Furthermore some of us can't help looking sexy. I personally have a very voluptuous shape, to the point where wearing anything that is fitted for the female form looks sexual on me. It is extremely fucking frustrating (at best, and intimidating/depressing at worst) when I am out in public trying to mind my own business, and getting stared at/catcalled all day long because I wore leggings that day.
    Men who wear yoga pants also have the same problem.

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    Quote Originally Posted by threlayer View Post
    Too sensitive regarding a conversation or a non-invasive comment is right. If you don't want people to look, don't wear clothes that reveal too much or are suggestive. You have the right to wear such clothes, but don't be so naive to not expect looks and maybe comments. We think that's the purpose of such clothing, and that's why it was made and sold that way.
    Suppose you owned a hot dog stand, but I didn't have enough money for a hot dog. Would it be cool for me to loiter around, staring at you, maybe badgering at you to give me a free hot dog or a discount?

    When people dress sexy, it's to get something going with the person OF THEIR CHOOSING. It's not an invitation for everyone to hit on them in rude badgering way. If your eyes meet with a woman, and she doesn't look away, then smile at her. If she smiles back, proceed politely, remembering that some people are friendly to strangers, even the ones they don't want to fuck.

    I have to admit I steal glances at pretty women. But when they see me looking at them, I quickly look away. All guys know that staring at other guys on the street is a good way to get into a fistfight. Is it somehow OK to upset women, because you don't think they can't do anything about it? Keep in mind, in the US at least, never know who's packing heat. And, if she's learned how to throw kicks instead of punches, a woman can really fuck up your shit too. Even a small woman's legs are stronger than an a typical guy's arms.

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