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    Default Possible reg wants to meet

    (Do point me in the right direction if there's this exact thread somewhere, search just found one camming post)

    Anyways got one guy who made my night saturday on twitter, he's already messaged me asking if i want to go for coffee. He's prefaced it with 'tell me if this is entirely inappropriate' etc... best thing to say? I used to just be truthful & find new guys every night but i've had one other guy come back for me a few times so hoping to turn this one!

    truth- i don't meet anyone i meet first in the club
    or- just too busy
    or- seeing somebody
    or- ?

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    Cute and sassy? Coffee? You mean I'd have to wear clothes?!! How about a x drink at the club...clothing optional.

    Love to but my coffee addicts anonymous sponsor said to go slowmmm. It's dangerous out there... Better come back in so I can prove him wrong

    That's a request the bartender doesn't get alot!

    Something like that? Or sounds fun but I have been burnt before blah blah blah come get to know each other itc
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    Default Re: Possible reg wants to meet

    I'd just be honest. No point in leading them on. Look at it this way, there is more than enough time to get new/other regulars. I'm upfront and tell them I don't meet anyone outside the club. If you want to see me, stop by the club. But that's me personally, I like to keep my personal life and club life separate.

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    Default Re: Possible reg wants to meet

    I used that cute coffee/clothes line hehe ^^ he seems to realise it could be a stupid thing to ask and sounds like he will be back at some point, hurrah!


    Yes I've never been able/comfortable to full out lie to lead people on... but it's harder to dance around the subject vaguely in a written message. I used to just be blunt upfront about how i don't meet anyone... but literally never had anyone come back for me, so working on it now! I usually say i work so much that my days off i'm busy sutdying for x and i spend my few free nights to myself recharging... which is completely true. Even a real date once a week is tiring!

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    I used to make excuses. Which just leads to them asking again and again. A customer asked me if I would have a drink with him at a restaurant recently. So I responded No, sorry. No arguing with that. If they don't want to come see me anymore, fine. More time to find my next regular.

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    Just use the classic, "I'm sorry babe, but we just met and I've been burned before. Why don't you come back and visit me at the club on x day and we can get to know each other better?" Not an outright denial but also not a vague cop out and it gets him back in the club (if he ever intended to spend money on you again, at least).

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