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    Crossfingers Escorting Advice Please

    I need some advice to improve my escort business. I work independently in Connecticut and I've been working in the area since September 2012. This area was good until last summer when new girls flooded the area and started charging way less. When I posted, I used to get tons of calls and made great money. I was able to make the full down payment for my car in less than a week. Now, I'm lucky if I get one serious call in a shift. I want to tour in other areas, but my travel is limited since I have 2 kids. My questions are;

    What cities/states are the best for escorting?
    What cities/states have wealthy clients? (I deal with so many cheap guys, it's ridiculous)
    How do I successfully charge more for my rates? (I currently charge $120 1/2 hour and 200 for an hour for incall. I feel like I'm ripping myself off, but every time I increase my rates, I get less clients)
    What are the best sites to use for advertising? (I currently use backpage, cityvibe, and ter but still haven't found any wealthy clients and all my regulars have disappeared)
    Do you have any advice for avoiding LE? (I had my first run in with the FBI last month. Luckily, no one got in trouble but it scared me and my friends. I also just found out that there are some stings going on in my area and that's got me nervous)

    I also have a friend that works as an escort. He works as a TS/Crossdresser, and he's having trouble finding clients here as well. What are the best cities/states for him to work in?

    Please give me whatever advice you can, thank you.

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    Vancouver is best city for business of escorting. Vancouver known for it's healthy client. For more information visit kwikemarket.

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    Chicago is great, LA has seen a lot of girls leave for Vegas so I feel like the market is so ready to be tapped there. Both cities have lots of many and hobby regularly, so incall tours would do just fine.

    Raising your rate is difficult - mostly you've got yourself in competition with pimped ladies - you've got to increase your rate and wait it out, so you have to be strict with your spending, and have a plan. email me for more details [email protected]

    So if you want to be with me
    With these things there’s no telling
    We just have to wait and see
    But I’d rather be working for a paycheck
    Than waiting to win the lottery
    Besides maybe this time is different
    I mean I really think you like me

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    If you can find a place to stay, North Dakota is packed with money. Finding somewhere to stay/live is the brutal part.

    I heard Yesterday that they have people making 6 figures that have to stay at churches or live in cars, because they can't find a place to stay.

    Rent an RV and I'm sure you can find money there. I've been seriously considering it.
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    Oh, something i did tonight when a guy wanted to give me his number i said 'we can't accept numbers when there's so many people/cameras watching. i'll only accept it if you hide it in a tip.' So he gave me $10. Ha.
    Now that's thinking green!

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    ^Is it the lack of available housing? I don't see how you can have money but nowhere to stay. Like, hotels and stuff exist Idk.

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    ^^ tons of natural gas work, big money, infrastructure hasn't caught up to the boom. It's currently the most expensive real estate market in the US.
    Quote Originally Posted by Kyaaa View Post
    Oh, something i did tonight when a guy wanted to give me his number i said 'we can't accept numbers when there's so many people/cameras watching. i'll only accept it if you hide it in a tip.' So he gave me $10. Ha.
    Now that's thinking green!

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    Oh I see. Interesting.. Maybe I'll have to make it up there soon.

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    Traveling for me is limited right now due to money and family. I'm trying to make the most out of my current location, Connecticut. I can travel to Mass, Rhode Island and New York, but I want to make the most out of my tours. Backpage sucks, and I don't want to keep wasting my money on it. All that comes from both backpage and cityvibe is high ad prices, cheap and disgusting clients and an overload of other girls advertising. In some areas, your ad goes from being on the top to being number 20 on the list within minutes. Any sites out there worth trying? And is eros guide worth the money to post in Hartford, Boston and New York? It's over $100 for one ad and that's a lot to invest.

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    Which sites come 1st in google searches for the cities/areas you are interested in? Google seems to change the algorhythm frequently and it sucks, it has affected me a lot for sure. I remember very well the good old days when I was the only one promoting on international escort websites for my city, and how busy it was, to the point of overwhelming, now it's rare. I do not work in USA, but I would recommend Cityoflove.com, it's international and decent. Also Escortserv.com, Girl-directory.com, Topescortbabes.com, Sexyescortads.com.

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    I've googled "escorts" and "escort directories" and things like that. I mainly come up with backpage sites, and I can't stand backpage. Nothing but cheap jerks. I have met a few nice people from backpage, but most of them are cheap as well. I want to be high class and not called a disgusting name every time I decline someone service because they text me to ask "how much for a bbbj?". (which I don't do, yuck!) I see agencies advertising all the time "Earn 3000 or more a week", and I know most are just bs, but some have to be real. They have to get their clients some how lol I'd rather not join an agency, but I will consider it if I find one that's worth it. I've been looking into best gfe, but I'm not sure if its worth the investment. I also want to get on p411, but I don't know anyone that's currently on the site.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ravenskyy View Post
    <snip> every time I decline someone service because they text me to ask "how much for a bbbj?" <snip>
    A sure way to get busted - discussing acts for money! Most experienced ladies will simply hang up / end it and block caller, if convo goes there.
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    A sure way to get busted - discussing acts for money! Most experienced ladies will simply hang up / end it, if convo goes there.
    I'm asking for advertising advice. I never said I discuss acts for money and I'm not sure where you even got that from. I'm fully aware of the Dos and don'ts when conversing with possible clients. That's why I said I decline them service. If they text me, I can't simple hang up on them, I either delete the text or if they keep texting me I tell them to contact someone else.

    If you're going to quote something I say, please take the time to understand what I'm saying. I'm asking for advice for advertising so that I can avoid speaking to disgusting backpage losers.

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    Default Re: Escorting Advice Please

    Aside from Eros ads you can post ads on TER ; Bigdoggie ; and /or Bestgfe.com .

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    That wasn't a reflection on you, just commenting that they are making useless calls and texts that would get THEM busted.

    One new site I haven't seen mentioned yet:

    https://www.slixa.com/

    http://www.businessinsider.com/slixa...-online-2013-7

    Quote Originally Posted by ravenskyy View Post
    I'm asking for advertising advice. I never said I discuss acts for money and I'm not sure where you even got that from. I'm fully aware of the Dos and don'ts when conversing with possible clients. That's why I said I decline them service. If they text me, I can't simple hang up on them, I either delete the text or if they keep texting me I tell them to contact someone else.

    If you're going to quote something I say, please take the time to understand what I'm saying. I'm asking for advice for advertising so that I can avoid speaking to disgusting backpage losers.
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    I don't know what it is about me that says "wife me up." Everyone wants to choke me or date me. Or both. This job is weird.


    Originally Posted by Nocturnelle
    ... Kittens are assholes but they're just so darn cute.

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    I don't recognize where you live now, but in my conception Sydney is the best place for doing escorts business, actually I know a friend who have in the same profession, can afford you a vast advice. You contact her at or [email protected].

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