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    Default What to do w/ the infamous: "Did u fk my man?" question?(dealing w/ jealous gf's)

    Hey,So, I don't even know if this is the right place for this, but you know the deal-mentally unstable hoodrats who will hunt you down and pose the question. I've had this happen once and no, I didn't , but what would happen if I did(or give him a lapdance, or just talked to him for that matter)-I prob. wouldn't even know and to me it's just money-but how am I to explain that to a looney hoodrat(whose looking to get in a scrap or some other crazy ish)?Everyone welcome to answer
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    Default Re: What to do w/ the infamous: "Did u fk my man?" question?(dealing w/ jealous gf's)

    Well, for starters, let's go w/ the obvious: don't fk guys you meet at work. Then you can at least be telling them the truth when you tell them that no, you didn't fk their man. Are these fruitcakes customers or fellow dancers? If they are dancers & that territorial they should not be having their bf in the club.

    Beyond that, have your eyes open to the situation. Handle it like you would any other girl that comes to you looking for trouble. Hold your ground but do not try to return their aggression b/c that is usually just fueling the fire. Holler for another girl, bouncer, whoever to back you up, or at least see what's going on if you get physically cornered. If you truly think that sm1 is going to get violent towards you for any reason, start scoping out their vulnerable points b/c those are what you are going to want to aim for if they do attack.

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    Default Re: What to do w/ the infamous: "Did u fk my man?" question?(dealing w/ jealous gf's)

    Just talk in their language. Like eww I'm not some dirty skank. WTf I don't fuck taken men!

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    Default Re: What to do w/ the infamous: "Did u fk my man?" question?(dealing w/ jealous gf's)

    I don't think you need to explain anything to a looney hoodrat. If she's threatening you, just defend yourself and escape the situation. And if she's just talking shit, walk away and go enjoy your income somewhere else.

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    Default Re: What to do w/ the infamous: "Did u fk my man?" question?(dealing w/ jealous gf's)

    Personally, I'd start looking for club where boyfriends/husbands aren't allowed and dancers aren't looking to start fights.

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    Default Re: What to do w/ the infamous: "Did u fk my man?" question?(dealing w/ jealous gf's)

    Since I stay in text contact with my customers, occasionally this will happen when a jealous S.O. starts going through her man's phone. I just laugh it off. I will reply with something like "Ask him. I'm a pro, not gf material."

    That usually draws insults, but generally I never hear back from the woman again.

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    Default Re: What to do w/ the infamous: "Did u fk my man?" question?(dealing w/ jealous gf's)

    I must be weird but I was in good terms with several SO's of regulars. They knew I didn't want him and just danced. As for the other situations, I never touched men who were SO of dancers or anything like that.

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    Default Re: What to do w/ the infamous: "Did u fk my man?" question?(dealing w/ jealous gf's)

    I had some hoodrat try to pull that on me. I asked her "Is your man white and does he look like Peter Steele?" "Huh?" "Then no bitch, I didn't fuck your man I just fucked his wallet."
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    Default Re: What to do w/ the infamous: "Did u fk my man?" question?(dealing w/ jealous gf's)

    I got one of those in late 2010 in TUSCL. Some random woman PMed me asking me if I had sex with his man and that he got an STD and all that shit. I had to explain to her that, besides I was not dancing at that club during that incident, I had nothing to do with that...and that they better take some Z-pack for that clap.





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