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    I have a meeting with a potential sugar daddy this week. After googling him, I found out that he's probably loaded. He was founder of 2 corporations, both of which he sold, and now works for himself. He's also written a bunch of books and is considered one of the premier experts in his field.

    But on his profile he put his allowance range way below what I know he can afford. I'm like seriously?

    What suggestions does everyone have on getting my allowance higher if all goes well when we meet? Should I just pretend I didn't know his minimum and state my price? What if he acts like its too much? Move on? Decline and hope he emails me later and caves in? Or try to meet him somewhere in the middle.

    I certainly don't like the feeling of getting an amount that is way less than what I know he can afford simply because he's being cheap. Even if its still a good amount.

    Thoughts?

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    Default Re: SD Allowance Offer vs. What I Know He Can Afford

    I don't think most SD's pay nearly what they can afford. They got rich by being smart about money and they are unlikely to want to spend more than they have to. I would set your price by what you think you need\deserve and not by what you think they can afford. As long as you are getting a number you are comfortable with, you will be happy with your choice.

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    Yes. Agreed. Plus... two things selling two corporations and being an "expert" in some field or an author does not mean he has tens of millions of dollars. And, you'd be better off to try to get him a little higher at first and then hit him up for more later. I am very good at hustling men... I'd to always start with something stupid like a pack of gum or a five or ten dollar bill for something (pay the valet, bathroom attendant etc.)... and within short periods of time have them spending thousands,...without even realizing it! This is a better approach as there is less "sticker shock".
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    Default Re: SD Allowance Offer vs. What I Know He Can Afford

    you really don't know exactly what he can afford and what he cannot, since you don't know exactly how much he makes and the other bills he has to pay. if what he's offering isn't enough,and he's set on it, then i'd start looking elsewhere! when it comes down to it, its his decision to offer what he wants, and your decision to either take it or walk. i hate cheap guys, trust me, but i don't even bother with them because trying to hustle them is just a waste of time for pennies..when i could find a generous guy who pays me what i feel my entertainment is worth. but if that's what you are usually happy with, then i agree with going with it and don't worry about what you suspect he could afford.

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    Default Re: SD Allowance Offer vs. What I Know He Can Afford

    Why worry about how much money you THINK he has and what you THINK he can afford ? Why not just focus on your pricepoint as far as what you think is a fair and reasonable allowance ?

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    Default Re: SD Allowance Offer vs. What I Know He Can Afford

    Most SDs you meet on a site are looking for a discount escort. I've noticed that in places like LA, SDs you like meet in person seem to be very generous. I would move somewhere where men are generous and its kind of... culturally expected? for them to spoil you. I would think somewhere like... Miami would be another good place, but I have no idea.

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