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    They're just very unattractive? And you just cannot get off to that?

    It's really hard to me to pretend. I usually just say "Oh nice " and think about something else. Any acting tips when your chat partner is just very... well, unpleasing to you? And just does NOT turn you on in any way, shape, or form? I've been lucky to have either guys who won't show their cam or when they do, they're not bad. But every now and then I just get someone very... bad. And it makes me uncomfortable to see them. What should I do?
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    Well, this is one of the reasons I won't do Skype shows...because there's no avoiding their face lol. I only cam on SM and luckily that little cam window is so small that I barely even have to see them. To be honest, I never pay much attention to them at all, even if they're good looking. I'm there to perform for them so that's what I do regardless.

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    Weird thing is I dont feel that way ever, even if I woudnt feel attracted by that person in real life, I still dont have any trouble watching them (by the way, I almost never feel attracted physically by men, more by woman).
    I guess I really appreciate them being there and paying my bills, and that makes it all ok for me to just watch them and make them feel good about themselves.

    If I would be grossed out, I would just not watch their cam- just take a quick look, scan what you can say about them (dark/blond hair/, tattoo's/glasses/ clothing, athletic/slender/bigger (dont know how to say that accurately, Im not native English ) figure ) and just throw something in the session about their appearance so they know you have seen them, and just act it up.

    It makes me feel better and happy to make my paying guests happy, so I am actually happy if I think someone isnt that "appealing" in standard beauty terms, but I know I can make them feel good and find something about them that is attractive to me... like a smile, eyes, tattoo, hair etc

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    ^ what's your native language?

    And yeah I think I'm going to stop with Skype shows. All I get is cheapos trying to talk down the price or pay with PayPal. I think I'll reserve Skype just for regulars now, or say no face/no sound just watch me. If you want cam to cam go pvt on MFC >_<
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    Yea I don't look at them... and pray to god they leave quickly!!..lol

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    I just smile and act very polite etc. All of this is just a acting job for me anyway.

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    The only thing about c2c that annoys me is when a guy insists on turning on his cam, but he just keeps it on his face. WTF? Sorry, but if I'm watching your cam, I actually do wanna see you stroking your cock. I don't wanna be looking at nothing but your face staring at me...that's creepy as hell. If you're not stroking your cock, or playing a guitar or something (basically, I wanna see the guy in action doing something...not just staring), then I'm not interested in c2c. I'll even ask a guy to whip it out and show it to me, if he's just sitting there - face only - staring.

    Guys in Webcams.com free chat used to be notorious for doing that...having their cams turned on to show their faces only. Lol. That's creepy to me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    The only thing about c2c that annoys me is when a guy insists on turning on his cam, but he just keeps it on his face. WTF? Sorry, but if I'm watching your cam, I actually do wanna see you stroking your cock. I don't wanna be looking at nothing but your face staring at me...that's creepy as hell. If you're not stroking your cock, or playing a guitar or something (basically, I wanna see the guy in action doing something...not just staring), then I'm not interested in c2c. I'll even ask a guy to whip it out and show it to me, if he's just sitting there - face only - staring.

    Guys in Webcams.com free chat used to be notorious for doing that...having their cams turned on to show their faces only. Lol. That's creepy to me.
    Really? I had the opposite problem on there, they would always have it on there dick in free. The guys who wanted you to look at their cam in free never paid on there.
    I don't really get bothered if they aren't attractive, its all about the money for me. I can't stand when they talk on cam though, creeps me out but I deal the best I can.

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    I learned last night, (first time on cam), that I am a hollywood worthy actress when it comes to not showing shock or awe at whatever the men were showing me. haha!!! All can think right now is WOW, did I actually see him doing that?! Oh yes, yes I did. *thud* I too just want the paying guys to feel ok about themselves, I think I said "no judgement here" at least a few times last night. Although now that I think about that, I think maybe one guy DID want me to judge him. Oops.

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    Rhiiannon my native language is Dutch =)


    and yeah I see a cock rather than seeying only a face too XD
    it certainly is creepy!

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    Quote Originally Posted by lemonberry View Post
    Really? I had the opposite problem on there, they would always have it on there dick in free. The guys who wanted you to look at their cam in free never paid on there.
    I don't really get bothered if they aren't attractive, its all about the money for me. I can't stand when they talk on cam though, creeps me out but I deal the best I can.
    Yeah, some of them would have their dicks on cam, but I remember a surprising amount of them would just have face only, and I'd be like wtf.

    Yup, when they're talking aloud on cam, and I'm not the only one in the house at that moment, I have to quickly get out my headphones and put them on to listen...because a lot of guys doing C2C wind up being annoyingly loud when they talk, and they probably don't realize how loud it is.
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    I rarely watch guys c2c. Most of them just show their cocks which are rarely impressive. I just say "f--- me with your big/nice/thick cock" and don't look at their cam.
    I would like it that they show both their faces and cocks at the same time, but the only guy who does it with me is my whale. He is super hot and hung, so it actually turns me on watching him. He also uses a headset, so we can talk without an echo. If guys want to talk to me, I always ask whether they have a headset or at least headphones. If they don't, I won't turn on their sound, because I hate the echoing effect.

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    I usually say something like "Ooh what a nice piece of equipment you have! Could I get a nice close-up? That would be hot!"
    Then I don't have to look at their face

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    I dont discourage it. I flat out say I enjoy it ( which is not true but makes them feel like they are going to get a better show because they perked "my interest" ) I have no issues pretending and zoning out, years of controlling my focus through zazen practice + the imagination that has made me the artist I am today make it very very very easy to just - tune it out- of active thought and just put my brain on auto pilot.

    HEARING has only happened once almost none of them in c2c have ever had mics on save for one guy. IN THAT case I actually liked it. Not because I could hear the grunts and such.. but when he talked I could hear the afflictions and such in his voice and better play off of it or play into it - THAT and my " fuck chair" as I call it is back enough that reading chat windows even blown up and largest font size still is not really possible without getting up and getting closer. So while I dont exactly look forward to them making man sounds? I would sorta like more audio just for the ease of communicating better.


    Im also totally with fox on the face thing, It's really unnerving Id rather see them playing with themselves ( which I dont really like anyway) a 1000000 times more than seeing them just there with this vapid expression
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    I usually start out telling them how cute they are. And surprisingly many of them are. I can find something adorable about everyone. "OMG its sooo cute the way your glasses fog up." "Awww look at you with those scrawny legs...it makes your dick look bigger." LOL I said that one yesterday. I have yet to have someone who was butt ugly. I guess I've been lucky. I get guys with porn cocks and even guys with no cocks. Yup that's right I have a guy who is cockless and he likes me to tell him how perfect his nub is and all the filthy things I want to do with it. By the end I usually just burst out laughing with tears running down my face. I look forward to his skype shows every week.

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    Quote Originally Posted by IvyRose View Post

    It makes me feel better and happy to make my paying guests happy, so I am actually happy if I think someone isnt that "appealing" in standard beauty terms, but I know I can make them feel good and find something about them that is attractive to me... like a smile, eyes, tattoo, hair etc
    YES YES YES. I love this. I really do love cam2cam. It makes me feel good to see the smiles I put on their faces. I know we are all in it for the money, but it works for me to be empathetic. These guys are treating themselves when they buy a camshow. Many of them are not doing it on an impulse and have put money aside to play with me. So when I get them in a show I love seeing their shiny happy faces cuz I know how much it means to them. But then of course there are the assholes. I try not to let them ruin the experience for the rest of them. Anyways Im having a great day. First day of spring. So pretty outside.

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    Uh.. I've never thought of that before actually.

    I don't use camming to get off. It's my job to perform for clients regardless of how they look, not a way for me to try to actually cum.
    If I just wanted to look for hot guys to get off to, I'd scout for hotties on Chat Roulette.




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    I just take my glasses off. It's all a blur. :p





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    Uh.. I've never thought of that before actually.

    I don't use camming to get off. It's my job to perform for clients regardless of how they look, not a way for me to try to actually cum.
    If I just wanted to look for hot guys to get off to, I'd scout for hotties on Chat Roulette.
    Yeah, that's exactly what I thought when I read this. I've never actually had an orgasm on cam. I've never even been turned on while camming. I had no idea it was real for some girls. That surprises me.

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    Yeah, that's exactly what I thought when I read this. I've never actually had an orgasm on cam. I've never even been turned on while camming. I had no idea it was real for some girls. That surprises me.
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    ..Never really did much for me anyway, lmao.


    I do know some women have like 100% actual orgasms 100% of the time on cam, but yeah.. definitely not for me. To each their owns. <3




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    I do my best to treat every one of my clients like he's attractive and intriguing, but I don't go overboard. Every one of my super hot clients has been well aware of his attractiveness, so I can lay it on pretty thick - or playfully tease him about minor imperfections, which some 9s and 10s seem to like. For the average or below-average guys, I focus on finding specific features that I can compliment.

    I've also had clients that were just uncomfortable to look at - e.g. missing teeth, totally asymmetrical faces - and I actually work harder than usual to give a good show and make them feel like they can please a woman.






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    Being turned on isn't really a job requirement for me so I don't mind if they're not super hot (though it's nice when they are.) But for making cam2cam more tolerable in general I like to turn off audio (except on Skype) so they have to type or call me. I'm not trying to parse their feedback-y dirty talk and I'm going to do whatever I can to avoid listening to their gross breathing/grunting/whatever. Besides, making them type extends the pvt and it makes their directions totally clear, most of the time.

    Now for the actual cam--if they're hot I'll say so, otherwise why bother? I might say an average looking young guy is "cute" or w/e (translation: not as old/ugly as expected!) but I don't think I've ever actually told a custie that he's attractive when he's not. It's never been necessary. Tell them you want to see them stroke it for you, blah blah blah, for most vanilla shows I just turn the conversation back to me and him getting off.

    Now, there has been one time when I reeeeeeally didn't want to see the screen. It was on Skype and it was SO CLEAR and SO GROSS, I seriously wanted to throw up. What I ended up doing was minimizing it so it was in the right upper hand corner and tried desperately to find a window that would cover it. Unfortunately this doesn't work for Skype BUT for cam2cam on other sites you can resize a window (like Notepad or another browser window) to cover their cam OR put a post-it on your screen. Obviously this method comes with some major drawbacks.

    But for the most part I'm rarely thinking of my customers when I actually try to get off so it's not a big problem for me.

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    Oh yeah.. after seeying your post Procasturbator, I forgot to mention, I only work sm right now and keep the c2c screen minimalized hahaha, didnt even realized until some weeks ago that you could make the screen bigger... Uuhm no thanks, as small as possible please. I do like to my custies, but I dont have to see them HD
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    I've never been repulsed by someone I've seen on cam to the point that I couldn't perform for them. I actually find it really interesting to see what these guys look like. It's amazing how guys from every walk of life and corner of the planet want to see me naked.

    When I'm on cam, I'm there to work. It's a performance, not a way for me to get off (not that I *don't* get off, but that's not the primary goal). So it doesn't bother me at all if the customer is 75 and obese or 20 and jacked. As long as they're respectful, they're golden.

    Plus, guys who turn on their cams usually spend more. They're not usually 30 second peepers - they want another level of interaction. I always try to find something nice to say when the cam turns on (Look how nice and hard your cock is for me! I love your sexy beard! etc etc) and take it from there. Even the most unattractive guy will have something you can compliment him on.

    If it's that distracting for you, then either minimize the window as best you can, or put a sticky note over that part of the screen. Or just stare into the camera - a lot of guys prefer that anyway!


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    There's no such thing as unattractive to me. I think all men and their cocks are the greatest things! I just can't get enough. I always want more.
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