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    Hey Girls,

    Just wondering what everyone thought of this. I've been dancing about twice a week for two months. To be honest, I'm a bit too sweet and I know that; I chat for too long about general things, and I tell them about myself and bla bla bla. I still make fairly good money this way, but I see some girls getting men into VIP over and over and over.

    One of the top earners pulled me to one side in the dressing room and told me I should be earning the most money. She then pulled me right into her body and whispered "Baby, my pussy is fucking dripping. I wanna get your cock hard. Come with me and get your cock hard."

    I'm such a prude it made me giggle like a little girl but she was DEAD serious and said I should be hustling every guy in this way.

    What do you think? xxx

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lily_Evans View Post
    Hey Girls,

    Just wondering what everyone thought of this. I've been dancing about twice a week for two months. To be honest, I'm a bit too sweet and I know that; I chat for too long about general things, and I tell them about myself and bla bla bla. I still make fairly good money this way, but I see some girls getting men into VIP over and over and over.

    One of the top earners pulled me to one side in the dressing room and told me I should be earning the most money. She then pulled me right into her body and whispered "Baby, my pussy is fucking dripping. I wanna get your cock hard. Come with me and get your cock hard."

    I'm such a prude it made me giggle like a little girl but she was DEAD serious and said I should be hustling every guy in this way.

    What do you think? xxx
    I wonder if you can learn from this top earner by finding a more comfortable balance. Shorten your conversations, try to talk about sexier topics, and then focus on closing. "Well anyway, enough with all of this talking...I can't wait any longer to get some alone time with you...let's go!" (sultry eye contact + stand and reach for his hand)

    I think if you try to go too over-the-top, it won't come across as natural since it's such a far cry from your regular hustle. I would also try to read the customer before using anything so direct and extreme - some guys would respond well to that, and other guys would be too skeptical or intimidated and would be turned off. I'd be super embarrassed if I used such an intense tactic and then got turned away!

    It's very possible that this girl is a top earner because she doesn't waste time: she approaches guys with essentially a one-liner and moves on to the next if that doesn't work. So it may be less about the dirty talk and more about the general strategy she's using for the club you're in. And your strategy should depend on the club's turnover (if you're in a high-turnover club, don't waste time on a long hustle), location (rural vs. city), your appearance (sweet & demure or seductress), etc.

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    i think that a BIT over the top, and wouldn't work for the older more experienced guys who know full well that your pussy isn't really dripping wet for them, and they would probably chuckle and then it would just be really awkward! one thing i learned is that everybody has a different hustling style, and trying to make one thing work for you that's worked for others..isn't going to work if its not a little bit YOU to begin with.
    for instance, i wanted to try the "fuck you pay me hustle", but its just so far away from my natural personality and comfort-level that i took little bits from it, and added it to my regular hustle and it worked. but me being super pushy and bitchy wouldn't work for me because it just not me..but i did take bits and pieces from it.

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    You don't have to be as graphic as that to get your point across. Lines that I use on a regular basis are generally less graphic, but still very sexy. I'll say things like, "You look like a professor I had a crush on, but never got to act on it. Wanna go pretend you're my teacher and I'm a naughty student?"

    When seducing men in this way, just remember they aren't stupid. You can't convince an ugly man that he is handsome, but you can convince him that you like other things about him that make him attractive. Does he dress nicely or have an interesting voice or accent? Find something that is convincing that he will accept is attractive about him. My favorite things to complement are: cologne, voice, accents, clothes, intelligence, and our "chemistry."

    Talk less about yourself, or answer in vague generalizations when asked. They like the mystery. When asked what my "hobbies" are, I will pick something sexy like shopping for sex toys or reading 50 Shades of Grey. When asked about my relationship status, I say that I date around and have a couple of boyfriends at the moment, but am always up for adventure. If I am selling to a swinging couple, I will say I'm married and that my husband and I are interested in trying swinging (then I make my husband the image of sexiness and the woman is sold at that point).

    Even if your pick up lines come off cheesy, you can still use that to your advantage. Own it, laugh about it, and close that sale! I think I sell as many dances with failed cheesy pick up lines as I do when I am in full-on seductress mode. Men especially sympathize with a failed pick up line, and they will feel closer to you because you admitted your line was silly.

    Ultimately, your hustle is yours and yours alone. You just have to keep trying on different styles, and make a mental note about what works and what doesn't. Sometimes I end up saying something stupid and losing the sale. As soon as I see I just turned the customer off, I apologize to him for running my mouth in an attempt to salvage the sale. Sometimes it works, sometimes he just pays me to go away, LOL! When that happens, I'll send over a girl who is probably more to his liking. If I'm not making money on this customer, someone should!

    The key thing to remember is that they want you to seduce them. Our job is to figure out how that works for the individual you are talking to.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lily_Evans View Post
    Hey Girls,

    Just wondering what everyone thought of this. I've been dancing about twice a week for two months. To be honest, I'm a bit too sweet and I know that; I chat for too long about general things, and I tell them about myself and bla bla bla. I still make fairly good money this way, but I see some girls getting men into VIP over and over and over.

    One of the top earners pulled me to one side in the dressing room and told me I should be earning the most money. She then pulled me right into her body and whispered "Baby, my pussy is fucking dripping. I wanna get your cock hard. Come with me and get your cock hard."

    I'm such a prude it made me giggle like a little girl but she was DEAD serious and said I should be hustling every guy in this way.

    What do you think? xxx
    Lol I've been told the same thing!! There's a girl at my club who makes A LOT of money and she really isn't that great looking tbh but to make her money she talks super dirty. She's told me that I could be making so much money if I was like that hahah. I know I can but I know it would sound forced so I'm trying to work in the middle and also try to gauge the customer to see if that's their thing!

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    I can't do it. I giggle too much. The ones that get me are the subs. "Fuck my ass! I'm your bitch!" etc. Fortunately when you have a huge pair of tits to suffocate people with talking dirty is a moot point. Big boobs solve about 85% of my problems at work.
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    Honestly if you can't say it without giggling, then it probably won't work. To make dirty talk work it has to be hella convincing, because the guy knows, deep down or maybe not that deep depending on how smart he is, that it's fake. Yeah, everything is fake, but I find it's a lot easier to convince a guy you're being real with something like "I'm having such a lovely time, you're so much fun to be around, I so rarely get to have fun like this at work" than "my pussy is so wet I think my knickers might slide off" (that's not my line, I heard some girl say it tonight, I have way to strong of an American accent to ever pull off the word "knickers"....). I've read a lot of posts from customers on this site saying that they don't like dirty talk because it's so fake. If I'm drunk I can pull off dirty talk, but not really otherwise!

    And as always you want to feel out the customer. Some guys are just turned off by it in general because it makes them uncomfortable. I like the line "so, what do you like to do in bed?" because I can tell from the guy's response if he's into dirty talk or not. The ones who are with either turn the question back on me or go into graphic detail about how much they like eating a girl out or fucking a girl in the ass... the ones who aren't just say something like "I don't know, the usual" and just look a bit awkward and I immediately change the subject. It's a good baseline and opens up the possibility of dirty talk without alienating the customer/opening you up to look silly.

    Also, you have to be careful about how graphic you get and in what way. A line outright like that isn't outright PROMISING an extra, but it certainly suggests it and if you're in a really strict club you might get some girl who doesn't like you telling your manager you're promising extras or you could end up with a very angry customer.. I once knew a girl who told a customer "I wish I could have you inside of me" and a few girls overheard her, one of them (who was just jealous she made more money she wasn't an extras girl) went to the manager and said "she told a customer she wanted him inside of her" and the other girls that overheard said she had said something like that and she got fired!

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    I cannot dirty talk for shit. Even the word 'pussy' said in a sexual way makes me cringe. However, you can't just talk about the weather, you're there to make him think of sex. I go for something in the middle:

    Me - "Lovely to meet you, handsome. Where are you from?"

    Him - "Randomtown"

    Me - "Ooh, I had a boyfriend from there once. *lowers voice* Best sex I ever had. Tell me, are all boys from Randomtown as strong/sexy/wild in bed? I bet you are. You look like such a bad boy"

    Him - "some comment about being good/not so good in bed"

    Me - "Oh, you're a bad boy, I can tell" *leans forward, lets bra strap slip off shoulder* "Look! My clothes are falling off just from talking to you! We should head out the back before you get me into trouble! Let's go, bad boy!"

    The good thing about something like this is that you can tell if he's uncomfortable quite early on and tone it down. You haven't said anything so embarrassing that you can't recover from it, and you can take the conversation in another direction if you need to. It's pretty quick too, so you haven't really wasted any time if he turns you down!

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    Quote Originally Posted by PinkiePie View Post
    I cannot dirty talk for shit. Even the word 'pussy' said in a sexual way makes me cringe.
    Love this hustle! Very cute.

    And I agree - "pussy" just sounds so...squishy to me. It makes me cringe just like the word "moist" does. Moist pussy. Oh gawd.

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    Love this hustle! Very cute.

    And I agree - "pussy" just sounds so...squishy to me. It makes me cringe just like the word "moist" does. Moist pussy. Oh gawd.
    Imagine "Moist Pussy' said in a British accent. It's truly awful!

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    I use dirty talk to sell more dances and take up time in vip where i'm not really dancing, just leaning in and talking in his ear. Since he can't see my face when it's right by his ear, I don't have to worry about smiling and giving away that it's an act. I start off with general statements like, "You're getting me all worked up" or "My face is getting red because I'm getting hot." See how they react to those statements. Half of it is just moaning and breathing in their ear like I am really loving it. I will sometimes bring it up before the dances and say that I love talking dirty. If they like it, they will want to see how good you are at it.

    I get pretty graphic if a guy likes it. For me it is a form of laziness! It's easier for me to talk dirty than maintain super sexy lap dance moves.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PinkiePie View Post
    I cannot dirty talk for shit. Even the word 'pussy' said in a sexual way makes me cringe. However, you can't just talk about the weather, you're there to make him think of sex. I go for something in the middle:

    Me - "Lovely to meet you, handsome. Where are you from?"

    Him - "Randomtown"

    Me - "Ooh, I had a boyfriend from there once. *lowers voice* Best sex I ever had. Tell me, are all boys from Randomtown as strong/sexy/wild in bed? I bet you are. You look like such a bad boy"

    Him - "some comment about being good/not so good in bed"

    Me - "Oh, you're a bad boy, I can tell" *leans forward, lets bra strap slip off shoulder* "Look! My clothes are falling off just from talking to you! We should head out the back before you get me into trouble! Let's go, bad boy!"

    The good thing about something like this is that you can tell if he's uncomfortable quite early on and tone it down. You haven't said anything so embarrassing that you can't recover from it, and you can take the conversation in another direction if you need to. It's pretty quick too, so you haven't really wasted any time if he turns you down!

    i really need to use this! it totally sounds like something id say
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    I think it's great that you recognize what you are and what you are not. I like to base my approach based on what I read from them and what fantasy they have placed me in. If you look like a stereotype, I.e. sweet southern belle, it works best if you play off of that. A book that really helped me is called Dance World How to Make it Yours by Carmen Monique. It's a very entertaining crash course.

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