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    I've joined streamate and have got on cam a couple of times with today being the longest that I've stayed on so far. I had several take me to private and then once we get in pvt they would cancel pretty quickly?? Same thing happened the other day too. Is this normal? Also another thing, I am 5'4"....185 pounds (size 15) I am wondering if they see my size and then cancel?? I even put in my title sexy BBW but I don't know how long it takes for that to update?

    I wish I was able to do gold shows and then I wouldn't have to worry about them canceling But in order to do gold shows, you have to have 4 1/2 stars. At this rate, I won't ever get rated....lol


    Any tips or ideas as to what I could be doing wrong? I really need the money right now I lost my job back in January so I'm trying to make ends meet unit I start my new job in May so any tips or advice would be appreciated
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    How quickly do you undress once you're in private? Is your stream clear and smooth? What is your upload speed?

    Have you read your over 400 pages 'Streamate Bible?'
    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...reamate-Thread
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    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    Have you read your over 400 pages 'Streamate Bible?'
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    Quote Originally Posted by pebbles45112000 View Post
    I've joined streamate and have got on cam a couple of times with today being the longest that I've stayed on so far. I had several take me to private and then once we get in pvt they would cancel pretty quickly?? Same thing happened the other day too. Is this normal? Also another thing, I am 5'4"....185 pounds (size 15) I am wondering if they see my size and then cancel?? I even put in my title sexy BBW but I don't know how long it takes for that to update?

    I wish I was able to do gold shows and then I wouldn't have to worry about them canceling But in order to do gold shows, you have to have 4 1/2 stars. At this rate, I won't ever get rated....lol


    Any tips or ideas as to what I could be doing wrong? I really need the money right now I lost my job back in January so I'm trying to make ends meet unit I start my new job in May so any tips or advice would be appreciated

    I'm BBW too and I don't have an issue - it's all about your self confidence, you could be 120 lbs or 420 lbs and guys will still like you as long as you show confidence! There's loads of bbw/curvy/chubby fetishists out there who like bigger girls! If you want PM me your streamate username, maybe I can pop in and let you know what I think and perhaps help you out a bit? I don't mind helping !
    Other than that I definitely agree with Marina -
    Read the streamate thread as well as perhaps the new cam girl thread and the BBW cam girl thread lotsa good info in there

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    I truly hope my Streamate Bible thumping didn't scare the OP away! I hope she reads and memorizes every scripture.
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    Lol Marina you need your own comedy special, I swear.

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    The main downfall for new comers on cam is expecting to much too soon, this is what OP seems to be doing.

    %80 of selling cam is regulars, and hear say.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Charlotteslut View Post
    Lol Marina you need your own comedy special, I swear.
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    I can see you being 90 and flipping your long hair, still teasing the boys.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    How quickly do you undress once you're in private? Is your stream clear and smooth? What is your upload speed?

    Have you read your over 400 pages 'Streamate Bible?'
    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...reamate-Thread
    When I first made this post I had not read the sm bible but I have now..thank you

    I guess I was getting naked too quick at first! I did try doing some more shows after reading the sm bible and had maybe 3 or 4 more shows that were 5 minutes each. How long does a show usually last? I'm sure this varies sometimes too tho.

    I'm thinking that maybe I need to improve my shows tho...lol. I am still unsure what kind of shows to do I guess

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    Quote Originally Posted by pebbles45112000 View Post
    When I first made this post I had not read the sm bible but I have now..thank you

    I guess I was getting naked too quick at first! I did try doing some more shows after reading the sm bible and had maybe 3 or 4 more shows that were 5 minutes each. How long does a show usually last? I'm sure this varies sometimes too tho.

    I'm thinking that maybe I need to improve my shows tho...lol. I am still unsure what kind of shows to do I guess

    Oh yes honey shows vary in length! I find regular masturbation shows are much much shorter than, say a foot fetish or domme show. It all depends on a few factors: the guy of course, how long it takes for him to get off, how long u can "stall" (I don't recommend stalling long but do a sexy striptease and take a few minutes to take off your clothes while shaking your ass and tits), and of course how well you perform and how much they like you! I've gotten shows where it was 45 minutes of nothing but chatting with my clothes on! So it all depends on the guy and what he's looking for primarily

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    There's no answer to how long does a show usually last, it's all in how you hustle. Camming is more than just getting naked and fucking yourself to death. I would try to be more engaging and asking questions such as name, age, location, single or married, etc.
    Try to stall a little but don't over do it, take your time but most importantly just be yourself and exude confidence!
    Quote Originally Posted by pebbles45112000 View Post
    When I first made this post I had not read the sm bible but I have now..thank you

    I guess I was getting naked too quick at first! I did try doing some more shows after reading the sm bible and had maybe 3 or 4 more shows that were 5 minutes each. How long does a show usually last? I'm sure this varies sometimes too tho.

    I'm thinking that maybe I need to improve my shows tho...lol. I am still unsure what kind of shows to do I guess
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    I can see you being 90 and flipping your long hair, still teasing the boys.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    There's no answer to how long does a show usually last, it's all in how you hustle. Camming is more than just getting naked and fucking yourself to death. I would try to be more engaging and asking questions such as name, age, location, single or married, etc.
    Try to stall a little but don't over do it, take your time but most importantly just be yourself and exude confidence!
    Ooh. I'm not the OP but thanks for this. I've not quite started on SM yet, though I'm approved (haven't had a chance to get on to do a real "shift" and am still going through the SM thread) and have been wondering how to stall for the free 30 seconds without seeming like an obvious clock-watcher.

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    ^ marina has some good stall questions, I also like to ask if they can hear/see me okay, ask if they have a cam for cam2cam etc. By the time they type that out the 30secs are usually up and u can jump into the fun

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    Quote Originally Posted by RedAlice View Post
    Ooh. I'm not the OP but thanks for this. I've not quite started on SM yet, though I'm approved (haven't had a chance to get on to do a real "shift" and am still going through the SM thread) and have been wondering how to stall for the free 30 seconds without seeming like an obvious clock-watcher.
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    Oh, and to respond to Pebblesomgnumbers, take a looksie in the "What am I doing wrong?" thread to see if you have all of your bases covered. https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...ot-A-Checklist


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    I think that as everything in life it´s a matter of time, there will be good and bad days.. when you start to do something new its always difficult, as they say patience is virtue of all sciences.. keep it up!

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    Awesome advice posted here!

    One thing I wanted to add. Might not be what's going on in pebbles' case, but I figured I'd mention it anyway. A long time ago I had this guy who would force me out of public chat into premium chat (I say "forced" because SM models don't have the option of denying premium chat), and then he'd cancel it after one second. He was a non-speaking troll who found it amusing to pull me out of public chat and waste my time. He'd done it to me several times, until I finally convinced SM to ban him for me.
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    on top of what everyone else has said- and to get into it a little more; the " minute men " are not that uncommon. some honestly get off that fast, and bolt, some have never had the intention to stay the whole time and settle for " peeks" before cost gets too high for them, your going to get a lot of 30 second peepers. they are sort of the bane for every cam girl. As you build up confidence, your personality and so on though you start roping the longer ones, 15 to 40 min here...then a smattering of the stupidly short pvts, then a 10 min there etc etc- so while there are tricks and such that can surely help- it's still going to come down to " what sort of customers are active that day" that you then need to work with. and to be honest it's going to be alittle more " up and down" until you start building your name a little more.
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