Hey guys,
So normally this doesn't bother me, but I'm having some issues with this at my club. In the past I have worked at clubs where everyone is seated, so I could just sit down next to one customer, usually on my knees, and speak to him while the other was engaged with the stage-- also, they weren't usually talking to each other. Occasionally I would speak to both at the same time, but rarely. It was easy for me to speak to just one customer without it seeming like I was ignoring the other.
But the new club I'm working at doesn't really have chairs, everyone just sort of stands around (it's a strip pub and it's hell on my feet!) and the customers are usually engaged in conversation. So it's really difficult for me to approach one customer when he's with a group of two or three, it's like I'm actively ignoring the other one or two (and I've been called out on it a couple times now). I feel this pressure to speak to both of them at the same time and it's awkward, because when it comes time for me to ask someone for a dance, I sometimes can't tell who's more interested or who is going to spend, and then if one says no it's pretty awkward to ask the friend. I've been using the line "well, would you mind if I took your friend back there for a bit to get naked for him?" but to be honest it's not working very well!
And, I know approaching with another girl would be a great idea, but I'm not having the easiest time making friends at this club. I'm American and I'm realizing there is a major culture difference here... I'm extremely friendly and it seems to be a turn off. It's mostly Brazilian girls who keep to themselves or only hang out with other Brazilian girls and the English girls have been pretty cold to me. I actually got asked twice on Saturday from guys to go find a friend and do a double dance for them and their friend and I couldn't even find a girl to come with me! Which was crazy to me, I mean I was offering up a customer to them, and I asked two girls and they both turned me down (thank god the second time I was able to find a fellow SW member to come with me!). I NEVER had this problem at my old club, I mean even the super cold/heartless Russian dances who would steal a customer from you after he already paid you wouldn't turn down a double dance and would thank me for it afterwards....




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