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    My fav let me tag along when she went to check out a club as a possible place to make extra $$$. I went up to tip, and the stage dancer said "who's that dancer you're with, I don't recognizer her?" I thought it was kinda funny, so I told my fav what she'd said. She got kinda torqued, thought it was really obnoxious to assume she was a dancer. She was dress conservatively, appropriate for an office job. But she is the type who can turn heads without tight clothes or a low neckline. I said, well, you're young and beautiful, in a strip club with an old fat guy, seems like a reasonable guess. But she said, no, not cool, we could also just be friends from work or something, which is true.

    I know there are a lot of church-lady-type people who, even if the two of us had been at Starbuck's together, would have made really nasty assumptions, worse than her being a dancer. But somehow it seems different, given that we were in a strip club.

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    Granted the girl at the stage had a big mouth but she probably said what a lot of the other dancers in the club were thinking. The question is does it really matter? Old guy/young hot woman in a strip club may add up to stripper checking out a new club with a reg or a guy with an escort killing some time before or after the main event. Speaking as an old fat guy who goes out socially with strippers and escorts who are generally fifteen or so years younger than me it doesn't really bother me what people might be thinking most of the time. Does it bother them? Obviously I can't know for sure but since I don't pay for dinner companionship I'm assuming they are with me because they want to be. I don't mean to generalize but, to some degree, I think that once a woman learns how to deal with being naked in front of strange men a lot of other situations that we might see as socially awkward are kind of a walk in the park for them.
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    If I were out w/ ppl who did not know I was a dancer I would find that pretty upsetting, regardless of my companions' ages. Even tho you & your dancer friend were obviously on the same page as far as her occupation, that assumption on the part of the girl on stage does grind my gears a bit.

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    When you have work in the industry for awhile, it's easy to spot strippers regardless of what they're wearing. For example, I'm Jewish and I can spot a jew miles away. Some people get mad, and think is because of their "big jewish nose", no it was not because of that. Is because I've been around jewish people for so long, that I can pick up little details and just tell that they're jewish, no need to be offended. Same thing with this industry, is not because you look like a "skank" (I know there's plenty of classy ladies, but people tend to point out the negative) is because people are able to pick up little details, when they been seem and dealing with dancers long enough.

    No need to be offended ladies.

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    There's a whole thread - probably several if you go back - about how to spot an OTC stripper. Like LaPatrona said - when you've been or around the industry a while, you just *know*. The way the carry themselves, the way they walk when *not* in huge heels, the way they look at men (and women, LMAO)... There's always a giveaway to someone who's been there and done that for a long time. Inside a club? She shouldn't be surprised at all. Some part of her feels "at work" whether she realizes it or not. Her body language will read like a dancer, nit like a female patron (and the difference is NIGHT AND DAY). It's more surprising that she herself doesn't realize how easily she would recognize a fellow stripper, rather than be offended that she was recognized.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LaPatrona View Post
    When you have work in the industry for awhile, it's easy to spot strippers regardless of what they're wearing. For example, I'm Jewish and I can spot a jew miles away. Some people get mad, and think is because of their "big jewish nose", no it was not because of that. Is because I've been around jewish people for so long, that I can pick up little details and just tell that they're jewish, no need to be offended. Same thing with this industry, is not because you look like a "skank" (I know there's plenty of classy ladies, but people tend to point out the negative) is because people are able to pick up little details, when they been seem and dealing with dancers long enough.

    No need to be offended ladies.
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    There's a whole thread - probably several if you go back - about how to spot an OTC stripper. Like LaPatrona said - when you've been or around the industry a while, you just *know*. The way the carry themselves, the way they walk when *not* in huge heels, the way they look at men (and women, LMAO)... There's always a giveaway to someone who's been there and done that for a long time. Inside a club? She shouldn't be surprised at all. Some part of her feels "at work" whether she realizes it or not. Her body language will read like a dancer, nit like a female patron (and the difference is NIGHT AND DAY). It's more surprising that she herself doesn't realize how easily she would recognize a fellow stripper, rather than be offended that she was recognized.
    Too bad we can't do a bet on this irl cause my fav is a very unstrippery stripper.

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    If she was out in the real world I can understand her being offended, but not really in the club-- I mean, that's like a lawyer coming into a lawyer's office and being offended that the lawyer recognizes he's a lawyer, who cares? I wouldn't assume that she was a stripper just because she was with an old guy at a club, I have danced for many couples that were young hot girl/unattractive older man and often the man just had money and got himself a young sexy wife or the wife/girlfriend was just more into his personality than his looks. But you can spot a stripper in a club just because of their attitude, the way they speak, and how they act.

    It wasn't cool of the girl to say something like that though, it's none of her business. I saw many girls come into my club who were obviously strippers and checking it out and just didn't talk to them. The only time I ever talked to one was this girl who came and sat for like an hour watching the stage. One of the girls went to go hustle her and she said she wasn't interested, she was just checking out the club to see if she wanted to audition. Well, she sat there for an hour and didn't tip, SO not cool. I've gone out to strip clubs with friends before and I always tip the stage, it's the polite thing to do-- I don't want to get lap dances cause that's weird to me, but if I'm gonna watch the stage I'm gonna tip the ladies who are working it. So I went up to her and asked her how she would feel if she was on stage and I sat and watched her and didn't tip her. She just rolled her eyes and said whatever and left. I thought that was so weird, I don't know I could never do that. The last time I went out to a strip club with my guy friends (like 5 five months) not only did I spend $200 on stage, but I yelled at any of my guy friends who didn't tip on stage. I just couldn't stop throwing money, my friend eventually had to stop me, lol. I just know how it feels to be working your ass off on stage for free!

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    A few years ago I met my then - fave stripper for lunch. she was dressed in nice shorts and a top, she looked great but understated, certainly there were lots women out there who were dressed more overtly sexy. Anyway, to get to the restaurant we were going, we had to walk past the little strip club row on the southern edge of the neighborhood. As we walked by one of the clubs, there was a bouncer out on the sidewalk trying to get guys to come in. As we walk by him, he takes one look at my girl and casually says, "oh! What club you work at?" I'll never forget that -- he KNEW. He didn't say that to every girl who walked by, not even the ones who wore more revealing clothes. He just knew with a glance that she was a stripper. And she worked at a club across town, so it's not as if he had seen her going into another club before. In retrospect, her walk was on the sexy side but he must have seen more than that to make him so certain, don't know what it was. She got a kick out of it and we both laughed about it, but I wouldn't have blamed her if she were irritated over it
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    I wonder if part of it is seeing a dancer with her regular. Probably even her body language is different when a dancer is in her work persona, so someone who's seen it a lot can recognize it even from a distance.

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    Heh, yes, of course, me being 18 years older than her might have been a mild tip-off also

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    I ask every girl customer if they're a dancer because they always think its the biggest compliment ever.

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    "It takes one to know one"!

    I'm kinda surprised your friend got offended. When I go to clubs I don't work at and girls assume I'm a dancer, it doesn't bother me or surprise me whatsoever.

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    I'm guessing it has more to do w the body language of yalls interaction. IE what was the physical distance. Intimate, friendly, business. Was she looking in owards you or out towards the club? Was she leading where y'all went, did she have closed off body posture, etc...? I doubt its just she's hot, you're older but a lot of subtle signs that pointed dancer/patron.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ~*SwanPrincess*~ View Post
    "It takes one to know one"!

    I'm kinda surprised your friend got offended. When I go to clubs I don't work at and girls assume I'm a dancer, it doesn't bother me or surprise me whatsoever.
    This. I've taken two dancers to other clubs and the obvious mismatch was not lost on the dancers working in those clubs. Neither girl was particularly worried about it. Indeed, both of them ingratiated themselves with the other dancers by spending my money on them, one by going back for LDs and the other by tipping every girl generously from my stack of cash.

    It is what it is. If a young attractive woman is really that worried about what others might think, then she probably shouldn't be going into entertainment spots or seemingly romantic settings with a guy who is 20+ years her senior and otherwise obviously not in the same league. People are going to believe what they want to, so there is not much sense in worrying about it too much.

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    Wouldn't worry about it. The first time I walked into my club the door man asked if I was there to check out the place and where I had danced before. It's an obvious assumption when attractive women are there without their gang of awkward girls and are alone or with a guy.

    Only because 90 percent of the time it's probably true lol.

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    When attractive girls came into the club with men the majority were dancers, ex-dancers, or escorts. We could always tell who was in the industry and who wasn't just by the way they acted and interacted.

    I don't get why she was offended though. It's not like you were at the grocery store, or the dancer was yelling it for everyone to hear. She would have made the same assumption ITC if she were the dancer onstage.

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    No miss match here. The few of times I took a dancer to another club the girls just thought that we were a couple, feels good.
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    Lol. Takes one to know one.

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    Default Re: Being made as a dancer

    i went into a club with my boyfriend and his friend..granted, they are both 12 years older than me but still. i got spotted right away as a stripper but i was actually complimented at the time. and yes, it takes one to know one. its never good to assume things, but i don't think she meant any offense

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