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    Search Whats your dancer personality?

    I've noticed in my club that there are two kinds of personalities the dancers have.
    1) The crazy drunk party girl
    2) The girl who can actually have a conversation and not just booty pop in your face for the duration of your time at the bar.

    What kind are you?
    What other kinds are there?
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    I go back and forth between Ice Queen and Romantic Flirt. Depends on the customer on how I'll respond to him. Party girl or Bimbo doesn't work for me.

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    ice queen? whats that? o.o
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    It's kind of cool to see women work because you start to notice that some of the ones whose stripper personality is "crazy drunk party girl" are like, totally on top of it and together, maybe even sober, and act that way on purpose to get into guys wallets.

    I usually go with girl next door, sweet, smart, play up shy if the guys an introvert and play up witty and charming if he's more extroverted. I always try to make them talk more than me in conversation and act really interested. On the weekends when it's busy and I'm jumping from lap to lap doing short dances, I bring out a little more dominatrix/sex-crazed femme fatale so that I can just walk up to people and basically make them get a dance. I never *actually* make them, I'm stil pretty nice, but guys like the more aggressive approach when there are a lot more men around and more of a party atmosphere.

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    i try and turn into whatever i feel the guy likes..but there are some that i cannot do. like sultry bombshell or extra sexual and dirty-talking suggestive.
    i'm mostly myself with a sexy twist..like girl next door, giggly doe-eyed flirt, funny and quick-witted ( i try at least lol), or exciting "free spirit" or whatever.
    i've never done drunk party girl. i hate getting drunk, i lost money, i don't work smart..its just a mess. its sad when i see vets still doing that..

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    I don't have personality. My tits do.
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    Tempest666, you're my new girl crush. Sorry Latecia Casta.... I am actually pretty funny in person so I tend to crack a lot of jokes and make customers feel comfortable but I am also into the "sensual" thing over being flirty... I also used to have a lot of regulars and kept a little index card box in my locker w info about my customers so when they came in I would remember relevant facts like who had kids, drive a Harley, liked football/ basketball etc., so I guess I am the hot friend?? This may not work for everyone but for me it did and its not that much of a stretch from my real personality.
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    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    i try and turn into whatever i feel the guy likes..but there are some that i cannot do. like sultry bombshell or extra sexual and dirty-talking suggestive.
    Same here, my personality changes depending on who I'm talking to. Sometimes I come across as a drunk party girl (although I've never gotten so drunk at work that I was out of control, it's an act-- one of my old managers, such a creeper, once told me that he though guys liked dancing with me because I would act drunk and they would think I was easy to take advantage of) and other times I sit and talk super intelligently to customers cause that's what they want. I always make a lot of jokes, smile, laugh, and touch guys in a flirty, sexual way like rubbing their arms, touching their chests, leaning in their ear, running my hand through their hair, touching their knees, etc.

    I also can't do the dirty-talking suggestive, I don't know why but I get SUPER uncomfortable! It's really weird cause when I sleep with someone I dirty-talk like CRAZY, when I get turned on I can't keep my mouth shut... and I'm super awesome at sending dirty texts and phone-sexing, but put me with a customer and I fucking suck at dirty talking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BarbieBite View Post
    ice queen? whats that? o.o
    Cold, emotionless. It's a great personality to adopt if you are a dominatrix-style hustler. Think Meryl Streep in "The Devil Wears Prada."

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    Myself, with a bit of a mirrored personality unless I'm trying to get the guy more awake and excited.
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    I'm a bitch & a half. grab them by the throat, drag them to the dance. "lets have some fun in the back" "you get me so excited" "can't wait to rub myself all over you" etc

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    This might have been the best answer on any thread.
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    I'm more "that cool woman they wish they could pick up at a regular bar." I don't really hide being smart or being older than most of my co-workers. I usually find one guy and be his fake girlfriend for a couple of hours. Lots of talking.

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    Myself, minus the sugar, plus the spice, negative on the nice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    I don't have personality. My tits do.
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    I'm very flirty and sexy. Surprisingly for my real self, I'm also very patient with them. Like if they say no to a dance or a room, I don't get mad with them. Also, my stripper persona is very gentle and feminine and also surprisingly to my real self, when at strip club, I'm calm and happy. In real life, I'm like the opposite of all that.

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    My persona is more on the friendly side. Super-confident and matter-of-fact about my tits and hotness, but at the same time acting like there's just no filter, making customers feel like they're getting the "behind the mask" peek they want. What it looks like behind the mask varies a bit depending on what I feel like the person I'm talking to wants. I have kind of the opposite approach as GypsyLace. I act like I know I'm the best too, but I'm professional enough to take the 20 bucks you're slipping me and give you my absolute greatest effort, because I'm making like I know the person and like him and am just friendly to the world. Of course because I'm no-filter, I can make it clear that I do very well and I've gotten some really nice tips recently (even if I haven't). This sells to him that I'm the best in the club, and also makes him appreciate what I'm doing for him. Now I'm doing him the favor! You can develop some nice regulars with this kind of approach, and as long as all your "behind the mask" personas aren't too far removed from each other, you can slide from one to the next easily once you remember which one goes with what customer.

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    My dancer personality is flirty, a bit bubbly, but also sultry, classy, and intelligent. I try to have a sense of refinement that makes me appear well kept so I can come across as expensive lol. I try to dress the part, too. I have features that give me an exotic quality that I feel help the sultry aspect (olive skin tone, dark brown hair, etc). My hair is naturally pretty long but I add 18 and 20 inch clip ins to make it even longer. I usually wear it straight, but put some loose curls in it the other night and customers loved it. I don't dress in skimpy g-strings like some of the other girls. I mean, I wear a g-string under my outfit but I wear actual outfits... some skirt sets, a lot of lingerie, and a garter-belt outfit here and there. I also pay attention to accessories, like wear nice rhinestone choker necklaces, so I appear "upscale" or "expensive" and worth spending money on.

    I do get drunk at work sometimes but I still maintain myself... I'm never sloppy but when I get drunk I'm more in the mood of "let's all have fun!" which I'm sure puts most customers in a good mood. But I definitely wouldn't say my dancer personality is the party-girl type.
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    I cant do the party girl thing, and I dont have the looks for it really. I probably fit into the "2) The girl who can actually have a conversation and not just booty pop in your face for the duration of your time at the bar." type girl with a fun positive attitude, and dont mind some dirty talk either. The men I see are not there to marry me, its a business, and the men who know that, find their product and pay for it, dance, chat, or lap dance...

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    I'm a bitch. Pure and simple. "I have big tits, give me money." "You wanna talk, see a fucking priest."
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    My personality depends on the customer. Older gentlemen - classy sexy lady. I love older customers(50+). I have a look they like. Assholes with money - Cunty bitch in control.

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