I'm almost sure I'm not the only one.





I'm almost sure I'm not the only one.





i don't do angry/fighting sex. if i'm mad at somebody, the thought of having sex with them makes me nauseous. if i'm mad at you, i want you to stay the fuck away from me! now make up sex i love, especially if you've really made up and its been a long time, all that tension being released...





^Agreed. I love make up sex, tensions are released, it's a relieve to be back in a good place with that person... angry sex I don't get, I can't focus on having an orgasm if I'm thinking about angry I am at you!





For me, they're almost the same thing.



I dated a girl who was hyper jealous. We'd get in the fight, then she'd want to fuck. I really hated that.
As far as jealousy, I'll respect the limits of whichever partner I'm with and not cross those boundaries, usually that's touching. But this girl would get angry about looking at another woman, which I'm afraid the majority of men are at least going to think about fucking other women. I wasn't going to act on it, but getting in a fight then wanting to fuck didn't seem to be the best way to handle the situation.
But, I could be wrong.
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I've done it before, but didn't really want to. I physically went through the motions, but mentally and emotionally was completely detached. This left me feeling kind of shitty and "used," even though it was sex with my husband at the time.
I know some people say "makeup sex is the best", blah blah blah...but to me it felt like a weird, confusing, manipulative mind fuck more than anything.





I could never be mad at a guy for staring at other women: I do it too. This is how it usually goes.
ME (I see a pretty girl): hey babe, look that ass!
HIM: Yeah, let's fantasize about it.
ME: I'll slap the left ass cheek, you the right one (in our mind).
Too bad it doesn't work the same way for men: he doesn't like men the same way I like women.
I've never been in a situation for it in the first place. If Im angry at someone ( which is insanely rare) Im angry - then Im not, it goes away completely in a very short period of time. I also have never been able to sleep with anyone unless it was a long term and very well established relationship anyway and ...well....we really dont fight at all, my spouse and I both fire off like one or two bitchy, snarky statements, then it devolves into giggle fits and jokes - so if naughty time comes into play later any hostilities are so far gone its not even an echo
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wow Im boring >.<
Hatred does not cease by hatred but only by love; this is the eternal rule.
" What is Reality? An icicle forming in fire."
-Dogen Zenji





It depends on the partner. I've been with people where it worked and was great, and I've been with partners where it was a terrible idea. In both instances, this went both ways.





if you haven't really "made up" with somebody or fixed the root of the problems that you've been fighting about, then the "makeup sex" would feel terrible, fake, lack-luster, and forced. i agree with that. but if you have both worked on fixing the problems and reconciled and have started to "feel the love" again, then its great! that's what i was talking about




I think people have different definitions of make up sex on this thread. I don't consider having sex in order to make up to be makeup sex. That sounds like a stupid, horrible way to solve a problem.
I always thought makeup sex was when you've resolved the problem and no one is angry anymore.





If I'm angry at someone, I don't want to be around them. If I can't even think of passionately kissing a woman I am interested in, and not angry at, there will be no sex, at least in the conventional sense. I haven't kissed every woman I've ever had sex with, but ones I wanted to be with for some duration, I've kissed pretty well.
I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.
Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.
NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

I never understood angry sex. Like, if I'm mad at you the last thing I'm thinking about is wanting to fuck you sorry.
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