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    Default My husbands uncle is a pervert.

    Ive been with my husband my whole life, and he is truley my other half.

    Ive ALWAYS had problems with his family. Theyve dont NOTHING for us.
    By that i mean once my car broke down on the way back from the club,
    and we called his parents and they refused to help (it was about 2 hours worth of drive
    so i never really held them to that part) but after we had managed to get a life home from a
    very DISTANT friend (barley knew her, new girl at my club) His mom refused to let us in her
    house because it was too late, even though it was 20 degrees outside...
    Theyve been like this his whole life, My parents practically raised him.

    Hes ALWAYS made excused for them... It really bugs me because theyve cussed out my parents before, meanwhile his dad
    was having an affair and had 2 illigitamate kids.... <Major read.

    Anywho, the only one i really like is his sweet grandmother..
    Shes a doll, Last visit we paid her, his uncle was there...
    His uncle is basicly the town drunk...
    He drives around town , i shit you not, hitting on underage girls...
    I know because he use to do it to my friends...

    He staired at me the WHOLE time... Breasts and ass..
    Not coy about it either.
    I kept trying to hide behind my husband, but hes clueless and would verbally say
    "what are you doing"
    Embarrassed i would just say "Ohh its hot, im trying to get by the fan"

    I left after i had had enough, and my husband followed.
    When he joined me in the car, he was pissed at ME!
    He threw my wallet i left in the house at me and i ask what his problem was...
    He said his uncle made a comment that 'If she was my girl , we'ed have all the money in the world'
    And he 'Would like to have a "date" with me.." I have "Win a date" listed on my .com, which is a NO SEX kind of thing for "fans".
    He was implying sex... I got blaimed... Not because my husband has a problem with my job, Just because he refuses to see anything wrong with
    his family... He even blaimed me the night his mom wouldnt let us in out of the cold, saying we shouldnt have been out in the first place...


    Last few nights his unlce has been drunk calling, asking for me...
    I tell Michael he needs to do something about it, and he refuses saying "what do you expect me to do".

    I would like some advice on how to handle this fucked up family of his. >.<
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    Btw, he knows all my internet handles, and my work links for streamate and MFC, and admits he watches me.
    I hope he fucking sees this.
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    Default Re: My husbands uncle is a pervert.

    Your husband has a problem with your best friend (rightfully so based on other threads), but doesn't see this shit for what it is..? Um, yeah... You need an outside 3rd party to give him a wake up call. A therapist if needs be.

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    He brings up my friend everytime i ask him to talk to his uncle!
    He says "Your friends can call you hun and you dont let me call them".
    Its 2 different things, and he uses it as an excuse!
    I dont talk to even speak with him anymore!
    Im so frustrated with him, with this.
    Its like im begging him to be my hero, and he pretends he wants to be,
    but dosnt have the onions to do it.
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    Default Re: My husbands uncle is a pervert.

    Better solve this shit soon. Shitty relatives was one of the main reason my ex husband is my ex.





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    Default Re: My husbands uncle is a pervert.

    Buffy, you have a fundamental right to be treated with dignity and respect, regardless of what you do for a living. It is your husband's job to help you defend that right, ESPECIALLY when it comes to how his family treats you. If he doesn't have the "onions' to do that, then you need to force him to grow a pair. Every time his family mistreats you, especially his uncle, and he does nothing about it, then punish him. Seriously. Every time. Cut him off; don't sleep in the same bed with him that night; don't talk to him for a day; etc. IMHO he's putting this shit on you instead of manning up because it is easier for him to push back on you than on them. IMHO you need to stop letting him get away with that.

    My family knows that I have zero tolerance for any disrespect to my wife, so if they have criticisms they keep them to themselves. One of my siblings gave my wife grief over something (undeservedly so btw) a few years ago and I put a stop to that shit quick. I've got more flaws than I can count, so I'm not trying to hold myself out as any hero here, but IMHO a husband sitting by and allowing his wife to take abuse from his family is utterly unacceptable.

    And while you're teaching him how to act like a man, maybe you can tell him to get his ass out and get another job. The fact that you have to kill yourself by camming on 2 different sites PLUS dancing in a club PLUS looking for other ways to earn in order to support both of you, while he does little to relieve the pressure, is also unacceptable IMHO.

    In any event, good luck as you deal with all of this.

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    Default Re: My husbands uncle is a pervert.

    You can’t change his family.
    You can’t change him.
    You can change yourself.

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