I took up pottery lessons from our local parks and rec...I guess any hobby would do though. I've also done community gardening. I also tried belly dancing, but that was just too catty an environment. Most of these are mostly women just hanging out and chit-chatting. Believe it or not, the loneliness and isolation thing isn't exclusive to cammodels. I really think its a symptom of our social media society...many people don't know how to have friends and hang out any more, and with more automation at work, the circles around the water cooler just get smaller and smaller in regular work places. Even with "real jobs" to go to, you still don't get a lot of human interaction with your day.
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I go to a couple different Meetup Groups in my area. Pretty much any interest you have can be turned into a group. Just getting out to a cafe, art gallery, music event or festival alone or with friends makes me feel better. I do feel isolated sometimes. I feel like ever since I got into the adult industry, I am not as interested in everyday people who work strictly vanilla jobs. I have lost interest in the mainstream lifestyle. Some how the mainstream life seems unnatural to me. I feel more free and happier now.
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There should be a camgirls group somewhere in this world ! Haha. A group where amazing cam girls like you girls could meet and have fun. Or just talk. I vote for that !
I just can't meet anyone I can relate to. I don't have time for meet up. Mostly I dread the what do you do for work question. I get really defensive about it and my vague answers make it seem as if I'm a drug dealer.
As an only child I'm used to amusing myself.
The sad thing is one I left my early 20's meeting people seems to just be about what can you do for them. Not about making a friend.
Also the last 2 times I did befriend someone I later found out they were both nucking futs.
Visiting caffes and pubs, beer gardens to meet with new people: i tried that! As i sit with others, i feel like I'm falling asleep. Usually i just feel so uncomfortable and sleepy. Lol. Even in gym... I could make friendships there easily, I just... too tired and feel so down all the time.
(I m worked 8 hours nearly every day, this year) Hesitating: If i brake it down, i ll loose money. Like this, i have the money, but tiredness, frustrations and loniless. :* There should be a half way, between them. Question is, how to find it. :*



This job is so convoluted. Camera is off, and nobody is around to interact with you. Camera goes on, and BAM! Members from all around the world type with discreet usernames and you're suddenly their main interest..except, who are they?
I went through a phase when I felt completely isolated and picked up a part time waitressing job. Kind of felt good for awhile to think about a task other then flaunting my tits. I eventually wound up quitting due to a move out of state.
Fast forward a year later. I see my bud dealer twice a month. I occasionally use Facebook to try keeping some old ties, but it gets harder as time goes on. People that aren't in this industry have zero clue what happens. (Except some of the guys..haha.)
Ive grown to like the loneliness. I find myself more productive and more relaxed. Pick up a hobby, join a gym. You'll find someone with a common interest and go from there![]()
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Volunteer !
I can't say enough about how much it's helped me get out of house / have a life outside sales goals / get to know people.
I moved to a place where I knew nobody, to an apartment building full of old people (like 60+ old). It has been a struggle to meet people, but I am gradually winning the battle!
1) I joined a gym that is based around group fitness classes, so when I go to the gym, I am around other people.
2) I go places on a fairly regular schedule. I go for a beer at my local bar on the same evening each week, and I am starting to chat with the other regulars, so that's a bit social. I know the usual suspects at my local coffee shop.
3) I am working on stepping into some volunteer roles in an area I have a lot of experience in, though it is a bit hard since I don't have a car.
4) I'm working up the balls to join a book club and start a writing group at the library.
I'm not the best at making friends per se, but I am not in need of close friends as much as social interaction. YMMV.





Actually, I found that meeting people can be an challenge overall. For the most part, I just have sex worker or super open-minded friends to talk with and we go to events together.
However, here are some tips that I helped me meet people:
1. If you went to college or university; then you can attend Alumni events and hang out. Some of my art-school friends often introduce me to different people during those events.
2. Take on a minor vanilla internship: You can meet different people in different fields.
3. Also I take trips to the beach and see some of the same people there. You can meet people on the beachI hope this helps.
Gosh, I have to achieve my big goal asap. And start volunteering. Or attending a make up class (i love make up) or fun gym classes. I really want to make my own busniess & buy a place to live for myself. These are my big big goals. And luckly i might achieve those in the nest 1 and a half year. But if i want to achieve them in such a short time i have to work my ass off, 8h per day. I also visit my parents once per motnh and my hometown in the few free time i get. So for me these are the major things that stop me from socialising properly and making friends. I am writing all my experience because i think there are girls who also work their asses off for some dreams and forget about themselfs and get into the lonely train. The only solution i see: suck it up and achieve your dreams, take a longer time to achieve those dreams but socialise/make friends.
The downside of working on cam so much per day is the fact that you are sick of beeing social and smiling. Like the other girls say, you do chat with some members and have fun with them (but they are not in your real world).





^^ I struggle with that...I turned down an invite to go to dinner with friends today because the cam tiredness has my soul. But lately I've been getting out the house every day whether it be for dance or gym or social activities and it has made dealing with the lonely a lot easier.
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