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    I did a search on here, but couldn't find if this has been posted or not, if it has, sorry!

    This was just on tv here and I remember reading about something in the Streamate thread, about the "fuck a fan" shows and apparently the company that does these shows is mentioned in this documentary. You actually get to see them filming one of those shows.

    This is the cliche bit from the Channel 4 site:"
    Three British porn obsessives visit LA, where they meet their favourite adult movie stars, but also witness the darker side of the porn industry"






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    Started watching and it's a good thing I noticed how long it is lol. Bookmarked!
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    Did you notice one of the porn shoots was live on streamate.

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    I wanted to like this, and it wasn't BAD I guess, just misleading. I don't know why it was trying to shine a negative light. One part, they even called porn "soulless." Everyone has sex, last I checked. There are people like cuckolds and exhibitionists that genuinely get turned on by fucking a bunch of guys/girls, or watching their partner do that. I don't know WHY that factor is continually ignored. Those people are actually pretty common.

    I think every career is hard. Of course porn is ~*hard*~ when you try to make that a career, because its not a career. Its modeling.

    A lot of people don't realize that evvvvvvvery single girl you see in LA that says she is a regular ~*model*~ or ~*actress*~ (unless she's A or B-list), either has a day job, a rich family that gives her cash, or she is an escort. Bills don't get paid with smiles. Most of them are escorts and I know this for a fact. They just don't publicize it, and majority of the girls don't have ads on the internet because they know of a ~*socialite*~ girl who acts as a madam and sets them up with ~*rich men*~. Men in LA are SO generous. More generous than any ever city I've lived in. So there is a huge market for escorts (not the kind that post ads)... I guess the correct word would be ~*sugarbaby*~ that has sex with her sugardaddies. But that is LA culture and anyone who lives here for more than a year will tell you that this is a fact and is common.

    That being said, of COURSE if a girl only wants to do porn and tries to make a career of of it, that is a disaster. Same with men doing porn for that reason. There's, what? A year or two tops in shooting porn for major companies, unless you continually switch niches when one runs dry. But that is why pornstars also cam, dance, escort, or have some other side job for stable income. Those who don't want to do one of those after a year or two, will be forced to retire.

    Every girl who regrets doing porn, regrets it because she didn't want to take a different job and ended up doing far than she wanted to do. But she isn't being forced. Its a choice. If you did boy/girl and you only wanted to do girl/girl, its kind of your fault for choosing to do more than you wanted to do. There are successful girls in every market. There's some girls who have been successful being solo. These girls I guess just get greedy and want more and more money, so they do more and more. But what would they do if they were too unattractive to do porn in the first place?

    I also didn't like the part where they were like ~*he needs a girlfriend, a REAL girl*~! I can tell you right now, SO MANY MEN are cuckolds though. Cuckolds that get turned on by their girlfriend fucking other men and then him watching, joining in, or being told about it. SweetPinkCupcake is like a cuckold magnet, its actually really funny. A lot of really successful (read: rich as hell) men are cuckolds and various other kind of subs. And they are generous, and would never work with the type of girl that is extemely sexually monogamous.

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    I watched parts of it and kept skipping ahead. Have to watch the rest later. This was actually very interesting. I think more people should watch this. There were so many interesting points covered by this documentary...
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    Quote Originally Posted by GlamourRouge View Post
    I also didn't like the part where they were like ~*he needs a girlfriend, a REAL girl*~! I can tell you right now, SO MANY MEN are cuckolds though. Cuckolds that get turned on by their girlfriend fucking other men and then him watching, joining in, or being told about it. SweetPinkCupcake is like a cuckold magnet, its actually really funny. A lot of really successful (read: rich as hell) men are cuckolds and various other kind of subs. And they are generous, and would never work with the type of girl that is extemely sexually monogamous.
    It also sort of suggests women who do porn/other sex work are not "REAL" and can't be seen as someone a man (cuckold or not) would want to have a relationship with. But it's a stereotype after all.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sunnylexie View Post
    It also sort of suggests women who do porn/other sex work are not "REAL" and can't be seen as someone a man (cuckold or not) would want to have a relationship with. But it's a stereotype after all.
    Well, the women are real, but the performer with her stage name is a character. How does know one in the "real world" see this? I also don't understand how everyone always calls LA "fake" and "delusional" when, TBH I think LA is the most theatrical city in the world. More than NYC even. So many people are in "character" mode. But I've always thought it was cool.

    But yeah, I have friends who are sexworkers who men go crazy over. I think its just more about fetish, sexual, and lifestyle compatibility TBH. For example: If you're wish a controlling guy who is super monogamous and listens to Rick Ross all day, of course he is going to call you stupid names like disgusting slut and whatever else. Its not a good partner match. That same girl could leave the controlling guy and date an open-minded cuckold and then would likely have an amazing relationship. I really think most men have fetishes, they just tend not to share them. If they know a girl is open-minded from the start, he will be inclined to share them.

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    I just personally think that most of the world us brainwashed into thinking that people who are characters act like they do in real life, which is so totally not true, lol. Even girls think this, which is hilarious. I do not talk in a seductive "hi boys!" Voice and really think that an overweight bald guy is sooooo hot, lol, but it is part of me playing out my character. For some reason tho, people seem to think that people ARE their characters. It's pretty amusing.
    LA and NYC are both very theatrical, New Yorks scene is more about broadway and ballet, tho. I went out one random night in manhattan and ended up with a bunch of ballet dancers, lol, they were complaining of the same thing. I think most people just cannot handle those in artistic professions for Whatexer reason...their insecurities, or whatever.

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    Yea! after doing porn several times myself.. That pretty much ruined me watching porn ever again!!..... watching porn makes me feel sad for the women cuz i know what it feel likes. I used to watch ALOT of porn before i knew what it was all about from the inside.

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    Yea! after doing porn several times myself.. That pretty much ruined me watching porn ever again!!..... watching porn makes me feel sad for the women cuz i know what it feel likes. I used to watch ALOT of porn before i knew what it was all about from the inside.
    same here, I didn't get into any big production shoots, but the shoots I did do, traveling to La, Boston and Montreal made me not want to watch porn unless its my own or I am very selective on the porn I watch some how I enjoy more of the femminist porn then regular mainstream stuff.

    I remember on my LA shoot I broke out in hives don't know what causes it but it was pretty horrible they had to stop shooting and because of my housing situation which was also the set, the producer was pretty disappointed in me that I could finish my schedule.

    But I am now seeing just because I've done a few scenes some guys that I meet are just impressed by those alone and still see me as some big name porn star. occasionally I get recognized by some "fan" and it does feel weird they don't see me as my regular self.
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    Yea I did about 11 videos for some well known ones and some not so much.. and I could get pretty graphic of the physical and emotional abuse i suffered... thats enough for me to want to stay away from it and not get deep into it.. my very first video I also contracted chlamydia and had to do the zpack for one thing.. the 2nd time I did a porn video I had a panic attack at the airport on my way there.. another time I flew to another state in the midwest and was pushed down and hit in my jaw and my airplane ticket was cancelled.. and I had NO money to get home.. by the grace of god his partner re booked my flight.. the reason why he got angry is because he thought he could con me to work for free and not even pay me! Almost every single shoot I would bleed all over and so the male porn guy told me oh the girls shove cosmetic sponges up there vaginas so they don't bleed.. another time I literally almost THREW up as he was violently having sex with me.. yea not fun.. oh and the cum in the eye?? not fun and not safe.. literally I started to understand why girls do drugs and drink while shooting.. I did it all sober..and the money i found was just not that worth it.

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    same here, I didn't get into any big production shoots, but the shoots I did do, traveling to La, Boston and Montreal made me not want to watch porn unless its my own or I am very selective on the porn I watch some how I enjoy more of the femminist porn then regular mainstream stuff.

    I remember on my LA shoot I broke out in hives don't know what causes it but it was pretty horrible they had to stop shooting and because of my housing situation which was also the set, the producer was pretty disappointed in me that I could finish my schedule.

    But I am now seeing just because I've done a few scenes some guys that I meet are just impressed by those alone and still see me as some big name porn star. occasionally I get recognized by some "fan" and it does feel weird they don't see me as my regular self.

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    Been in porn many years, rarely ever have a problem on set.. Why? because I research the people before working for them.

    Any problem on set has been so minor NOT worth mentioning them. No drama, no problems, no hassles in 14 years of shooting for many well known companies.

    Also turn down many shoots due to what I've either heard about a person or got a bad vibe. What I didn't do is book shoots blindly & NOT research each one before booking it. I never booked with unknowns, start ups, or creepy guys with a camera trying to get around prostitution laws & fucking without condoms.

    It is VERY easy to avoid getting harmed before leaving home.

    I have NO regrets, but thought over the consequences of doing porn a full year before going for it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    I research the people before working for them.

    Also turn down many shoots due to what I've either heard about a person or got a bad vibe. What I didn't do is book shoots blindly & NOT research each one before booking it. I never booked with unknowns, start ups, or creepy guys with a camera trying to get around prostitution laws & fucking without condoms.
    I'm pretty sure this is the difference between a good experience and a bad experience in porn. While one girl may feel like she is being ~*thrown around and abused*~, a different girl working with the same male talent and the same director, shooting the same exact scene, may feel liberated and excited because she liked shooting rough scenes. Thats what made Sasha Grey big. She genuinely wanted to be there and liked that stuff.

    The director isn't a mindreader. He is assuming that if you are doing porn and shooting for his company, you know exactly the type of stuff he shoots (beforehand), and you genuinely want to be there and shoot porn.

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