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    So tonight is my official first night on SM (first time camming as well) and I was wondering should I block members without credit card on file or just allow free chat? I noticed whenever I allow it more people come in my room but when I don't it's super dead. they'll come in and right out. It's also weird because I've been favored 12 times lol. How is this so when no one's talking? lol

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    Default Re: MY FIRST NIGHT ON Streamate,free chat do's and don'ts?

    If you are doing classic chat I would block the free members. They usually will just nag you to death. I have no idea why the not talking is so damn popular. It started about two years ago and it really annoying.

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    Default Re: MY FIRST NIGHT ON Streamate,free chat do's and don'ts?

    Well 'some' of those guys will come back and spend money. I had a guy tonight, came in and out three times, never said a word, then took me for a long private. Some talk, most don't. As far as the free free chat, I had that enabled for well over a year now. I would talk to them, engage them, try to get them to sign up and I can't think of a time one has ever done it. Good luck
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    Default Re: MY FIRST NIGHT ON Streamate,free chat do's and don'ts?

    Don't fall for fake tips. Don't fall for the preview guys. Don't give too much attention away for free. Don't bother yelling at guys, if they annoy you just kick or block them.

    If you're in classic chat (where they can't see how many other guys are in there/what they're saying) you can make up conversations to seem busier than you are and pass the time. If it seems like an interesting conversation it can get the other guys talking. I would allow free (no credit card) chat but keep the window minimized so you don't have to see it, or spam them with an auto message to sign up when you see it flashing.

    Also, yeah, waaaaay more people will favorite you than talk to you. SM is weird that way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Procrasturbator View Post
    Don't fall for fake tips. Don't fall for the preview guys. Don't give too much attention away for free. Don't bother yelling at guys, if they annoy you just kick or block them.

    If you're in classic chat (where they can't see how many other guys are in there/what they're saying) you can make up conversations to seem busier than you are and pass the time. If it seems like an interesting conversation it can get the other guys talking. I would allow free (no credit card) chat but keep the window minimized so you don't have to see it, or spam them with an auto message to sign up when you see it flashing.

    Also, yeah, waaaaay more people will favorite you than talk to you. SM is weird that way.
    Ok I'm going to try that out. Thank you so much I was just so confused lol

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    I had my first "fake tip" last week. The guy tipped $10 gold and then said "show your boobs". I usually have another tab opened with my earnings so I just refreshed that and there was no gold. I told him that it was fake and he left haha. It's probably a good idea to always have another tab opened so you can double check that.

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    Also, there are a lot of guys who want to get to know you first in free chat. That's happened to me with 2 people who visited me on the first day, 2 weeks later they took me on some nice long privates. Doesn't really help if they don't talk though and your sitting there with nothing to say, hahaha. Some guys aren't talking though because they are getting off on your face. I just have my face visible on free chat and don't show anything else until private so I didn't think this would be a big issue. Last week there was a guy and he said hi and for like 10 minutes he was the only guy in my room. I kept trying to talk to him and finally I joked "take your hand off your dick and talk to me" he didn't say anything so I asked "are you masturbating" to which he replied "yes" a couple minutes later he types "i'm going to cum now bb" I booted him out of my room so fast! I hope I ruined if for him haha.

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    I leave free chat up but rarely engage anyone in it. If I'm not busy I'll say hello just like I would with paid customers. You never know when someone will take a shine to you. I've actually moved 3 or 4 from free to paid in the few months I've worked. One is one of my top regulars now. I only boot people if they are being creepy or inappropriate

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    Quote Originally Posted by smaddy View Post
    I had my first "fake tip" last week. The guy tipped $10 gold and then said "show your boobs". I usually have another tab opened with my earnings so I just refreshed that and there was no gold. I told him that it was fake and he left haha. It's probably a good idea to always have another tab opened so you can double check that.
    owww thanks for this tip!!!

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    I've actually been kinda discouraged from going on SM now I'm going to keep trying but I get a more warming welcome on MFC but im pretty sure it's from the new model banner

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    I am probably the only one who doesn't mind guys who are not talking... After a while you will realize that the quiet ones are usually the biggest spenders. One of my level 4 regulars on SM said maybe 5-6 sentences to me EVER... And he is level 4 spender. One of his sentences was "I don't like to talk". Second one was when he first took me to exclusive "Just do your thing". And there is many many others who talk very very very little, but spend a lot. So do not nag the quiet ones. Ill take a guy who doesn't say a word and spend over the one who keeps me "entertained" every damn day and occasionally join $2 gold show...

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    Quote Originally Posted by smaddy View Post
    "i'm going to cum now bb" I booted him out of my room so fast! I hope I ruined if for him haha.
    To guys like this I have a note saved and post: "Think of your grandma while cumming"... Usually post it to them privately not to kill the mood in the whole room, I bet it kills the boner every time and they usually never come back

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    I think it's because I don't do the quote on quote hardcore show's and more softcore and it's like I don't have my routine down. I'm gonna keep at it and see what happens

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    Are there any techniques that are really important for newbies that established models don't need to do? And how do I know how much to charge for striptease or flashing, etc???

    Also, can I get an UNBIASED answer on this: Should I charge lower private and exclusive rates until my newbie status is up?? I know I need to ask for ratings too, but this seems like good idea bc I can get a bunch of privates and then once I'm more established and have a few regulars, and then I can hike up my prices and they might deal with it?

    Or should I start out charging more? Bc then I am setting my precident and I will always be seen as a more expensive girl bc I started out that way from day one.

    I have been too scared to actually start camming bc I do not know the answers to these questions and I don't feel comfortable taking this on until I know exactly which approach I'll be taking

    I've decided that this morning I am just going to jump on and see what happens.

    Why are gold shows frowned upon?

    What can I do besides dancing and talking in free chat? I don't want to give up too much without being paid. I've even seen models say that they don't even show anything below their shoulders during free chat. Is it okay to show them your ass and flash your boobs for tips?


    Is it possible to play any kind of games with them to pass the time?? What kind of games are there? What is party chat??


    Does anyone ever hold raffles? and how would you go about running a contest???

    So many questions!!!! Wish me luck!

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    ^^ In a nut shell, I would raise my rates right out of the gate if I were you. I didn't know about this forum when I started, so I had no idea what to charge.
    I am stuck in a low rate zone, because even after camming over 4 yrs., I have a hard time raising them, because I have buit up sooo many custies that won't go over a certain amount.
    You can use a tip chart to have them pay in free chat for ex. tit flash=20 gold, ass=15 gold feet=5 gold stand=3 gold.(or even higher depending )
    I love gold shows, because they draw in certain guys who only buy them. Brings in new custies as well, and usually someone in the show will take you private right after the gold show.
    There are fun games you can play, but I think there is a thread on here about them. I don't do them anymore, because guys just want to play to win a date with me, and that's not going to happen!

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    Quote Originally Posted by NaughtyNirvana View Post
    Why are gold shows frowned upon?
    I personally love gold shows. They are a great way to track in new clients and give them a taste of what your privates are really about. Yes there are some who only strictly do gold shows because they are on a masturbation budget or its easier to hide a $5 charge instead of a $125 charge from the wife.

    I prefer to do privates more because I can potentially earn more, but they are a good substitute in the mean time.

    Gold shows are a fairly new. Streamate used to be a strictly private based site. But to compete with token sites, they introduced them. Some people don't care for them, and it has changed the dynamic of the site. I don't know how the site was before gold shows were introduced, but I think its a good feature.





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    ^^I was on SM before GS, and it was fabulous!. Mainly because guys had only one main choice--prvt/exclusive. They paid without much coaxing.
    Camming evolves, so I evolve with it. Or I go someplace else. I've made Gold shows work for me.
    When a new feature is introduced, I try it. If I don't like it, I go back to the way I was doing things.
    That goes for every thing from gold shows, to tv shows, selling gold club memberships, profile videos, etc.

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