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    I have an account on streamatemodels that I just signed up on two weeks ago. But I just can't bring myself to log on, I have no motivation for some reason! I keep telling myself it will be dead and I will be wasting my time blah blah. I'm very friendly, social, and attractive and I know I could make great money but for some reason I just can't get started. Not sure what my funk is, I need some encouragement or something!

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    That happened to me when I first signed up. Just dooooooo it and log in! Stop overthinking it! If you need to your first time, hop in general chat on here in a separate window from SM and you'll have support to help you get through your first try.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Midnightlover View Post
    I have an account on streamatemodels that I just signed up on two weeks ago. But I just can't bring myself to log on, I have no motivation for some reason! I keep telling myself it will be dead and I will be wasting my time blah blah. I'm very friendly, social, and attractive and I know I could make great money but for some reason I just can't get started. Not sure what my funk is, I need some encouragement or something!
    You answered your own question. your problem is you telling yourself how it will be dead and how you will be wasting your time. If you log on with that attitude the guys who come in your room will see it won't spend anytime or money on you. So definitely first thing first is to change your attitude. If you can change your attitude and start with working at least 1 hour on cam you might see a difference. but not much can be done if your going on carrying that funky attitude.
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    I signed up for sm and literally didn't go near it for five months.. The other day I decided I needed to start working more sites, but I felt the same way you did.
    I told myself I was just going to log in for four or five minutes, get a feel for the way things worked and see how the vibe was in free chat. In the first five minutes, I had two people asking me about privates, and I told them I was just checking everything out but Id probably be back in an hour.
    Once I logged off I started to get SO excited to log back in, because I knew that it wasn't too hard to get people interested in a pvt! I ended up excited about it since I didn't put any pressure on my first time online
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    I keep trying to tell people the greatest secret to making money on those big box sites...logging on. Everything else is secondary.

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    Thank you guys. You are all right, it's just my crappy attitude getting in the way. I'm going to log on at least an hour and take it from there. I need to work on baby steps because I'm stressing myself out, getting ahead of myself with unrealistic numbers. I'll post back and let you know how it goes. Thanks again, glad I have this site and support from you ladies

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    Just a quick tip, it works for me when I am dreading getting on cam. Just tell yourself you will get on for at least one hour, you will be surprised how time flys. Warning though one hour may turn into 3 or 4 :-p and if it doesn't that's okay too. At least you will get a little of that stress off of your back about getting on cam because you did, even if it was for a short bit :-) and it makes it easier getting on a little later in the day too. Good luck girlfriend!!!

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    just change ur attitude. if u think it, it will happen trust me.. ive talked myself out of working in the clubs every excuse including its too late i wont make money ect..as far as camming ive even talked myself into just logging on w like a tshirt on or hell full reg clothing.. other chicks do it all the time and dont giv a damn.. me? give me a few mins or sometimes after that first shocking pvt and im changing into something more cam like lol. sometimes u just have to force it and wing it
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    When I'm lacking motivation to work, I browse StripperWeb for an hour or so. It usually gets me excited to cam. Then I take my time getting ready. Enjoy making myself transform into a sex bomb and get pumped up and excited for people to see how amazing I look. Once I get on, I put on some music that I really like which helps keep me enthusiastic.
    It might not be the best when you're first starting, but it might help to make a schedule for what you'll do all night.
    Like, for the first 10 minutes just talk to people and do privates when requested. Then maybe for 20 minutes afterwards play a game or have a contest. There's a bunch of threads here with ideas for stuff to put on your show. It helps the time pass faster as well if you have it all broken down into specific activities.

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    Also, kortneykay has a thread on here about the Success Vision Board app. You can use that to remind yourself of the things you want to earn/accomplish. Plus maybe taping your unpaid bills to a wall or dry erase board.
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