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    Dizzy How much tolerance do you have when it comes to blocking customers?

    A few weeks ago I was watching a girl on MFC. She had a 5000 token countdown to a cum show. It got down to 500 pretty fast. Then she put a 10 minute countdown and people we're still tipping. One guy tipped 200 and then she put the topic back up to 5000 and put a there was 4 minutes left on the countdown. He was upset and said "this is the second time you have done that this week" and she blocked him. I didn't understand why she blocked him but whatever.

    I have this guy who has been visiting me since my first day. He messages me (this is on SM). One the first couple days he messaged me while I was streaming (just to say hi) and I can't manage replying to messages while I'm also talking to guys in free chat. So a couple hours after I logged off I went back to check my messages and there are two from him saying "I'm not like other guys I just wanted to message you to say hi and that I think your beautiful. All I wanted was recognition for my compliment but NOPE you couldn't even take the time to say thank you" This happens like every other day (and I've been on Streamate for 4 weeks). He doesn't give me enough time to reply to him. I've called him out on it and told him he was being unreasonable and he's agreed with me... but then he goes and does it again.

    Then this week I have been sick he sends me three messages asking where I am and that he's worried. Then I get a message saying he's going to call the police because I have not been online and he's worried about me. I promptly told him that I was sick. Then today I get a message saying "You said were were sick but you were online with another guy and you wouldn't even do it for me. I'm DONE"

    I only logged in to check my SM messages but I've been sick and wasn't streaming or doing shows. He's completely obnoxious and unreasonable. Onetime he messaged me because I was in an exclusive show for a while and he said something like "Sorry but this isn't going to work. I'm a one girl kind of guy" to which I told him that this is not a dating website, it's my job. My husband just wants me to block the guy. He's joked about going on to my account and blocking him. It's just one thing after another with him, but it's kind of fun seeing what he will come up with next that's why I haven't blocked him yet.

    So I guess my question is how much tolerance do you have when it comes to blocking customers? When do you block someone? Have you ever blocked a regular customer?

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    Default Re: How much tolerance do you have when it comes to blocking customers?

    Block him and don't look back. He sounds like a nutjob. Depending on the offence, i may give a guy a few chances or i might block him immediately. Ive blocked guya who are looking for love ifthey constantly came in my free chat everyday and hung there for more than afew days without contributing. Its a drain onenergy to deal with people lile that.

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    Default Re: How much tolerance do you have when it comes to blocking customers?

    I would have blocked him after the 2nd time. I do not tolerate unreasonable,illogical,clingy,needy,stupid,and/or pain in the ass clients. If you send me a stupid message you're lucky if I don't block you the very first time with out a reply.

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    Default Re: How much tolerance do you have when it comes to blocking customers?

    Block him. You are not his girlfriend, as you said, this is your job. Don't waste anymore time on him.

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    Default Re: How much tolerance do you have when it comes to blocking customers?

    He sounds crazy, and you should ignore him. I would have been blocked his dumb ass.
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    Default Re: How much tolerance do you have when it comes to blocking customers?

    I'm a no nonsense model. any signs of being unstable, illogical, unreasonable,possessiveness,jealousy, threats, stalker tendencies,stupidity,disrespect,attempts to control me and or who I chat with I block instantly. I'm not their girlfriend and don't want to be. There is no reason for them to be possessive, there is no reason for them to get jealous, being unstable and stalker tendencies pretty much means trouble so nip it in the bud. Disrespect,stupidity, attempts to control=I have no time for you and the headaches/drama you intend to bring.

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    I'm there to make money and unlike real life, men can't talk their way into/out of whatever they want in our world. Their money talks for them and that's it. I can still be friendly, but by the time a new guy has said a few things to me, it's obvious where it's going - good, bad, or indifferent. Usually the ones who talk the least (and just take you pvt) are the good customers. The ones who come in, blow up your room/email with talk and compliments....there's begging on deck.

    I have no tolerance and block when it's obvious they are not going to spend money. When they signed up to the site using a credit card, they knew the game.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Via Flaminia View Post
    I'm there to make money and unlike real life, men can't talk their way into/out of whatever they want in our world. Their money talks for them and that's it. I can still be friendly, but by the time a new guy has said a few things to me, it's obvious where things are going - good, bad, or indifferent. Usually the ones who talk the least (and just take you pvt) are the good customers. The ones who come in, blow up your room/email with talk and compliments....there's begging on deck.

    I have no tolerance and block when it's obvious they are not going to spend money. When they signed up to the site using a credit card, they knew the game.
    EXACTLY and any attempt to deviate from that =BLOCK

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    I have pretty much tolerance. I even keep trolls and beggars as far as they are funny. To get banned, one has to act really dumb so neither me or the room can get kick out of them.
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    Default Re: How much tolerance do you have when it comes to blocking customers?

    Yes, ban this dude. Like you said, it's not a dating site. And can you imagine having a guy like that as a boyfriend anyway? Yikes!

    And LOL at him saying he was worried enough to consider calling the police. How's he gonna call the police for a cam girl he doesn't even have personal info for? A "one girl kinda guy?" Yeah, I have a hard time believing that. Just like the guys on MFC who tell models they have the "best ass on MFC," or they're "the only girl on here that I like." It's BS.


    Quote Originally Posted by smaddy
    A few weeks ago I was watching a girl on MFC. She had a 5000 token countdown to a cum show. It got down to 500 pretty fast. Then she put a 10 minute countdown and people we're still tipping. One guy tipped 200 and then she put the topic back up to 5000 and put a there was 4 minutes left on the countdown. He was upset and said "this is the second time you have done that this week" and she blocked him.
    Damn, that's messed up. She's gonna get a bad rep if she keeps doing shit like that. There is a beautiful Ebony model on MFC who I've seen BS people on her topic. Her topic would be completed, and then instead of doing what she promised she'd put up a new topic of 'X tokens until _____'. Surprisingly, no one complained, but they were probably too busy with their cocks in their hands, and distracted by her naked body and her dancing (she's beautiful).
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    He sounds like a psycho! As for saying he is going to call the police if you are MIA... What police dept would he be calling? I hope he doesn't know your real name or location, u didn't tell him this stuff right? Cuz without that info the call to the police would be pointless.. :-/

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    ugh I'm already rolling my eyes here just reading the crap he sent you... None of my regulars do that (my regulars are all really sweet and polite, lucky me *knocks on wood* (no pun intended)) and I would definitely block him, he just brings you down, not worth it! If you keep him around you're gonna start dreading getting on cam and/or checking your messages.




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    Pro tip on life in general: the dude who immediately offers up "I'm not like other guys" is gonna be annoying forever.
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    I see you also mentioned you're 4 weeks in to camming. Omg, the tolerance you have at the beginning.....awwwww, 'twas just a year ago for me, god damn. The amount of time wasted on guys like this becomes that kinda "wtf, i was waaaayyyy tooooo niiiiccce" once you're a few months in and look back in retrospect.

    *shaking my head at my newbie "learning" experiences* *sigh*

    Also, these kindsa dudes start making you not want to log on....just so you don't have to deal with them. Nip it in the bud before it gets to that point.
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    Default Re: How much tolerance do you have when it comes to blocking customers?

    I'm pretty lenient when it comes to waving the ban hammer, but that guy would have been smacked with it for sure, if he were pulling that kind of crap with me.

    Is he even a paying customer?
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    Default Re: How much tolerance do you have when it comes to blocking customers?

    I take no shit from anyone. It is my room, my rules. They must first earn my attention. Anyone who even remotely comes off as demanding gets put in their place real fast. I just don't put up with it. I offer a service, I'm not their girlfriend and I'm not their friend. My loyal, spending clients get special attention when I'm online and that's it. If I'm not on cam and they aren't in my chat room spending money then they can fuck off. You have to be in control in this business or you will get eaten alive.

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    If he wants to be your only cam guy, then tell him to pay you your weekly goal and then you will only do shows for him. I'm guessing he can't pay that so he should respect that you are working and leave you alone. I would have banned him after his first message about not getting back to him right away. If you want my full attention on a cam site, your ass better make it rain.

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    Wow, you've got the patience of a Saint!
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    Block. I have zero tolerance for nutty fuckers
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    Quote Originally Posted by MellyMay View Post
    Omg, the tolerance you have at the beginning.....awwwww, 'twas just a year ago for me, god damn. The amount of time wasted on guys like this becomes that kinda "wtf, i was waaaayyyy tooooo niiiiccce" once you're a few months in and look back in retrospect.
    yesssssss lol, when i was new it took A LOT to get banned, i would be like "omg if i ban them i might be losing money!!" now i am so quick to ban, i ban for practically everything and make more than ever. i have over 3k guys blocked on sm. anyone who gets annoying or on my nerves in any way- ban ban ban. it keeps me looking happy for others that will spend without annoying me
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    I'm about 6 months into camming and already have no tolerance, some guys feel so entitled to ALL of your time, when you have a room full of men to entertain! If you dont take me private then what makes you feel so special that you deserve my full attention? Smaddy, I've had countless dudes like the one you're dealing with and I put up with it for maybe a few days (if they tip every once in a while) but they do eventually get banned it's just way too annoying to put up with "Well I guess youre too busy to talk to me, I was just trying to be nice to you blah blah"

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    The thing is that she is a top girl on MFC consistently within the top 20. So her regulars don't have an issue with it. There are 2 guys who consistently visit her everytime she's on and tip her 90% of her topics. I do wonder how long that's going to last because it's very peculiar to me.
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    Yes, ban this dude. Like you said, it's not a dating site. And can you imagine having a guy like that as a boyfriend anyway? Yikes!

    And LOL at him saying he was worried enough to consider calling the police. How's he gonna call the police for a cam girl he doesn't even have personal info for? A "one girl kinda guy?" Yeah, I have a hard time believing that. Just like the guys on MFC who tell models they have the "best ass on MFC," or they're "the only girl on here that I like." It's BS.



    Damn, that's messed up. She's gonna get a bad rep if she keeps doing shit like that. There is a beautiful Ebony model on MFC who I've seen BS people on her topic. Her topic would be completed, and then instead of doing what she promised she'd put up a new topic of 'X tokens until _____'. Surprisingly, no one complained, but they were probably too busy with their cocks in their hands, and distracted by her naked body and her dancing (she's beautiful).

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    He is a paying customer. He took me private a couple times in the first few weeks. Said he couldn't afford exclusive. I recently upped my prices and changed some of my rules. No cam 2 cam in private because some turn their sound on and if I have a group of 2 or 3 guys and you can hear the other guy in the background its obnoxious to have to mute my computer when I've already started something. Anyway, he took me private and didn't look at those rules (my room topic also said please read my profile) he kept trying to turn his cam on. He just wanted to talk to me and there were 5 guys in private at that point. I told him I needed to make everyone happy so I started my show. Then he messaged me afterwards saying he would never take me private again and was hurt that I started my show when he just wanted to talk. I told him we could do exclusive, to which he said he couldn't afford. It's interesting though that he could still afford to take me private after I changed my private rate to what my exclusive was before when he said he couldn't afford that (my private rate is now what my exclusive was before)
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    I'm pretty lenient when it comes to waving the ban hammer, but that guy would have been smacked with it for sure, if he were pulling that kind of crap with me.

    Is he even a paying customer?

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    Haha, I do think I might have too much patience. In the back of my mind I do think "I could be losing money if I ban him." But even my husband pointed out that most of the girls here would probably have banned him a long time ago (he thinks you ladies are a smart bunch!). I kind of want to keep it going because its a bit entertaining. Lately after he says something obnoxious he'll follow up with "Do you want me to leave you alone, am I being too much?"
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    yesssssss lol, when i was new it took A LOT to get banned, i would be like "omg if i ban them i might be losing money!!" now i am so quick to ban, i ban for practically everything and make more than ever. i have over 3k guys blocked on sm. anyone who gets annoying or on my nerves in any way- ban ban ban. it keeps me looking happy for others that will spend without annoying me

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    I love this thread for a million reasons. I think it really depends on the site you're working. I've been working Cam4 a lot lately and I've ceased banning/kicking like I did on other sites because on Cam4 getting rid of users absolutely kills me in placement. Basically for someone to be blocked they have to not heed the warnings about abuse/offensive/spammy-language at least twice, then come back after being silenced and continue, then i finally kick them out, if they come back again they've USUALLY changed their tune but still if not, this is when the ban-hammer comes down.

    I DID block another model today who blatantly came into my show (whilst in the middle of a squirt show for gods-sake) and started telling my guys to go to her room instead because her show would be kinkier/hotter. It pissed me off because this is CLEARLY not good camming etiquette and against the rules of the site. I banned her ass, then went to her page, reported a complaint against her for soliciting my room, and took a screen-shot of her comments. To top it off (which I thought was hilarious on her part), when I was in her room for that minute and a half, she private messaged me and said "hey bb thx 4 cumming from that boring room". I told her "It is not only in poor taste and completely rude to go into another model's room to solicit customers, but is in violation of the sites rules." and left.

    Otherwise though, on Cam4 at least, I ban/kick VERY minimally and even encourage the polite/non-spammy/non-paying users to stay and enjoy the show because maybe someday they will have the money to contribute. I'm not trying to be a saint or anything, but on that damn site kicking people AT ALL puts me so far down in the pages that my money dies a quick and very painful death.

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