I just learned this from the unfortunate "Customers sucking breasts" thread. Googled it and yeah, if a customer has oral herpes and puts his spit on your nipples you can get it there.
I've always hated the popular attitude that herpes or any other sexual illness makes a person "unclean." Diseases are diseases and the fact that there's a huge stigma attached to sexually transmitted ones is really just an extension of slut shaming, which I loathe.
But the idea of getting a lifelong disease from a customer that I probably hate and never want to think of again, who has already sickened me by sliming on a sensitive and intimate part that I never wanted to share with him . . . it's too much, I would just feel violated all over again every time I had an outbreak and I don't know if I would ever be able to shake the feeling of the customer's asshole-ness being a permanent part of my body. I know victims shouldn't have to feel this way but I know I would anyway, and I know I'm not the only one. I really feel for victims of assault who are going through this, because even though the disease itself isn't a huge deal the psychological impact could just be awful. Like it's messing me up and I don't even HAVE herpes so far.
There are always those customers who are "lungers" and will manage to catch a nipple. Before I would just snap "Don't do that," but now I know that by then it's too late because their saliva is already germing all over my breast. I NEVER want their spit on me again. I mean I never wanted it in the first place, but now, in addition to being deeply disgusted by it, I am also completely terrified.
I made this thread because I need to stop customers from making the mouth-to-nipple connection before it happens. Maybe pasties, or other decor on the nipple, but I don't want it to hurt my earnings since none of the other girls wear them. So something that exposes the nipple so they can see it, but also covers it so they can't put their mouth on it. Has anyone tried something like these: http://www.yandy.com/Pink-Crystal-Heart-Pasties.php ? Tips for wearing? Or, does anyone have some recommendations for body paint? Have you tried similar things and had success? And anyone who wants to talk me down from this freakout is also welcome.
I have close friends with herpes and I KNOW it's not a big deal. I'm so annoyed with myself for thinking this way.



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