
Originally Posted by
Jade62013
This is why I think the whole "sugar baby/sugar daddy" thing is usually just a big mindfuck that is not in the girl's interest. In my opinion, a sugar baby is nothing but an escort without a clock or boundaries. They get to negotiate your price down by playing up the whole "relationship" aspect and play the whole "well you're not an escort, right?" game. Meanwhile they keep you from more profitable arrangements with other guys. An escort 1)works on a CLOCK and charges for ALL her time, and would never pick up his call/give him attention if he wasn't booking, 2) would demand he wear a condom, and 3) would have multiple clients, many of whom would be much less disgusting than this guy. If you add up all the time you spend taking calls and giving attention to a "sugar daddy" you would probably find your hourly average isnt even that high. In my experience, most real sugar daddies (the kind that girls brag about, that are super generous) start out as generous regular clients that you meet while doing other forms of sex work-stripping, camming, or escorting. I say you try your hand at one of the 3, and forget about this whole sugarbaby thing for now. While you are doing one of the 3, you will always learn how to deal with men (including how to spot and deal with predatory, disgusting creeps that will NEVER be generous) and how to get the most out of them while preserving your sanity.
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